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I Dont Like Sex

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  • #32
    Capt'n Midnight
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 99,663 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    How many people have you friendzoned ? :p


  • #33
    brummytom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    Super-Rush wrote: »
    What the actual fcuk?

    Don't like sex?

    Go talk to the gay people.
    In fairness, I'm pretty sure the OP is gay.


  • #34
    Sir Osis of Liver.
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    When did you last have sex OP ?


  • #35
    kneemos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,609 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    There's someone with a sex issue lets make fun of her.Juvenile morons.


  • #36
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    kneemos wrote: »
    There's someone with a sex issue lets make fun of her.Juvenile morons.


    There's someone looking for attention in After Hours, some people have actually chosen to take them seriously and offer medical advice which is against the Boards.ie's charters, some have indeed chosen to rip the piss because they figure the OP knows well where the Personal Issues forum is if they were actually serious.


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  • #37
    face1990
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,039 ✭✭✭face1990


    KyussBishop wrote: »
    Nothing wrong with it (or you) OP, and it's actually not uncommon. May get a better/less-judging discussion on the LGBT forum.

    I think you're misunderstanding what gay people are. :P


  • #38
    Shamrock231
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 726 ✭✭✭Shamrock231


    face1990 wrote: »
    I think you're misunderstanding what gay people are. :P

    You mean all gay people don't lead lives of celibacy like the catholic church advises them to??? :confused: Who'd a thunk it??? :eek: :pac::P


  • #39
    HondaSami
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    podgemonster wrote: »
    Doing It Wrong!
    rainbowdrop wrote: »
    I'd say your doing it wrong!





    EDIT: Beaten by podgemonster

    Id say doing it with the wrong person.


  • #40
    Scruffles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 955 ✭✭✭Scruffles


    being creeped out and not liking something is not the same thing as asexuality.


  • #41
    OneArt
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭OneArt


    I have to say I always think I do a better job with myself than others do with me. No one's ever been able to get me off sexually. But it's nice to have someone to cuddle with.

    Feelin' ya OP.

    (Not literally)


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  • #42
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,387 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    tallus wrote: »
    If you're masturbating, you do actually have an interest in sex.
    Not necessarily. You have an interest in getting off, a release, but may not want to translate that to having another person involved.

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #43
    rolliepoley
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,871 ✭✭✭rolliepoley


    Stay true to yourself, there aint nothing wrong with you, you just dont have a urge or drive like most people.


  • #44
    Daveysil15
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    tallus wrote: »
    If you're masturbating, you do actually have an interest in sex.
    Wibbs wrote: »
    Not necessarily. You have an interest in getting off, a release, but may not want to translate that to having another person involved.

    Solo sex?


  • #45
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    are you gay OP? I know its been asked before but it looks like it's been overlooked, if you are maybe lgbt forum is more suitable for discussion. Have you talked to anyone professionally? I found sex and intimacy don't always go hand in hand (straight or gay although with the latter things always appear to be more complicated) There's lots of good reading material to be had and techniques you can learn to help develop intimacy with another person. It's up to you.


  • #46
    TheHeretic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 ✭TheHeretic


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward even though im attracted to the guy I just cant make myself do it

    it just creeps me out and cannot wait to bail



    First off, I don't think you are asexual from as best as I can tell. If you find men attractive then surely there is a drive for intimacy and relationship satisfaction with guys that exists within you.

    Tbh, masturbation could be part of the problem as it decreases the sex drive and makes a person feel more sedated. It lowers the potency of the vital sex hormones in your body, which you need not just for healthy sexual relationships, but for everyday activities and general well-being.

    With the bodies neuro-chemical balance revamped after a period of abstinence [even celebrities today are doing this, it's an age-old technique for regain physical/mental health], you'll likely feel a very increased need for contact and relationships with the opposite sex, as well as being more productive in general. I'm speaking from experience, though I was not in the same situation as yourself.

    Btw, the reason I'm bringing up masturbation is because it's the main focus of your sexual attention at present, so I'm not judging, certainly not! Just trying to help :)

    http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap
    http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/


  • #47
    bmm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 912 ✭✭✭bmm


    Deleted User wrote: »

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    Forget about the sex thing for a moment. You also say your not interested in meeting anyone at all. Why?


  • #48
    KyussBishop
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,797 ✭✭✭KyussBishop


    Super-Rush wrote: »
    What the actual fcuk?

    Don't like sex?

    Go talk to the gay people.
    Heh :) Ok I can see how that may get taken wrong...It's not uncommon though, to have asexuality lumped in with LGBT issues, i.e. LGBTA is an acronym you sometimes see for it (with A being asexual).


  • #49
    face1990
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,039 ✭✭✭face1990


    The A usually stands for 'allies', i.e. straight people who are supportive of gay rights etc.


  • #50
    KyussBishop
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,797 ✭✭✭KyussBishop


    face1990 wrote: »
    The A usually stands for 'allies', i.e. straight people who are supportive of gay rights etc.
    Ya, it can stand for both though as well.


  • #51
    Frank Lee Midere
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    The OP says she finds guys attractive. Therefore - not gay.


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  • #52
    Femme_Fatale
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    Frank Lee Midere wrote: »
    The OP says she finds guys attractive. Therefore - not gay.
    Is the OP definitely female?


  • #53
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Frank Lee Midere wrote: »
    The OP says she finds guys attractive. Therefore - not gay.


    Nope, just not female. The OP is a man :D


  • #54
    worded
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,915 ✭✭✭worded


    Perhaps having your breasts numbed could help?

    Numb numb numb numb


  • #55
    Czarcasm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    KyussBishop wrote: »
    Ya, it can stand for both though as well.


    It can indeed, and the acronyms get even worse-

    QUILTBAG has been around a while, but one I heard recently had me think "You can't be fcuking serious?" -

    Fetish
    Allies/poly-Amorous
    Bisexual
    Gay
    Lesbian
    Intersexed
    Transgender
    Transexual Engendering Revolution/inter-Racial...


    FABGLITTER.


  • #56
    kneemos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,609 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Femme_Fatale wrote: »
    Is the OP definitely female?

    He started a thread about being gay so presumably not.


  • #57
    Wacker The Attacker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    Deleted User wrote: »
    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward even though im attracted to the guy I just cant make myself do it

    it just creeps me out and cannot wait to bail


    Don't worry, you're still normal by boards standards


  • #58
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Sex drive is probably suppressed by OP's massive calorie restriction


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