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I Dont Like Sex

  • 28-07-2013 03:32AM
    #1
    Posts: 11,734 ✭✭✭✭


    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward even though im attracted to the guy I just cant make myself do it

    it just creeps me out and cannot wait to bail


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 239 ✭✭purpur1


    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward

    Somebody has had too many vodkas...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 151 ✭✭jay92


    Is It possible to get a picture of your tits?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭podgemonster


    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    Doing It Wrong!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,294 ✭✭✭rainbowdrop


    I'd say your doing it wrong!





    EDIT: Beaten by podgemonster


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,352 ✭✭✭gallag


    Sex doesn't like you.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    You know yourself, if you've no interest in having sex that's fine. Don't feel pressured or view yourself as being strange for not having the desire.

    Just do what makes you happy, who knows if you meet somebody you really like you might rethink the situation. If you still feel the same way who cares, you do exactly what you want to do, stay true.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 151 ✭✭jay92


    Become a prostitute


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 3,887 ✭✭✭dmc17


    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward even though im attracted to the guy I just cant make myself do it

    it just creeps me out and cannot wait to bail

    You should try it. You might like it :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,333 ✭✭✭Zambia


    Wear crocs then no one will sleep with you anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,828 ✭✭✭Reamer Fanny


    55 0s wrote: »
    Same, no interest.

    Though I've come to just not stand people in general. Unless I have to. They just let you down cuz they're all cnuts.

    Wanna hug?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,585 ✭✭✭✭Collie D


    I once went through a stage of not being interested in sex. It will pass. Can't get enough now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,333 ✭✭✭Zambia


    Collie D wrote: »
    I once went through a stage of not being interested in sex. It will pass. Can't get enough now.

    The joy will do that to you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 109 ✭✭SolarFlash


    You should look into Involuntary celibacy See this forum

    http://incel.myonlineplace.org/forum/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,801 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    whatever you do OP please dont marry some poor chump and lock him into a sexless marriage and he then ends up posting in PI


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    How can you not like sex you freak. It is the drive; the life force I just don't like how people will step on each others toes to get it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    Oh right... well I've come to depend on that too. Heartbreaks a bitch; time to move on I reckon :o I was saying the same thing 3yr ago.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭gctest50


    whatever you do OP please dont marry some poor chump and lock him into a sexless marriage and he then ends up posting in PI starting a blog


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    But do you still like cuddling/snuggling?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭Daveysil15


    SolarFlash wrote: »
    You should look into Involuntary celibacy See this forum

    http://incel.myonlineplace.org/forum/

    What does Incel have to do with not having an interest in sex?


  • Posts: 11,734 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    But do you still like cuddling/snuggling?


    yes I do


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,609 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Sympathetic bunch I must say.A word with you're GP would be the place to start op most people here haven't even bothered to read what you've written.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,297 ✭✭✭Son0vagun


    I Dont Like Sex or anything like it kissing etc

    does that make me asexual so

    im not interested in meeting anyone at all

    though I still find guys attractive and I still masturbate

    im just not interested in taking things forward even though im attracted to the guy I just cant make myself do it

    it just creeps me out and cannot wait to bail

    You're probably better in all honesty.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,943 ✭✭✭smcgiff


    kneemos wrote: »
    Sympathetic bunch I must say.A word with you're GP would be the place to start op most people here haven't even bothered to read what you've written.

    Both you and the OP have a over three thousand posts and I'm pretty sure ye know ye are posting in after hours.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    yes I do

    Then take it from there. If you feel its not improving, go to your GP. Might be stress, depression or hormonal issue.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,797 ✭✭✭KyussBishop


    Nothing wrong with it (or you) OP, and it's actually not uncommon. May get a better/less-judging discussion on the LGBT forum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,065 ✭✭✭Wabbit Ears


    meh, like anything your interest wanes and you dont care for sex, This happens. At least there is always wánking to keep you ticking along through all those dips.

    Srsly, if you had given up the ould rub and tickle, THAT would have been weird.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,167 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    OP, I've had a quick look through your posts. I really think you should seek counselling, or pop in and have a chat with your doctor and he might be able to make a suggestion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Nothing wrong with it (or you) OP, and it's actually not uncommon. May get a better/less-judging discussion on the LGBT forum.

    What the actual fcuk?

    Don't like sex?

    Go talk to the gay people.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 328 ✭✭becost


    Are you a nun?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,324 ✭✭✭tallus


    If you're masturbating, you do actually have an interest in sex.


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