Women being influenced by their friends

Festy · 23-06-2013 04:39AM #1

Was out the last night talking away to who I thought was a nice enough girl,was getting on very well with her,but then when of her friends came up and dragged her away,so around a half hour later bumped into her again and she said I'm not interested

btw I'm not saying this about all women ofc,but has anyone else encountered anything similar like this ?

The Backwards Man · 23-06-2013 04:46AM

I was talking to a man tonight about the weather. I seen him later on and he asked me do I cut hay. I said I didn't.

MadsL · 23-06-2013 04:52AM

Festy wrote: »

Was out the last night talking away to who I thought was a nice enough girl,was getting on very well with her,but then when of her friends came up and dragged her away,so around a half hour later bumped into her again and she said I'm not interested

btw I'm not saying this about all women ofc,but has anyone else encountered anything similar like this ?

No. Just you.

Festy · 23-06-2013 04:54AM

MadsL wrote: »

No. Just you.

Rabies · 23-06-2013 04:55AM

Festy wrote: »

Was out the last night talking away to who I thought was a nice enough girl,was getting on very well with her,but then when of her friends came up and dragged her away,so around a half hour later bumped into her again and she said I'm not interested

btw I'm not saying this about all women ofc,but has anyone else encountered anything similar like this ?

If the conversation with you was interesting or she liked you, then she would have stayed and chatted.
Sounds like the initial conversation was just her being nice.

Don't blame her friends for this one.

try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_i1-UC5AWI

Festy · 23-06-2013 04:58AM

Rabies wrote: »

If the conversation with you was interesting or she liked you, then she would have stayed and chatted.
Sounds like the initial conversation was just her being nice.

Don't blame her friends for this one.

try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_i1-UC5AWI

No,we were getting on well tbh,it was definitely one of her friends who put her off me,was probably because I don't drive a Ferrari :rolleyes:

Rabies · 23-06-2013 05:15AM

Yes, of course thats the reason.

Karl Stein · 23-06-2013 05:36AM

You should have said 'excuse me but I spoke to you in good faith of anticipating an adventurous sexual relationship we'd have and you didn't hold up your end of the agreement you'd no idea you entered into'.

You've been cheated out of your dues.

It's a disgrace.

Festy · 23-06-2013 05:42AM

Cathal Cloch wrote: »

You should have said 'excuse me but I spoke to you in good faith of anticipating an adventurous sexual relationship we'd have and you didn't hold up your end of the agreement you'd no idea you entered into'.

You've been cheated out of your dues.

It's a disgrace.

Thank god for the internet :pac:

Tom_Cruise · 23-06-2013 05:42AM

Strong pedo

Festy · 23-06-2013 05:43AM

Tom_Cruise wrote: »

Strong pedo

Welcome back Tom

IM0 · 23-06-2013 05:50AM

Festy wrote: »

Welcome back Tom

from the anals of time?

COYVB · 23-06-2013 05:53AM

She probably texted her mate on the sly with a quick "get over here and get me away from yer man" so she wouldn't hurt your feelings

Unlucky

Festy · 23-06-2013 05:55AM

COYVB wrote: »

She probably texted her mate on the sly with a quick "get over here and get me away from yer man" so she wouldn't hurt your feelings

Unlucky

That's hurts man..:(

COYVB · 23-06-2013 06:00AM

Festy wrote: »

That's hurts man..:(

Let's be honest, it's the most likely scenario

just_be_nice · 23-06-2013 07:13AM

There are so many possible reasons and few of them, if any, should worry you.

Unless you are Gary Glitter et al., :eek: then don't worry about missing out on a woman who might be so easily swayed by her friends!

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 23-06-2013 07:17AM

COYVB wrote: »

She probably texted her mate on the sly with a quick "get over here and get me away from yer man" so she wouldn't hurt your feelings

Unlucky

I also think this.

Lima Golf · 23-06-2013 07:46AM

If I see one of my friends chatting to a guy who I doubt she'd be interested in. I walk over and tap her on the shoulder she'll turn around and either give me the get me out of here eyes or not. If I do get the help me look I pretend its the first time we met in years and insist I drag her off to the bar for shots. I know loads of girls who do this or a similar version. She gave her friends the get me out of here look and they just obliged. It's just unfortunate you had to run in to her again.

It's easier to walk away than explain to an often drunk guy that you're not interested as just like the op they seem to find it hard to believe and blame it on her friends/not owning a Ferrari.

jarvis · 23-06-2013 07:58AM

Don't mind the others OP. her and her friend are quite obviously dirty lesbians. The place is full o them.

Corkbah · 23-06-2013 08:03AM

she was playing hard to get OP ... go back tonight to the same pub in search of her (she cant be out with her mates every night !!!)

Festy · 23-06-2013 08:07AM

Corkbah wrote: »

she was playing hard to get OP ... go back tonight to the same pub in search of her (she cant be out with her mates every night !!!)

Nah,if she can't think or decide for herself she's not worth it.

Ruudi_Mentari · 23-06-2013 08:11AM

I am still chuckling about yer one who is suing for falling on her arse, in coppers when she was doing "dirty dancing" aka backing into some guy's groin :pac:

Lams · 23-06-2013 08:18AM

Lima Golf wrote: »

If I see one of my friends chatting to a guy who I doubt she'd be interested in. I walk over and tap her on the shoulder she'll turn around and either give me the get me out of here eyes or not. If I do get the help me look I pretend its the first time we met in years and insist I drag her off to the bar for shots. I know loads of girls who do this or a similar version. She gave her friends the get me out of here look and they just obliged. It's just unfortunate you had to run in to her again.

It's easier to walk away than explain to an often drunk guy that you're not interested as just like the op they seem to find it hard to believe and blame it on her friends/not owning a Ferrari.

It's the classic "saving your friend move".

OP next time your talking to a girl tell her if she doesn't say something interesting soon you'll give your friend the signal to save you.

And for the craic if you want to annoy the girl who wants to be "saved", say "Hey, introduce me to your friend, it's the polite thing to do".

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 23-06-2013 08:22AM

Yes it's called saving your friend, usually you drag your friend off when she mouths "help me!" Over to you, or if she looks like she wants to get away.

The fact that she wasnt interested had very little to do with her friends most likely

mattjack · 23-06-2013 08:35AM

Lima Golf wrote: »

If I see one of my friends chatting to a guy who I doubt she'd be interested in. I walk over and tap her on the shoulder she'll turn around and either give me the get me out of here eyes or not. If I do get the help me look I pretend its the first time we met in years and insist I drag her off to the bar for shots. I know loads of girls who do this or a similar version. She gave her friends the get me out of here look and they just obliged. It's just unfortunate you had to run in to her again.

It's easier to walk away than explain to an often drunk guy that you're not interested as just like the op they seem to find it hard to believe and blame it on her friends/not owning a Ferrari.

To combat this behaviour , you need a Wingman of a high calibre. At a preset moment he should rush up to you , saying "lets go,they need us , the orphanage is blazing ".Return to pub later soaking wet and covered in dirt.

She,ll very quickly tell her friends to **** off .

Make sure he varies this tactic , in some parts of the country wimmins like AI men, others like a farmer with
good road frontage etc

BillyMitchel · 23-06-2013 08:37AM

Festy wrote: »

Was out the last night talking away to who I thought was a nice enough girl,was getting on very well with her,but then when of her friends came up and dragged her away,so around a half hour later bumped into her again and she said I'm not interested

btw I'm not saying this about all women ofc,but has anyone else encountered anything similar like this ?

Do you even lift?

Singularity 1 · 23-06-2013 08:40AM

It's possible her friend was jealous and didn't want you chatting to her.

COYVB · 23-06-2013 08:44AM

Singularity 1 wrote: »

It's possible her friend was jealous and didn't want you chatting to her.

No it's not. Let's call a spade a spade here

Boofle · 23-06-2013 08:47AM

Singularity 1 wrote: »

It's possible her friend was jealous and didn't want you chatting to her.

No it's far more likely that the girl just wasn't interested and her friend was just helping her out.. If she was into you she wouldn't let her friend drag her away from you. We do have our own minds you know!

Corkbah · 23-06-2013 08:51AM

BillyMitchel wrote: »

Do you even lift?

I get this !! ... but not thanking the post because I thought the videos were crap (for those that don't know its a reference to a previous AH thread where a guy would "prank" muscular guys saying they look like they dont even lift weights etc etc)

pretty poor attempt at humour

Lams · 23-06-2013 09:02AM

OP don't let the girl know you are interested in her until you know she is interested in you. To alleviate any worries she may have in the beginning that she'll be stuck with you say you have to leave in a minute so it will buy you some time to make her laugh and become interested.

Women being influenced by their friends

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