Never been in love?

JamJamJamJam · 20-06-2013 10:56PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

In two hundred thousand years time some probe from a far away planet will be trawling these threads and think all we ever talked about was love, the dole, travellers, and jam.:(

Where would they get that idea?

ToddyDoody · 21-06-2013 12:27AM

Singularity 1 wrote: »

Is this the case with you? I have been in a few relationships but nothing that I would consider love. They were still some great times though. Some people say they thought they were in love until they met someone else. A lot of people settle for someone too which obviously isn't love. Is it really needed to be happy?

I'm 27 and have never been in a formal relationship. Generally, I've been 'in love' with people who don't love me. People who claim to love me have been friends but nothing further. I wouldn't be the most conducive to the whole 'love' package, making the whole thing grind along fairly slowly and painfully. If I do remain alone, it would be a shame but id be the first to acknowledge how difficult I am on these things.

IM0 · 21-06-2013 12:45AM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

The first girl I thought I was in unrequited love with, my big romantic gesture was sticking a pound coin in her pencil case when she wasn't looking.:o

is that a euphamism.....

The Backwards Man wrote: »

She didn't even know who gave it to her, it was a pretty disastrous attempt at seduction alright. :pac:

.....and if so, there is a name for that you know, you sicken me :mad:

The Backwards Man · 21-06-2013 01:01AM

IM0 wrote: »

is that a euphamism.....

.....and if so, there is a name for that you know, you sicken me :mad:

Na. straight up, that's what I did, I remember like it was yesterday, I always got a pound coin going to school for two sausage rolls and a wee carton of Kulana orange juice, and this one day I stuck it this girl's pencil case that I had a crush on, for some bizarre reason

Even remember the pencil case, it was one of those kinda hairy fluffy pink ones.

IM0 · 21-06-2013 01:01AM

the thing is, which came first, songs/movies about love, or love itself

its like one of those manufactured words, like valentines day really

like has been said before, its more a teenage thing, when you hit a certain level of maturity chances are you just play the 'love of film' to convince yourself its the same feelings, but its not, cause you are not full of the crazy hormones of the teenage years.

maybe there is only unrequited love, but not love itself! the definition being its the not being able to have the person you want so badly, but if you do finally get your hands on that person after a while the love goes cause they arent going anywhere usually cause you WERE both in love with each other at the beginning [unrequited love] in the first place! but now that things become steady and safe the love fades, so you cant be in 'love' in a stable relationship! *rubs chin*

or to put it another way, unrequited love is much much stronger feelings than that of love itself

Tigger · 21-06-2013 01:08AM

professore wrote: »

Just spent the last 15 minutes tracking down that song ... Long forgotten 80s classic

you suck at googling

strandsman · 21-06-2013 01:13AM

A man walks up to a girl at a the till in a shop. He puts his groceries on the belt and while she scans them through she keeps looking at him. He had one of everything, 1 pint of milk, 1tin of beans, 1apple, 1banana etc . He notices her looking at him and thinks "I'm in here" so he says to her I bet your wondering if I am single aren't you..... she replies nope I'm just thinking that your a very ugly bo@#$ cks:-):-):-):-)

dd972 · 21-06-2013 01:15AM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

In two hundred thousand years time some probe from a far away planet will be trawling these threads and think all we ever talked about was love, the dole, travellers, and jam.:(

Don't forget Gays and Travellers.

Oversight, you did mention the T word.

StickyIcky · 21-06-2013 01:21AM

Sauve wrote: »

But shouldn't everyone, man or woman strive to do the best that we can and end up with the most suitable partner?
You wouldn't buy a car that wasn't up to scratch, would you?

If it was cheap and a good ride I would!

shrewd · 21-06-2013 01:22AM

L.O.V.E

S28382 · 21-06-2013 01:26AM

I like my girlfriend more than i love her...liking your partner is more important than loving them.

Tigger · 21-06-2013 01:27AM

S28382 wrote: »

I like my girlfriend more than i love her...liking your partner is more important than loving them.

er: no

ToddyDoody · 21-06-2013 01:27AM

Everyone's been in love, actually. YOUR MOTHER. YOUR FATHER. The template for your (and my) future loves comes from your relationship with your parent of the opposite sex, or same sex if you're... Quirky.

S28382 · 21-06-2013 01:30AM

Tigger wrote: »

er: no

I do love her but i like her more........sometimes.

af_thefragile · 21-06-2013 04:16PM

Not sure about the first time but pretty sure about the second time...

morewrong · 21-06-2013 04:20PM

because?

DoozerT6 · 21-06-2013 06:32PM

I've never been in love, and likewise nobody has ever been in love with me.

What's it like?

Singularity 1 · 21-06-2013 06:34PM

I think some people say they're in love until they meet someone better and then say, "no wait... now im in love."

The Backwards Man · 21-06-2013 06:36PM

DoozerT6 wrote: »

I've never been in love, and likewise nobody has ever been in love with me.

What's it like?

It's like stepping on the Moon for the first time.

iwantmydinner · 21-06-2013 06:37PM

Singularity 1 wrote: »

I think some people say they're in love until they meet someone better and then say, "no wait... now im in love."

True dat. Think it happens an awful lot of people actually!

Captain Chaos · 21-06-2013 06:38PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

It's like stepping on the Moon for the first time.

And what's that like.

Singularity 1 · 21-06-2013 06:41PM

Captain Chaos wrote: »

And what's that like.

Like you're on drugs.

The Backwards Man · 21-06-2013 06:42PM

Captain Chaos wrote: »

And what's that like.

Fcuked if I know.:pac:

Potatoeman · 21-06-2013 06:46PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

The first girl I thought I was in unrequited love with, my big romantic gesture was sticking a pound coin in her pencil case when she wasn't looking.:o

Did she enjoy the pounding. ;-)

Czarcasm · 21-06-2013 06:49PM

DoozerT6 wrote: »

I've never been in love, and likewise nobody has ever been in love with me.

What's it like?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHtdGJfVd2w

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ptzs0298kM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqqxJE-MqFo

Answers all your questions

af_thefragile · 21-06-2013 06:49PM

From what I realise, you know you're in love when you start doing lots of stupid and poorly thought out things which you only end up regretting later on...

The Backwards Man · 21-06-2013 06:50PM

af_thefragile wrote: »

From what I realise, you know you're in love when you start doing lots of stupid and poorly thought out things which you only end up regretting later on...

I must be in love my whole life then, now to find out who with. . .:pac:

Captain Chaos · 21-06-2013 06:51PM

af_thefragile wrote: »

From what I realise, you know you're in love when you start doing lots of stupid and poorly thought out things which you only end up regretting later on...

I've being doing that since I was born.:D

af_thefragile · 21-06-2013 06:54PM

Captain Chaos wrote: »

I've being doing that since I was born.:D

Yeah but when you're in love both the frequency and magnitude of the stupid things increases significantly!

The Backwards Man · 21-06-2013 06:55PM

Czarcasm wrote: »

Answers all your questions

From the man that was divorced three times. Ain't that a kick in the head?:p:pac:

Never been in love?

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