Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie

Does anyone feel insulted by the abortion proposals?

1303133353647

Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭clairefontaine


    kylith wrote: »
    Exactly. While I'm aware that my dog is an animal a decision to end her suffering would not be because she is an animal that's broken and should be got rid of; it's about making sure that the ones you love the most suffer the least. The idea that it's somehow preferable to leave a human, especially a newborn infant who has no other experience of the world, dying in agony is repugnant to me. What it says to me is that in some people's eyes humans are somehow worth less than a dog, that we should make them suffer more.

    "We ended our dogs agony because it's an animal, but this human baby born without kidneys should have its life prolonged for as long as we can so it can suffer as much as possible. Because human life is sacred." Well, I'm sorry but imo that opinion is just sick.


    Her mother would probably be a candidate for Dignitas*, but then loveisdivine would be prosecuted for helping her to end her pain.

    *Were that loveisdivine's mother's wish.

    I'm going to deviate a little bit from the main topic but it is related. One of my problems with RC is the glorification of pain and suffering, starting with images of the crucifixion all over primary schools. I find it masochistic and violent. I know it is central to our civilisation and is at the core of our wonderful tradition in Art History, but to me it is the kernal at which the brainwashing is cultivated and grown and does not belong in primary schools. It is essentially an image of the death penalty, a formal execution.

    I do believe in anesthesia and that includes if an abortion is to take place.

    While I love a good meat dinner, I can no longer stomach the idea of veal or lamb either, or of any kind of painful sadistic death where we have the means to make it painless.

    Pain is a deeply Catholic virtue.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    I'm going to deviate a little bit from the main topic but it is related. One of my problems with RC is the glorification of pain and suffering..............

    Pain is a deeply Catholic virtue.

    “Pain and suffering have come into your life, but remember pain, sorrow, suffering are but the kiss of Jesus - a sign that you have come so close to Him that He can kiss you.” Mother Theresa

    Yup. Who was that Irish politician who came out with a heap of steaming bs about "Sure we're all going to end up dead anyway"?

    Found it. He also said “Look, Vincent, men went down the mines and ways, men went into the mines and ways to provide for their family and their health was impaired and they died young. Look, for goodness, life is tough…. Vincent you know that, the ‘The Road Less Travelled’. ‘Life is tough’ that’s the first sentence of it And it was written by a psychiatrist in 1957.” Pro-life Fine Gael TD, Peter Mathews http://www.broadsheet.ie/2013/04/30/it-wrote-itself/

    Similar thinking seemingly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Justin1982


    Genuinely interested: Why would you suspect diy abortion rates are due to a lot of immigration from Eastern Europe?

    My theory is thus......Abortion is possibly quiet common in Eastern europe, or where ever abortion is legal. Knowledge about how to carry out an abortion is probably more freely available and a lot more people are trained in how to carry out abortions........Therefore I am suspecting a flow of this knowledge along with immigration.......Not questioning their morals or anything, just the extent of the flow of knowledge alongside immigration :D

    Alas for all I know abortion is not legal in eastern europe so I could be way off the mark :confused:

    Also since prostitution is a lot more prevalent in eastern europe and I suspect that the numbers of eastern european prostitutes working in Ireland the last ten years has increased dramatically. I suspect that a lot of prostitutes end up pregnant and have abortions. So I'm presuming that a lot of these abortions are carried out DIY or via organized nurses who worked in abortion clinics in eastern europe.
    Yes again my ignorance of these issues is possibly very high. But spinkle a bit of pregnancy in with organized prostitution rings, then it seems like a recipe for disaster abortion wise, especially if they are mixed up with criminal gangs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    You are WAY off the mark buddy. Sorry. Perhaps do some studying of facts? It's called research. I'm not trying to be funny, but it seems you're insinuating that we innocent Irish women are somehow influenced by these European floozies into wanting abortions when NO Irish women ever wanted them before. BOLLOX, tbh.

    Also BOLLOX about the prostitution.

    Oh. Sorry now, misread the bit about this influx leading to DIY abortions. Also bollox.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭username123


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    My theory is thus......Abortion is possibly quiet common in Eastern europe, or where ever abortion is legal. Knowledge about how to carry out an abortion is probably more freely available and a lot more people are trained in how to carry out abortions........Therefore I am suspecting a flow of this knowledge along with immigration.......Not questioning their morals or anything, just the extent of the flow of knowledge alongside immigration :D

    Alas for all I know abortion is not legal in eastern europe so I could be way off the mark :confused:

    Also since prostitution is a lot more prevalent in eastern europe and I suspect that the numbers of eastern european prostitutes working in Ireland the last ten years has increased dramatically. I suspect that a lot of prostitutes end up pregnant and have abortions. So I'm presuming that a lot of these abortions are carried out DIY or via organized nurses who worked in abortion clinics in eastern europe.
    Yes again my ignorance of these issues is possibly very high. But spinkle a bit of pregnancy in with organized prostitution rings, then it seems like a recipe for disaster abortion wise, especially if they are mixed up with criminal gangs.

    Mad theory. Sounds like you don't like Eastern European people. Nothing factual.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Justin1982


    Obliq wrote: »
    You are WAY off the mark buddy. Sorry. Perhaps do some studying of facts? It's called research. I'm not trying to be funny, but it seems you're insinuating that we innocent Irish women are somehow influenced by these European floozies into wanting abortions when NO Irish women ever wanted them before. BOLLOX, tbh.

    Also BOLLOX about the prostitution.

    Oh. Sorry now, misread the bit about this influx leading to DIY abortions. Also bollox.
    Hmmmm.....Think you misunderstand me......I'm not too bothered about whether Irish women are influenced or not......Doubt they are influenced at all by eastern european women at all.

    I'm more proposing (or questioning whether its a reality) that immigrants from eastern europe are more likely to carry about DIY abortions rather than travel abroad. Especially if they come from places where abortion is common knowledge or where people are trained in it. It does happen in Britain (I've seen an undercover documentary by Channel 4 on it a few years ago) so it probably does happen in Ireland. I'm just wondering to what extent it happens.

    And a lot of eastern european criminals gangs have come to Ireland the last ten years. Thats common knowledge. Women will come with them. Some of the gangs are involved in organized prostitution around the country. And I'd suspect that a lot of the women get pregnant. And I doubt the men controlling the women are overly eager to send them on an all expenses trip to Britain for an abortion if they can do it underground here.

    Then if one considers Irish organized gangs involved in prostitution or who are taking advantage of women in other ways.

    Personally I think your a bit innocent if you think that sort of thing doesnt happen at all. It most definitely does. I was originally questioning the extent to which it goes on because, yes, I am quiet ignorant on figures.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Justin1982


    Mad theory. Sounds like you don't like Eastern European people. Nothing factual.

    Its nothing to do with not liking anyone :P

    But I doubt that too many Irish nurses are trained in how to give abortions so I doubt that they are involved too much in underground abortions.

    If nurses who are trained come from a country where they are trained in abortion then I suspect that they could be involved in underground abortion, particularly if they are involved with a dodgy element of an immigrant community.

    I'm not saying that Eastern Europeans are dodgy.......But I'm sure that a section of every society has its black spots unfortunately :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Personally I think your a bit innocent if you think that sort of thing doesnt happen at all. It most definitely does. I was originally questioning the extent to which it goes on because, yes, I am quiet ignorant on figures.

    Right yeah, I misunderstood your intent. It wasn't clear. Now it is. I also went back to read your original post, and you do seem spectacularly ignorant on figures! We don't have figures on DIY abortions - all we have is how many abortion pills have been stopped by customs (clearly, we don't know how many weren't, do we?). All I can tell you is that the financial difficulty for most women to travel for an abortion makes buying pills online a much more attractive option.

    I do not understand your focus on European women and prostitution? You are THAT misinformed about Irish women's difficulties in accessing abortion services (numbers involved, etc.), you'd think the place to start your research would be with that, not with other EU women. Why the focus? It's a good bit off topic too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Its nothing to do with not liking anyone :P

    But I doubt that too many Irish nurses are trained in how to give abortions so I doubt that they are involved too much in underground abortions.

    If nurses who are trained come from a country where they are trained in abortion then I suspect that they could be involved in underground abortion, particularly if they are involved with a dodgy element of an immigrant community.

    I'm not saying that Eastern Europeans are dodgy.......But I'm sure that a section of every society has its black spots unfortunately :D

    I think someone (Morag?) already answered that for you. It would be foolhardy to be performing surgical abortion procedures here and probably unnecessarily risky. I haven't heard of any cases anyway.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,943 ✭✭✭wonderfulname


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Yes again my ignorance of these issues is possibly very high.

    Very, very high. I really don't understand how people can come to conclusions they deem valid based entirely on their own musings and half forgotten observations. None of the assumptions your theory is based on hold true, I could put time into digging up references and disproving what you have said, but it seems ridiculous to do when you haven't attempted to qualify your musings yourself.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 272 ✭✭rox5


    It amazes me how these people say that killing foetuses is wrong, but once these babies come into the world and go through serious problems in their lives (bullying, mental illness, abuse, ect.) then they are completely ignored or not fully helped.

    They have no right to decide if a mother should have an abortion, pro-lifers can go on about how these mothers will regret their abortions,
    but there are also some mothers who regret giving up their babies for adoption, or some mothers who regret having children at all, therefore putting the child who did not ask to be born though pain.

    And anyway, sending Enda letters in blood? Do they really think doing something like that will make them look good in anyway possible?


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Amanda Tangy Halogen


    bluewolf wrote: »
    I'd say he'd have noticed quick sharp if there was porn on those leaflets, or any other very unsavoury inappropriate content for kids

    He's resigned now
    http://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/school-chair-resigns-in-anti-abortion-row-1.1434746


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Good riddance!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭jaja321


    Good riddance is right. Just goes to show, as if further proof were needed, the sheer arrogance and delusion that still exists around this issue - did he not realise that parents would quite rightly go mental about their children being used like this?! What utter stupidity.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,016 ✭✭✭lilmissprincess


    Is there anything being done about the teachers who distributed them?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    it should be but I'm sure it won't. Headmaster should be gone too. And this has nothing to do with the issue, I think that should be done whenever someone tries to use children for any kind of (political) agenda.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,025 ✭✭✭MaxWig


    meeeeh wrote: »
    it should be but I'm sure it won't. Headmaster should be gone too. And this has nothing to do with the issue, I think that should be done whenever someone tries to use children for any kind of (political) agenda.

    Slight over-reaction.

    The kids were bringing home leaflets, a very old practice that I can certainly remember in my day.

    It was a gross error of judgement, maybe even cynical, but it is not grounds for termination of employment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,739 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    meeeeh wrote: »
    it should be but I'm sure it won't. Headmaster should be gone too. And this has nothing to do with the issue, I think that should be done whenever someone tries to use children for any kind of (political) agenda.

    I'm not so sure action should be taken against the teachers as, for all we know, they were just doing what they were told by giving the kids the leaflets and may not even have known what they were about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    MaxWig wrote: »
    Slight over-reaction.

    The kids were bringing home leaflets, a very old practice that I can certainly remember in my day.

    It was a gross error of judgement, maybe even cynical, but it is not grounds for termination of employment.

    While I don't think teachers should get more than a caution, I think the headmaster is fully responsible. Politics of any kind has no place in school and the headmasters should be aware of that. It's one of the things that should be taken extremely seriously.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,662 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    rox5 wrote: »
    It amazes me how these people say that killing foetuses is wrong, but once these babies come into the world and go through serious problems in their lives (bullying, mental illness, abuse, ect.) then they are completely ignored or not fully helped.

    Or, god forbid, they grow up to be pro-choice!


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 328 ✭✭Justin1982


    Obliq wrote: »
    I do not understand your focus on European women and prostitution? You are THAT misinformed about Irish women's difficulties in accessing abortion services (numbers involved, etc.), you'd think the place to start your research would be with that, not with other EU women. Why the focus? It's a good bit off topic too.
    Ok, I'll try make you happy. Lets call them "women who were not born in Ireland". Anyway, I didnt know that there was an abortion pill so I was presuming that any DIY abortions would have to be surgical to some extent. My focus on foreign women is because trafficing of women into Ireland to work in the sex industry is pretty high. 200+ were known to have been trafficed into Ireland in 2006 so I would imagine the real number is a lot higher. Sexual abuse is probably quiet common and so too would pregnancy I'd imagine. As they are probably under the control of organized gangs then I'd imagine that its not too likely that such women use the traditional crisis pregnancy services that Irish women would so figures are a lot more likely to fall through the net of normal data collection. And I doubt criminal gangs involved trafficing are posting their statistics liberally on the web no matter how much I "research".
    Obliq wrote: »
    I think someone (Morag?) already answered that for you. It would be foolhardy to be performing surgical abortion procedures here and probably unnecessarily risky. I haven't heard of any cases anyway.
    I think it would be fool hardy for gangs involved in trafficing to spend loads of money sending women under their control abroad for abortions and after care counselling. Men controlling a lot of trafficed women are probably abusing them as well. But then again I'm probably wrong, men involved in trafficing large numbers of women are probably gentlemen, waiting on the trafficed ladies every need.
    Very, very high. I really don't understand how people can come to conclusions they deem valid based entirely on their own musings and half forgotten observations. None of the assumptions your theory is based on hold true, I could put time into digging up references and disproving what you have said, but it seems ridiculous to do when you haven't attempted to qualify your musings yourself.
    Prostitution in Ireland and trafficing of women into Irish sex industry is pretty common. I doubt there is any accurate figures out there as its underground. But its common enough for a large anti prostitution campaign to be run in the Republic the last few years. I dont really feel like I have to justify my claim that the abuse of women in the sex industry is fairly common and a lot of them get pregnant and have abortions. Its a bit like trying to convince Catholics that priests were abusing children in the 90's. Believe what you like but I'd be happily shocked if it wasnt the case.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    Oh FFS. :mad: What part of "You are THAT misinformed about Irish women's difficulties in accessing abortion services (numbers involved, etc.), you'd think the place to start your research would be with that, not with other EU women" did you not understand?

    Don't mean to back-seat moderate here, but I'm not on this thread to talk about prostitution. The thread title is Does anyone feel insulted by the abortion proposals?

    I'm sure if you run along to After Hours you'll find a perfectly lovely thread about your particular bias and you'll fit in just fine. I haven't been here in the Ladies' Lounge for long, but the regulars here seem to prefer fact to fiction.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭clairefontaine


    Obliq wrote: »
    Oh FFS. :mad: What part of "You are THAT misinformed about Irish women's difficulties in accessing abortion services (numbers involved, etc.), you'd think the place to start your research would be with that, not with other EU women" did you not understand?

    Don't mean to back-seat moderate here, but I'm not on this thread to talk about prostitution. The thread title is Does anyone feel insulted by the abortion proposals?

    I'm sure if you run along to After Hours you'll find a perfectly lovely thread about your particular bias and you'll fit in just fine. I haven't been here in the Ladies' Lounge for long, but the regulars here seem to prefer fact to fiction.

    I think there is a valuable point to be considered. As Ireland becomes more multicultural, to what extent can it impose strictly Catholic morality on its citizens?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,246 ✭✭✭iwantmydinner


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Ok, I'll try make you happy. Lets call them "women who were not born in Ireland". Anyway, I didnt know that there was an abortion pill so I was presuming that any DIY abortions would have to be surgical to some extent. My focus on foreign women is because trafficing of women into Ireland to work in the sex industry is pretty high. 200+ were known to have been trafficed into Ireland in 2006 so I would imagine the real number is a lot higher. Sexual abuse is probably quiet common and so too would pregnancy I'd imagine. As they are probably under the control of organized gangs then I'd imagine that its not too likely that such women use the traditional crisis pregnancy services that Irish women would so figures are a lot more likely to fall through the net of normal data collection. And I doubt criminal gangs involved trafficing are posting their statistics liberally on the web no matter how much I "research".


    I think it would be fool hardy for gangs involved in trafficing to spend loads of money sending women under their control abroad for abortions and after care counselling. Men controlling a lot of trafficed women are probably abusing them as well. But then again I'm probably wrong, men involved in trafficing large numbers of women are probably gentlemen, waiting on the trafficed ladies every need.


    Prostitution in Ireland and trafficing of women into Irish sex industry is pretty common. I doubt there is any accurate figures out there as its underground. But its common enough for a large anti prostitution campaign to be run in the Republic the last few years. I dont really feel like I have to justify my claim that the abuse of women in the sex industry is fairly common and a lot of them get pregnant and have abortions. Its a bit like trying to convince Catholics that priests were abusing children in the 90's. Believe what you like but I'd be happily shocked if it wasnt the case.

    What has any of that to do with the OP?!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    I think there is a valuable point to be considered. As Ireland becomes more multicultural, to what extent can it impose strictly Catholic morality on its citizens?

    Well that's a point I've been debating many times in many forums and with many people over the past 20 years or so. I fail to see where this Justin person makes that point though, so could you perhaps link to it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭Obliq


    Ok. I'm actually annoyed that you have taken nothing on board that anyone has said to you, so I'm going to show you where you've gone wrong. I'll be the one in red.
    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Ok, I'll try make you happy. Pretty sure I've indicated that facts would be good? Ok, carry on...
    Lets call them "women who were not born in Ireland". Anyway, I didnt know that there was an abortion pill (RESEARCH IS YOUR FRIEND!) so I was presuming (presumption is not cool, as it is generally wrong) that any DIY abortions would have to be surgical to some extent. My focus on foreign women is because trafficing of women into Ireland to work in the sex industry is pretty high. (LINK TO A FACTUAL STUDY?)
    200+ were known to have been trafficed into Ireland in 2006 so I would imagine (Imagining fact is not the SAME as fact) the real number is a lot higher. Sexual abuse is probably (more guesswork) quiet (quite) common and so too would pregnancy I'd imagine. (Again, with the imagination!) As they are probably (...sigh) under the control of organized gangs then I'd imagine (???) that its not too likely (how likely exactly is "not too likely"? What IS it with you and guessing?) that such women use the traditional crisis pregnancy services that Irish women would so figures are a lot more likely to fall through the net of normal data collection. And I doubt (Well, if you doubt it, that's good enough for me....:pac:) criminal gangs involved trafficing are posting their statistics liberally on the web no matter how much I "research".

    Don't worry, I won't attack the rest with red typing as well, but honestly....you have very few facts in that. None actually (that are backed by a link or study), except your own admission that you didn't know there was an abortion pill.

    Don't get me wrong, I'm actually hoping you'll stick around and learn something. Can I ask what is your opinion of the current state of abortion services for Irish women? You have mentioned that you don't know how many women seek them from here and someone gave you actual links to actual facts, I seem to remember.

    What I'd like to know is how you feel about Irish women having to travel abroad to access abortion services? Simple question. Please don't answer it in an immigration context, as that would be irrelevant.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,739 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Justin1982 wrote: »
    Ok, I'll try make you happy. Lets call them "women who were not born in Ireland". Anyway, I didnt know that there was an abortion pill so I was presuming that any DIY abortions would have to be surgical to some extent. My focus on foreign women is because trafficing of women into Ireland to work in the sex industry is pretty high. 200+ were known to have been trafficed into Ireland in 2006 so I would imagine the real number is a lot higher. Sexual abuse is probably quiet common and so too would pregnancy I'd imagine. As they are probably under the control of organized gangs then I'd imagine that its not too likely that such women use the traditional crisis pregnancy services that Irish women would so figures are a lot more likely to fall through the net of normal data collection. And I doubt criminal gangs involved trafficing are posting their statistics liberally on the web no matter how much I "research".
    Justin, you seem woefully underinformed regarding this; there are an awful lot of 'imagine's and 'probably's, and I find the fact that you didn't know that such things as abortifactant pills existed strange. There are several good threads on Boards which detail the proposed legislation, and a plethora of newspaper articles concerning it. I suggest that you familiarise yourself with them. I won't go into prostitution and trafficking as that's not what this thread is for.

    This thread is called 'Does anyone feel insulted....' and I have to say that the most insulting thing is people making sweeping generalisations when they haven't done any reading on the subject matter, especially to the point where they admit they know nothing about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,427 ✭✭✭Morag


    I think there is a valuable point to be considered. As Ireland becomes more multicultural, to what extent can it impose strictly Catholic morality on its citizens?

    Ireland has always been multicultural with people who are non christian and it has been disgusting how the rights of people have been trampled over when the State was founded and the RC Church was allowed to take control of schools and hospitals and the enshrined inequality which was the Irish Constitution from it's very inception.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,390 ✭✭✭clairefontaine


    Morag wrote: »
    Ireland has always been multicultural with people who are non christian and it has been disgusting how the rights of people have been trampled over when the State was founded and the RC Church was allowed to take control of schools and hospitals and the enshrined inequality which was the Irish Constitution from it's very inception.

    I received a letter from a government office, responding to a query I had about education, and they also used the word "enshrined." It's not the Torah or the Ten Commandments. I find that language weird.

    My views on abortion are not straightforward, but I agree with you on the whole about the founding of the state. Independence in Ireland brought a about other slaveries. It makes it hard to think it was such a good thing, especially for Irish women.

    To me, when you celebrate 1916, you are also celebrating the theocracy, the magdalene laundries, the abortion laws, and the treating of the constitution like a sacred cow. The whole thing needs to be rewritten.

    Sorry for going OT there, I just see the abortionissue as part of a much bigger hydra monster.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 95 ✭✭ILikeFriday


    The real issue with the leaflets is one of school patronage. We need to sort that out. The real problem is that there are people with their children in Catholic schools that don't want them educated in a strictly Catholic manner and that is always going to cause problems. We need more alternative forms of schooling either multi- or non-denominational, but in truth, much as I would hate to have any child of mine given such a leaflet, isn't a Catholic viewpoint part of the deal when you send a child to a Catholic school? Again, I'm not blaming the parents. They don't have a choice often. It's the system.


Advertisement