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Heterosexual Pride Day

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    Are all old white men paedophiles? NO

    Are all Muslims suicide bombers? NO

    Are all men cheaters? NO

    Are all women golddiggers? NO

    What, I'm only asking. :rolleyes:

    There you go


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    kfk wrote: »
    There you go

    There you go indeed. How are those questions different from yours?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    I don't think any straight person was made to feel that they were a deviant because they happen to fancy the opposite sex so I don't see the need for 'straight pride'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    kfk wrote: »
    Lets take a straight person raised by anti gay parents. He/She could inherit their anti gay views. They may want to form their own view as they get older so they ask what they want to know. If all they get back from the gay community are answers like these, then how do the gay community ever expect to be free from oppression and persecution?


    While I understand your point (you catch more flies with honey), why is the burden on us to prove we are worthy of equal treatment?

    Shouldn't that just flow from our status as tax paying citizens?

    Surely the burden should be on the group wishing to treat a minority group differently to show good reason, rather than saying you are not worthy of better until you can prove otherwise.

    Anyway, if you didn't take it so personally, you'd see the glib answer actually shows the relative absurdity of the proposition that gay parents will only raise gay babies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    1ZRed wrote: »
    If you ever met me in real life I would answer your questions in a perfectly reasonable way. All my mates were on the homophobic side of things and had some pretty stupid notions about gay people to put it bluntly, but they know better now. I'm very rational on how I approach this because I know that preaching this stuff isn't going to work. Many gay people take that route and more often then not it's not as effective. That's why I do it my way and I've changed the views of far more people by doing it that way.

    You got your answers it's you who's choosing not to listen so then it's somehow our fault that we won't be free from oppression and persecution? That doesn't make any sense.

    I got one reply from someone that thought I was making a point. One sarcastic answer that made little sense. You answered my question in an earlier post but suggested I was being ridiculous. No need to be so defensive with the answers.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    There you go indeed. How are those questions different from yours?

    Mine was a perfectly reasonable question.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    kfk wrote: »
    Mine was a perfectly reasonable question.

    Haha sorry that actually did make me laugh out loud :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    floggg wrote: »
    While I understand your point (you catch more flies with honey), why is the burden on us to prove we are worthy of equal treatment? Without doubt, there should be no burden to prove you are worthy of equal treatment

    Shouldn't that just flow from our status as tax paying citizens? It should.

    Surely the burden should be on the group wishing to treat a minority group differently to show good reason, rather than saying you are not worthy of better until you can prove otherwise. Totally agree.

    Anyway, if you didn't take it so personally, you'd see the glib answer actually shows the relative absurdity of the proposition that gay parents will only raise gay babies.
    So far, I have taken nothing personally. Not for long anyway!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    and you know down the line when they say there are only women, because the men pretty much became them too but yet they could still use their services when required

    if reluctantly; but then that's how this woman only dystopia can only come about, right - if it's gona sustain itself......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,656 ✭✭✭El Inho


    Always thought gay pride was a bit stupid, because there is no straight pride.

    There comes a time when it should be dropped because in my eyes homosexuals are very accepted in modern Ireland.

    Legislation needs to be changed a lot still, but marching won't do much for that.

    The marching simply shows everyone you ARE different. Much like Morgan Freeman hates black history week.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,987 ✭✭✭Legs.Eleven


    OP you're giving me a headache. Can you not look this stuff up and form your own opinions like the rest of us? I'm presuming you're not 5 years old anymore.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,441 ✭✭✭old hippy


    El Spearo wrote: »
    Always thought gay pride was a bit stupid, because there is no straight pride.

    There comes a time when it should be dropped because in my eyes homosexuals are very accepted in modern Ireland.

    Legislation needs to be changed a lot still, but marching won't do much for that.

    The marching simply shows everyone you ARE different. Much like Morgan Freeman hates black history week.

    Should St Patrick's Day marches be stopped, too? After all, they are a celebration of who we are (and like Pride marches, they are very inclusive, even if you are not Irish or gay)?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,441 ✭✭✭old hippy


    kfk wrote: »
    Lets take a straight person raised by anti gay parents. He/She could inherit their anti gay views. They may want to form their own view as they get older so they ask what they want to know. If all they get back from the gay community are answers like these, then how do the gay community ever expect to be free from oppression and persecution?

    :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    OP you're giving me a headache. Can you not look this stuff up and form your own opinions like the rest of us? I'm presuming you're not 5 years old anymore.

    I love asking questions! I am a mine field of information!

    Can anyone explain what the big deal with same sex marriages is? Surely you can do whatever you want behind closed doors? Is sex regulated in some way for homosexuals?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,034 ✭✭✭✭It wasn't me!


    kfk wrote: »
    Can anyone explain what the big deal with same sex marriages is? Surely you can do whatever you want behind closed doors? Is sex regulated in some way for homosexuals?

    Can you explain what it is for heterosexual couples?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 850 ✭✭✭nervous_twitch


    El Spearo wrote: »
    The marching simply shows everyone you ARE different. Much like Morgan Freeman hates black history week.

    Equality does not engender homogeny.

    Different but equal; why is this treated as a perplexing oxymoron?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    kfk wrote: »
    I love asking questions! I am a mine field of information!

    Can anyone explain what the big deal with same sex marriages is? Surely you can do whatever you want behind closed doors? Is sex regulated in some way for homosexuals?

    I would have had you down as more of a vacuum of information.

    I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you're not being serious (at least any more).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    Can you explain what it is for heterosexual couples?

    Its no big deal! It is well known that heterosexual couples try different positions etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    floggg wrote: »
    I would have had you down as more of a vacuum of information.

    I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you're not being serious (at least any more).

    No, my last couple of posts were not serious!:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,563 ✭✭✭stateofflux


    El Spearo wrote: »
    Always thought gay pride was a bit stupid, because there is no straight pride.

    There comes a time when it should be dropped because in my eyes homosexuals are very accepted in modern Ireland.

    Legislation needs to be changed a lot still, but marching won't do much for that.

    The marching simply shows everyone you ARE different. Much like Morgan Freeman hates black history week.

    i see homophobic incidents quite often in dublin. sometimes violent thugs, sometimes just pig ignorant gob****es with the verbals.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Do all straight people ask stupid questions about gay people?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    Do all straight people ask stupid questions about gay people?

    No, not all of them. Of course the odd few will.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,441 ✭✭✭old hippy


    Why do fools fall in love?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    Why do birds sing so gay?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,098 ✭✭✭kiffer


    old hippy wrote: »
    Why do fools fall in love?

    Why do birds suddenly appear...?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 morison4642


    Gay people just do it for attention or to rub it in peoples faces , like those pointlessly camp ones who never shut up about it you have to watch what you say because everything is turned into a stupid inuendo, and before any of you attack me i don't give a **** about gays iv'e even been with a guy myself


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    Jesus....This is after turning into a questions and answers thread!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Why is the Sky Blue?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Gay people just do it for attention or to rub it in peoples faces ,

    I know what you mean. Heterosexuality is flaunted in my face every single day :D

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 546 ✭✭✭kfk


    old hippy wrote: »
    Why do fools fall in love?


    I dont know, but
    "Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love" Einstein


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