Groping

Galwayguy35 · 06-05-2013 08:50AM

Yeah happened to me once years ago, tbh I thought nothing of it at the time.

I see the general response of women seems to be to give him a slap or a thump into the rocks.

If the situation was reversed and a man did that he would be up in court, I'm not defending the groper but if a man came on here and posted that he thumped a woman who groped him he would be taken apart on here.

Butterface · 06-05-2013 11:06AM

Yeah has happened a few times over the years, and when you turn around it's always pure munters. Guess they're not gonna pull so they get ****faced and suddenly think it's okay to cop a feel of whoever's passing by. Pathetic.

Real Life · 06-05-2013 11:09AM

It has happened to me before. There was a hen party in the pub i was in. One asked if she could get a picture with me so i obliged. Next thing theres more of them over trying to pull my clothes off.
I just thought imagine if this was a girl with a group on a stag party. There would be outrage.

mattjack · 06-05-2013 11:16AM

Real Life wrote: »

It has happened to me before. There was a hen party in the pub i was in. One asked if she could get a picture with me so i obliged. Next thing theres more of them over trying to pull my clothes off.
I just thought imagine if this was a girl with a group on a stag party. There would be outrage.

Outrage Joe , outrage.

A few years ago herself , myself and her family were having a few drinks in a hotel we were staying in.

Mrs Mattjack was on the phone in the hotel lobby and as I walked by on the way to the toilets I pinched her arse.

On the way back a hotel manager and some 'ol bat were standing waiting for me.

Turned out the 'ol bat seen me pinching my wife's arse and thought I was some random arse pincher.

anto3473 · 06-05-2013 12:56PM

Once slapped the wrong womans arse in Dicey's... Honestly thought it was someone else...I apoligised and she was cool with it.... awkwarrd though

And twas some slap... The aim was to leave a 2nd handprint on my freind because her and her mates held me down and ruined me with hickies earlier

wished the ground woulda just opened up and swallowed me

April O Neill · 06-05-2013 01:47PM

Lima Golf wrote: »

Kidding...I gave him the stink eye and kept walking

Stink eye.

Reekwind · 06-05-2013 01:56PM

Galwayguy35 wrote: »

I see the general response of women seems to be to give him a slap or a thump into the rocks.

If the situation was reversed and a man did that he would be up in court, I'm not defending the groper but if a man came on here and posted that he thumped a woman who groped him he would be taken apart on here.

Well that didn't take long for a thread on groping to turn to how hard men have it

ruthloss · 06-05-2013 02:01PM

I been in TURKISH markets., never so much as a nudge.:mad:

the_monkey · 06-05-2013 02:22PM

Festy wrote: »

Have you been a victim of this crime on a night out ?

Happened to me last night :mad:

You bloody loved it you did ... :P

But seriously, I have been - and why is it double standards when it's a bloke getting his ass groped by a girl ?

if I returned the "Favour" I'd be kicked out of the bar - but the girl, she's just havin' a laugh like ... grand no bother.

06-05-2013 02:28PM

the_monkey wrote: »

You bloody loved it you did ... :P

But seriously, I have been - and why is it double standards when it's a bloke getting his ass groped by a girl ?

if I returned the "Favour" I'd be kicked out of the bar - but the girl, she's just havin' a laugh like ... grand no bother.

I've been groped plenty of times, including a guy who stroked/touched my vagina while I was stuck in a crowd unable to move away - he wasn't kicked out. I didn't even tell the bouncer because I knew it would be futile.

Yes, girls get away with it. So do men. I don't know why everything has to be divided into male/female. Some PEOPLE get away with it, some PEOPLE return the grope with violence, and some PEOPLE don't kick out the person who's violent. The same way some PEOPLE have the opposite reaction to all those things, regardless of gender.

Edit: And by 'vagina' I don't mean crotch, I mean actually at my vagina - if he had put any more force into it it would have been finger rape.

Paramite Pie · 06-05-2013 03:04PM

I was once in a club and was making my way to the bar, some guy in front of me copped a feel of a girl as he passed by.... she turned around and started shoving me while everyone gave me dirty looks!!:eek:

So make sure you slap/shove the right guy, ladies...;)

the_monkey · 06-05-2013 03:16PM

true-or-false wrote: »

I've been groped plenty of times, including a guy who stroked/touched my vagina while I was stuck in a crowd unable to move away - he wasn't kicked out. I didn't even tell the bouncer because I knew it would be futile.

Yes, girls get away with it. So do men. I don't know why everything has to be divided into male/female. Some PEOPLE get away with it, some PEOPLE return the grope with violence, and some PEOPLE don't kick out the person who's violent. The same way some PEOPLE have the opposite reaction to all those things, regardless of gender.

Edit: And by 'vagina' I don't mean crotch, I mean actually at my vagina - if he had put any more force into it it would have been finger rape.

Well thats inexcusable ...

Staff Infection · 06-05-2013 03:16PM

Was in Coppers (I know, what was I thinking) anyway I was crossing the dance floor as my friends were on the other side. As I was making my way across the packed floor I have the unusual (for me anyway) experience of having my balls squeezed (not gently or anything, no no it was like a vice).

When I made it across the floor my mates were laughing their heads off as apparently I pulled one hell of an odd face when the "incident" occurred. I never understood why the squeezer thought that was an acceptable attempt at courtship, what lad wants his janglers pulverized?

Potential-Monke · 06-05-2013 04:06PM

I seriously have to give this coppers place a try...

Agricola · 06-05-2013 04:12PM

Walking into a pub, a large group of girls were standing in the doorway smoking. Pushed in past them and got a pinch on the arse for my troubles. Probably should have said something but a large group of loud, half drunk women scare me!

Festy · 10-05-2013 09:38AM

Happened again last night :mad: I didn't make a complaint because if I did I would be called gay * Shakes Head"

ofc it's a great laugh for the ladies :mad:

StewartGriffin · 10-05-2013 09:53AM

true-or-false wrote: »

I've been groped plenty of times, including a guy who stroked/touched my vagina while I was stuck in a crowd unable to move away - he wasn't kicked out. I didn't even tell the bouncer because I knew it would be futile.

Yes, girls get away with it. So do men. I don't know why everything has to be divided into male/female. Some PEOPLE get away with it, some PEOPLE return the grope with violence, and some PEOPLE don't kick out the person who's violent. The same way some PEOPLE have the opposite reaction to all those things, regardless of gender.

Edit: And by 'vagina' I don't mean crotch, I mean actually at my vagina - if he had put any more force into it it would have been finger rape.

Vagina? Isn't that some form of chest pain?

StewartGriffin · 10-05-2013 09:54AM

Festy wrote: »

Happened again last night :mad: I didn't make a complaint because if I did I would be called gay * Shakes Head"

ofc it's a great laugh for the ladies :mad:

gay * Shakes Head"

inmyday · 10-05-2013 09:55AM

Festy wrote: »

Happened again last night :mad: I didn't make a complaint because if I did I would be called gay * Shakes Head"

ofc it's a great laugh for the ladies :mad:

Last night, you should have asked yourself, what would Pat Bateman do in a situation like this???
He would go bananas

Festy · 10-05-2013 09:57AM

inmyday wrote: »

Last night, you should have asked yourself, what would Pat Bateman do in a situation like this???
He would go bananas

*Grabs Axe *

Hey inmyday

Freddy Smelly · 10-05-2013 12:08PM

Agricola wrote: »

Walking into a pub, a large group of girls were standing in the doorway smoking. Pushed in past them and got a pinch on the arse for my troubles. Probably should have said something but a large group of loud, half drunk women scare me!

the sad thing with that scenario is it seems acceptable for women to grope men but if it was a group of lads pinching a woman's arse they would all likely get served with a sexual assault charge or a slap in the face

jaffacakesyum · 10-05-2013 12:15PM

Freddy Smelly wrote: »

the sad thing with that scenario is it seems acceptable for women to grope men but if it was a group of lads pinching a woman's arse they would all likely get served with a sexual assault charge or a slap in the face

Why do people seem to think this?

It clearly is acceptable for men seeing as it happens a ridiculous amount of times and nobody sees it as a big deal. Every single time I go out to a club it happens at least once, I get my ass or tits groped and same as my other female friends. You turn around to give out to the guy and he's there with a bunch of friends laughing - and I've seen a bunch of guys and girls in the same group and the girls laugh it off as well. It clearly isn't taken seriously by the majority of men or women in clubs.

Festy · 11-05-2013 05:55AM

jaffacakesyum wrote: »

Why do people seem to think this? It clearly is acceptable for men seeing as it happens a ridiculous amount of times and nobody sees it as a big deal. Every single time I go out to a club it happens at least once, I get my ass or tits groped and same as my other female friends. You turn around to give out to the guy and he's there with a bunch of friends laughing - and I've seen a bunch of guys and girls in the same group and the girls laugh it off as well. It clearly isn't taken seriously by the majority of men or women in clubs.

The difference is if you made a complaint to security they would most likely throw his ass out of the club,but if a bloke made a complaint the security staff would just laugh at him.Double standards when it comes to groping I'm afraid.

11-05-2013 08:52PM

Festy wrote: »

The difference is if you made a complaint to security they would most likely throw his ass out of the club,but if a bloke made a complaint the security staff would just laugh at him.Double standards when it comes to groping I'm afraid.

How do you know this?

Whenever I've been groped it's never seemed to me that a complaint would be taken seriously. I really don't think it would be.

If I was in Coppers, and someone in the crowd pinched my as while I was passing, do you really think I could just go up to a bouncer and say "He pinched my ass, throw him out"?

Mariasofia · 11-05-2013 09:00PM

Really when you think of it the level of offence taken is all relative to the attractiveness of the groper. If he's seriously fugly - highly indignant. Cute - (and accompanied by cheek wink) ah feck it these things happen

11-05-2013 09:14PM

Mariasofia wrote: »

Really when you think of it the level of offence taken is all relative to the attractiveness of the groper. If he's seriously fugly - highly indignant. Cute - (and accompanied by cheek wink) ah feck it these things happen

Not me to be honest, when I feel a pinch or a grope, and I turn around to give them a dirty look (the bad kind), I've already decided before I look at the guy that he's a creep, it doesn't matter if I see a chisel-jawed tower of muscle or a decrepit oul fella, there's no chance I'll think they're attractive.

In line with the "it's alright if he's a ride" aspect, I also don't think it's suddenly okay if it's another woman, or a gay guy.

TeddyTedson · 12-05-2013 07:58PM

As a man i'll admit I love when I get groping on a night out. I think deep down every guy is almost flattered when someone pinches their bum. Niiice

discus · 12-05-2013 08:13PM

Mariasofia wrote: »

Really when you think of it the level of offence taken is all relative to the attractiveness of the groper. If he's seriously fugly - highly indignant. Cute - (and accompanied by cheek wink) ah feck it these things happen

This is what we're up against.

Mr Tibbs · 12-05-2013 08:35PM

TeddyTedson wrote: »

As a man i'll admit I love when I get groping on a night out. I think deep down every guy is almost flattered when someone pinches their bum. Niiice

I'm heading out to the pub tonight I live in hope I might get groped. :cool:

The Barefoot Pizza Thief · 12-05-2013 08:49PM

Mariasofia wrote: »

Really when you think of it the level of offence taken is all relative to the attractiveness of the groper. If he's seriously fugly - highly indignant. Cute - (and accompanied by cheek wink) ah feck it these things happen

If that's the case, then you're not offended by being groped at all.

What offends you is "fugly" looking men.

Groping

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