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8 year old boy marries 61 year old woman

  • 11-03-2013 11:33AM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4833913/8-year-old-schoolboy-marries-a-61-year-old-mum-of-five.html
    SCHOOLBOY aged eight ties the knot — with a woman aged 61.

    Little Sanele Masilela got hitched in front of 100 guests to mum-of-five Helen Shabangu, who already has a husband.

    The couple swapped rings and kissed in the ceremony in Tshwane, South Africa, which Sanele claimed his dead ancestors ordered him to arrange.

    But he and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not live together.

    His family, who forked out £1,500 on the wedding, insisted it was only a ritual and was not legally binding.
    Sanele said: “I told my mother I wanted to get married as I really did want to.
    “I’m happy that I married Helen. When I’m older I will marry a lady my own age.”

    The boy’s 46-year-old mum Patience said: “Sanele’s grandfather asked him to get married before he died. He chose Helen because he loves her.
    “By doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn’t, something bad would have happened in the family.”
    Helen said: “It is what the ancestors wanted.”

    very liberal but i'm betting theres no gay marraige there :rolleyes:


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Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 88,968 ✭✭✭✭mike65


    61 year old woman marries 8 year old boy is more accurate!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,362 ✭✭✭Sergeant


    Poor chap doesn't know what he has let himself in for.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,599 ✭✭✭quad_red


    I'm sure they'll be very happy together.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,750 ✭✭✭iDave


    nice


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,038 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    Congratulations i hope they have a long and happy life together


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,352 ✭✭✭gallag


    Mazal tov


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 1,509 ✭✭✭actuallylike


    If the roles were reversed yada yada yada.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,938 ✭✭✭mackg


    By the time he's old enough to care she'll be dead.


  • Posts: 5,172 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    "Until death do you pa... Oh never mind"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,380 ✭✭✭✭Banjo String


    61+8.....

    Joke there somewhere.


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  • Posts: 5,172 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The old "Half your age minus 22" rule.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,808 ✭✭✭FatherLen


    that's a nice suit.


  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Music Moderators, Regional Midlands Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 24,167 Mod ✭✭✭✭Angron


    Seems a bit daft to me that they should do something like this cause their "ancestors wished it", but if it's their culture to believe that, then fair enough.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    It's outrageous that this doesn't happen more often.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,250 ✭✭✭✭mfceiling


    Seeing as the web link directs me to "The Sun" i think i'll pass on even opening this ball of shyte.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,244 ✭✭✭baalthor


    davet82 wrote: »

    There is ! Legalised in 2006 ...

    There was a story in the tabloids a few years ago about an 8 year old boy in India who married an elephant.
    It didn't say whether the elephant was male or female.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    baalthor wrote: »
    There is ! Legalised in 2006 ...

    oops :o

    just shows you how far behind we do be!


  • Posts: 18,046 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Doesn't sound like anything really lifechanging.. Just a traditional thing for their own reasons. Substitute woman for God and we do the same. I don't mean that as a religious rant, just that it's something done for superstition.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,369 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    His dead ancestors must have a wicked sense of humour.


  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators Posts: 11,608 Mod ✭✭✭✭F1ngers




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,366 ✭✭✭✭Kylo Ren


    I wonder if I could ring into work tomorrow and say my dead ancestors want me to stay at home to watch the rest of The Wire, play Xbox and have a few sneaky strokes...

    Well, if you don't buy a ticket... Wish me luck.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 18,183 ✭✭✭✭Lapin


    Which one of them is the millionaire ?

    I'm guessing its her because if not, she could be waiting a hell of a long time for his will to be read out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,837 ✭✭✭TheLastMohican


    Fecking cougar!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,369 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    Fecking cougar!

    Probably too old for a cougar, I'm thinking sabre-tooth tigress.:eek:


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Ellison Green Risk


    His family insisted it was only a ritual and was not legally binding.
    Sanele said:
    “I’m happy that I married Helen. When I’m older I will marry a lady my own age.”

    Not much story tbh


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,837 ✭✭✭TheLastMohican


    ejmaztec wrote: »
    Probably too old for a cougar, I'm thinking sabre-toothless tigress.:eek:

    There you are. Fixed your post :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,753 ✭✭✭davet82


    bluewolf wrote: »
    Not much story tbh

    think of the puns :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,659 ✭✭✭CrazyRabbit


    Erm...they didn't actually marry. And don't live together. It was just a ritual to 'protect' them against some supernatural force they believe in.

    The only thing shocking about this story is that people in 2013 still believe in the supernatural and the need for protective rituals.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,369 ✭✭✭✭ejmaztec


    Erm...they didn't actually marry. And don't live together. It was just a ritual to 'protect' them against some supernatural force they believe in.

    The only thing shocking about this story is that people in 2013 still believe in the supernatural and the need for protective rituals.

    You must be easily shocked.


    I bet the stag night was shocking, and the honeymoon.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3 jj mo


    davet82 wrote: »

    This is a very heartwarming story all done for the right reasons. I do hope that they remain friends and serve each others souls for the remainder of their days.


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