Mothers day coming up on sunday

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 09:58PM #1

Its just another hallmark day like valentines in my opinion. Will you be getting something for your mother.

I'm not so sure if I'll be. You see she has nothing more but contempt for me because i will not submit to her control and domination. Right now it's financial control and domination. Its just another another form of control and domination that was always but in a different way. She views her sons as valuable, that must be provided for and views me and my sister as something that owes her because she gave birth to us and raised us and because we were born without a penis. She doesn't want me at home but wont give the same opportunities that she gave to her lads - spend their money in any way they want, and save whats left over and provide them with more money from any savings she had. An automatic rent she thinks shes entitled to from those born without a penis. From a wage already reduced from work and the rest soaked up and absorbed by bills her lads never had to pay for.

danslevent · 07-03-2013 09:59PM

....I love my Mammy.

Skid X · 07-03-2013 09:59PM

This thread isn't really about Mothers' Day, is it?

PinkFly · 07-03-2013 09:59PM

Personal Issues that way

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Dunny · 07-03-2013 09:59PM

Tight bollix, get your ma something for fs if only even a card like.

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:00PM

All the cards in town says things like..

'to the best mother in the world'

'mum, i love you'

and other such stuff.

Maybe if i had a penis, it might be true

4zn76tysfajdxp · 07-03-2013 10:00PM

ilovesleep wrote: »

Its just another hallmark day like valentines in my opinion. Will you be getting something for your mother.

I'm not so sure if I'll be. You see she has nothing more but contempt for me because i will not submit to her control and domination. Right now it's financial control and domination. Its just another another form of control and domination that was always but in a different way. She views her sons as valuable, that must be provided for and views me and my sister as something that owes her because she gave birth to us and raised us and because we were born without a penis. She doesn't want me at home but wont give the same opportunities that she gave to her lads - spend their money in any way they want, and save whats left over and provide them with more money from any savings she had. An automatic rent she thinks shes entitled to from those born without a penis. From a wage already reduced from work and the rest soaked up and absorbed by bills her lads never had to pay for.

Waaaaaaaaaaa!

IM0 · 07-03-2013 10:00PM

so in short you dont like your mother

HondaSami · 07-03-2013 10:02PM

OP give your mother a break one day of the year, buy her some flowers and try be a bit grateful. If you are a mother yourself some day then you can be the best mother in the world.
Some mothers are crap but then again some kids are crap as well.

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:02PM

Billy Kendo wrote: »

This thread isn't really about Mothers' Day, is it?

Other years I used to acknowledge the day, but why bother?

Xenophile · 07-03-2013 10:03PM

I love my Mammy too.

She would not like to see Hallmark get some extra revenue because of my love.

DEFTLEFTHAND · 07-03-2013 10:04PM

That doesn't sound good at all. You should try and get away from her, you're an adult I presume so she's no right in trying to control your life.

Xenophile · 07-03-2013 10:05PM

On the lighter side!

Mothers day should really be celebrated 9 months after Father's night.

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:06PM

HondaSami wrote: »

OP give your mother a break one day of the year, buy her some flowers and try be a bit grateful. If you are a mother yourself some day then you can be the best mother in the world.
Some mothers are crap but then again some kids are crap as well.

This is a nice post. Cheers.

She absolutely hates me though. She has shown me my place and I'm nothing to her but a financial slave. She's only ever happy with me whenever I'm handing up money to her.

IM0 · 07-03-2013 10:06PM

Im fairly sure Ive developed dyslexia as a result of trying to read that bloc

PizzamanIRL · 07-03-2013 10:07PM

I learned two things from your thread.

1. You obviously don't have kids so you don't know what its like to raise one.

2. You're an ungrateful bitch.

HondaSami · 07-03-2013 10:10PM

ilovesleep wrote: »

This is a nice post. Cheers.

She absolutely hates me though. She has shown me my place and I'm nothing to her but a financial slave. She's only ever happy with me whenever I'm handing up money to her.

You can change that anytime you want, if she is so bad get away from her.
I will go see my mom on Sunday and she will not know my name, if you can make amends with your mom then do.

admiralofthefleet · 07-03-2013 10:10PM

buy her a card ffs op, they are 3 for €2 in the euroshop if your on a budget

Lisha · 07-03-2013 10:11PM

PizzamanIRL wrote: »

I learned two things from your thread.

1. You obviously don't have kids so you don't know what its like to raise one.

2. You're an ungrateful bitch.

Think that is out of order.
I know of one girl in particular whose mother actively dislikes her . Sounds impossible but some mothers are crap.

No one know ops situation so a reaction like yours is not necessary

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:11PM

Her sons could sh1t into a piece of tin-foil and wrap it up and it would be perfect and so precious. I could go all out and what ever gift I get would be returned.

sfwcork · 07-03-2013 10:13PM

Maybe you should sh!t into tin foil so and give it to her

sfwcork · 07-03-2013 10:14PM

Am i the only1 who s wondering

"Hmmm woman with mammy issues..that means she needs a daddy"

0ph0rce0 · 07-03-2013 10:16PM

I don't gotta buy ****...happy days.

My mama be dead

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:18PM

HondaSami wrote: »

You can change that anytime you want, if she is so bad get away from her.
I will go see my mom on Sunday and she will not know my name, if you can make amends with your mom then do.

I would love to make amends. Believe me. How? With money? Gender change?

HondaSami · 07-03-2013 10:20PM

ilovesleep wrote: »

I would love to make amends. Believe me. How? With money? Gender change?

Serious question

If she is that bad why do you stick around? you still live with her?
Cut all contact get on your own life, she is not worth it if she causes you this much anger.

CathyMoran · 07-03-2013 10:31PM

My mother in law died very recently so I am seeing the heartache of my husband as well as the pain of her loss myself. I am also a mother of two very young children. I feel that it has been over commercialised and is tacky at this stage - my children are the best thing to me about mothers day as they and my husband are my everything.

phasers · 07-03-2013 10:38PM

I love my Mam, I gave her the money to get her hair cut the other day and I'll probably get her some flowers and take her out to lunch on the actual day.

But then again I do that most weeks anyway, and my Brothers and Sister spoil her rotten too. Every day is Mother's day for my Mammy

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:45PM

HondaSami wrote: »

Serious question

If she is that bad why do you stick around? you still live with her?
Cut all contact get on your own life, she is not worth it if she causes you this much anger.

Not so much anger. Pure stress. A feeling of lowness and nothingness & I'd be better of dead. She'd be happy with me then.

I was renting away before. I thought maybe when gone she'd change because her income would drop from rent. I thought maybe she would start taking rent of her boys or something for their keep but no. She struggled to do provide for her adult sons. She me to me then for 'loans'. All written off because in her eyes I owed her.

Eventually i fell down upon my ass. Work reduced. Wage reduced from 400 to 200 a week & I struggled. She encouraged me home & she only ever saw me as a money making exercise. Just a means for her to make money. I help when I could. I gave her my rent deposit. & help with bills & happily to do so. In time weekly rent was demanded of me & still is.

ilovesleep · 07-03-2013 10:54PM

Her sons earning more than me and one on the very same as me - nothing was demanded of them.

I live in a rural village. and work locally. I can only afford shared accommadation and that's only available in the city. Public transport has been cut and is very poor with no late buses so getting to work would be okay but from work back into the city - there is no bus. My job which has been so good for me and to me - am seriously considering giving up just to move away.

My mother assaulted me yesterday morning. Not physically. She was in a mood which I sensed straight away after waking and she attacked me shouting. A pure rage in her.

Dwork · 07-03-2013 10:56PM

ilovesleep wrote: »

All the cards in town says things like..

'to the best mother in the world'

'mum, i love you'

and other such stuff.

Maybe if i had a penis, it might be true

Hang around for a bit. When the Stalkers figure out you're a girl, you'll have loads.:D I do get what you're on about though, some auld wans are controlling cnuts. You gots to fight the power:D Mines a right old cow, luckily she has as much influence over me as the local Bishop. Our usual conversations end somwhere around the "Foff Uck" point. I'll get her flowers and a card just to annoy her.:)"To the bestest mammy in the world"Pfffft.

spankysue · 07-03-2013 11:07PM

OP, you keep referring to "Her sons", are they your brothers? That's quite a nasty way to refer to your siblings if they are.

Just 'cause your mother likes them more, that's not their fault.

And tell your ma to go fcuk herself, simple as that.

Mothers day coming up on sunday

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