Girls \ Women Slapping Fellas In Public

Madam_X · 21-02-2013 03:02PM

Yeh, a woman seeking equal pay doesnt deserve manners (like the person ahead holding the door open) shown to her (which should be shown to anyone, whatever gender) - uppity bitch.
The above post actually looks kinda resentful towards women who wish not to be restricted due to their gender (within reason).

It's not right for anyone to strike anyone unless provoked. And even then, a slap does not deserve a hard punch in retaliation. IMO, hitting back should be avoided unless absolutely necessary to defend oneself. In this case, the best course of action IMO would have been for the guy to grab the little weapon's hands and give out sh1t to her. Friends should have intervened also and told her to cop on.

Tombi! · 21-02-2013 03:03PM

Madam_X wrote: »

Yeh, a woman seeking equal pay doesnt deserve manners shown to her (which should be shown to anyone, whatever gender) - uppity bitch.

Not only that but it's actually normal and completely encouraged for two fellas to beat each other up but if it's a man and a woman, the man has no choice but to let his arms fall at his sides while the woman attacks.

We're really advancing the country with these thoughts. :pac:

shedweller · 21-02-2013 03:15PM

kiffer wrote: »

In my experience women are just as violent if not more than men.

But only because the law barely allows a man to defend himself from female assault. If the law placed no distinction between the sexes in this type of case they would be singing a different tune.
Lower class scum is scummy.

--Kaiser-- · 21-02-2013 03:27PM

kiffer wrote: »

In my experience women are just as violent if not more than men.

First I'll establish that either a man or a woman attacking someone for no reason is a scumbag.

Of these scumbags, the female often act more on violent urges precisely because they think they can get away with it, the male has to factor in that it's likely that the other party will retaliate

frank reynolds · 21-02-2013 03:28PM

kneecap her

Super-Rush · 21-02-2013 03:35PM

Crooked Jack don't post in this thread again please.

pickarooney · 21-02-2013 03:37PM

Probably a consensual sub/dom relationship and none of your business.

Greenmachine · 21-02-2013 03:43PM

If he was a proper knacker the correct reaction should have been to throw a hot coffee across her face and smash her phone off the wall. :eek:
I have seen worse

Black Witch101 · 21-02-2013 03:45PM

I had a girlfriend who did that to me in public, so I returned the favour with an open handed wallop right accross her chops and took the smile off her face I can tell you. She ran off in tears, and I was in tears (laughing). My mates all said they wished they had the balls that I have, to hit a bird back who hits you.

Sadderday · 21-02-2013 03:46PM

Black Witch101 wrote: »

I had a girlfriend who did that to me in public, so I returned the favour with an open handed wallop right accross her chops and took the smile off her face I can tell you. She ran off in tears, and I was in tears (laughing). My mates all said they wished they had the balls that I have, to hit a bird back who hits you.

What you get the slap for though? did ya say something wrong?

tigger123 · 21-02-2013 03:52PM

Black Witch101 wrote: »

I had a girlfriend who did that to me in public, so I returned the favour with an open handed wallop right accross her chops and took the smile off her face I can tell you. She ran off in tears, and I was in tears (laughing). My mates all said they wished they had the balls that I have, to hit a bird back who hits you.

You silver tounged devil...

kiffer · 21-02-2013 03:54PM

Sadderday wrote: »

What you get the slap for though? did ya say something wrong?

Victim blame?

Black Witch101 · 21-02-2013 03:58PM

kiffer wrote: »

Victim blame?

I didn't do anything wrong, she had a habit of hitting blokes in the face to get attention: she just hit the wrong bloke in me. Somebody hits me, I hit them back. Man has his pride.

Greenmachine · 21-02-2013 04:00PM

kiffer wrote: »

I got punched in the solar plexus by a girl once and after I got off the floor I shouted the house down about "how dare she hit anyone, if I hit her back I'd have my ass handed to me by any number of guys in the area..."
She said "my friends know I can take myself so ..."
Me: "F u ck your friends, I'm talking about my friends, strangers, the staff in the venue!"

When everything settled down a friend of mine came over to check on me and said "you'd better be dieing after all the noise you just made".

I have been punched in the face by two different women, kicked/kneed in the crotch by another 2... plus that sucker punch makes 5...
This is not counting playfull hitting and I dont recall ever being slapped in the face nor hitting back.

I think I've been punch by maybe 4 guys and one fella tried to start a fight on O'Connoll street one night.
In my experience women are just as violent if not more than men.

Seems to me when a girl kicks off, bouncers will generally go into the damsel in distress mode and loaf the guy out of the said establishment. You were damn lucky to be have an opportunity to explain yourself.

A lot of people are trying to trace the root of the issue in such case to something the guy done. As if this is any kind of justification. I have never heard this in reverse. When have any posters ever seen a guy hit a girl and think, hmm she must have burned his dinner, called him lazy or threw out his corgi car collection. What ever precedes an assault may explain the action.
Just remember that justification and explanation are not equal.

--Kaiser-- · 21-02-2013 04:05PM

Greenmachine wrote: »

Seems to me when a girl kicks off, bouncers will generally go into the damsel in distress mode and loaf the guy out of the said establishment. You were damn lucky to be have an opportunity to explain yourself.

Fact. A friend of mine said something innocuous to a girl in a pub once. She took it up the wrong way, went nuts, threw her drink in his face, slapped him and then started balling crying. Cue him being escorted out of the premises, for being assaulted

eyescreamcone · 21-02-2013 04:09PM

marksman74 wrote: »

I was in Subway the other day around lunch time with my wife, we ordered our food and sat down while it was being prepared.
A group of lads and a girl all aged from late teens to early 20s came in and ordered their food.

4 lads sat to my right and 3 lads and the one girl sat straight in front of me.
One of the lads in front said that he was going up for a drink and asked the other lad and girl sitting with him if either of them wanted a drink aswell.
The other fella said he was ok but the girl never answered him so he asked her again.
She again didn’t answer him as she was on Facebook or something and he said to her jokingly, “Your head is always stuck in that phone”.
With that she stood up and gave him a full force open handed slap into the face.
The lads was obviously taken a back but put on a stupid smile to save face in front of the other lads.
The girl then pulled back and gave him another slap similar to the first one straight into the face in front of the whole shop, all this time with a big smile on her face as if she were having great fun.

The poor lad was mortified and went up and got his drink just knowing that if he had said anything to her, some of the lads he was with probably would have gotten onto him for getting onto a girl.

There seems to be a belief at the moment that the saying “You should never hit a girl \ woman” is a direct license for some girls \ women to openly slap or hit lads in public with the knowing that they wont get hit back.

I’m of the belief that no one, male or female has the right to raise their hand to anyone of any sex, unless its in self defence or defence of your family \ property.

Have any of ye experienced anything like this before ???

In ye’re opinions should this lad have:

A./ Took the slap and public humiliation from this girl, simply because shes a girl

B./ Grabbed her hand and told her not to dream of doing that again

C./ Slapped her back with equal force and asked her how she liked it ot

D./ Pulled back and punched that B***H into tomorrow ?

E. Wait until you both got home ...and later on in the middle of the night... when she went to the bathroom...sneak up to the bathroom door ... pull out your gun...and shoot her through the door...4 times... pretend you thought she was a burglar...Simples!!!

kiffer · 21-02-2013 04:14PM

eyescreamcone wrote: »

E. Wait until you both got home ...and later on in the middle of the night... when she went to the bathroom...sneak up to the bathroom door ... pull out your gun...and shoot her through the door...4 times... pretend you thought she was a burglar...Simples!!!

F. what ever the equivalent of what John Wayne Bobbitt's wife did is.

Ewwww. People are horrible to each other.

CruelCoin · 21-02-2013 04:19PM

Madam_X wrote: »

Yeh, a woman seeking equal pay doesnt deserve manners (like the person ahead holding the door open) shown to her (which should be shown to anyone, whatever gender) - uppity bitch.
The above post actually looks kinda resentful towards women who wish not to be restricted due to their gender (within reason).

Once all other things are equal (pay, status, etc), continued door opening, chair moving, etc becomes not a form of politeness/chivalry but rather a form of emasculation as the man is no longer giving for getting, but at that point gives beyond the 50/50 line. That was my point. Nothing resentfull.

Tombi! · 21-02-2013 04:22PM

CruelCoin wrote: »

Once all other things are equal (pay, status, etc), continued door opening, chair moving, etc becomes not a form of politeness/chivalry but rather a form of emasculation as the man is no longer giving for getting, but at that point gives beyond the 50/50 line. That was my point. Nothing resentfull.

Wha? I'd hold the door open for a man, just like I would a woman.
If a man looks like he needs a sit down, he gets my chair (assuming I don't need a good rest), just like a woman would.

Duggy747 · 21-02-2013 04:28PM

bluewolf wrote: »

Tell him you're a witness to the assault and will provide a statement

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=id1F-hky_mY

Madam_X · 21-02-2013 04:32PM

CruelCoin wrote: »

Once all other things are equal (pay, status, etc), continued door opening, chair moving, etc becomes not a form of politeness/chivalry but rather a form of emasculation as the man is no longer giving for getting, but at that point gives beyond the 50/50 line. That was my point. Nothing resentfull.

Manners/politeness have a hidden agenda? News to me. How is manners/politeness from a man to a woman "emasculating" seeing as men should be somewhat mannerly/polite to men, and ditto women to men/women.

GalwayGuy2 · 21-02-2013 04:38PM

In this case, the best course of action IMO would have been for the guy to grab the little weapon's hands and give out sh1t to her. Friends should have intervened also and told her to cop on.

Hmmm, you seem to be under the assumption that the "little weapon" wouldn't be a physical threat?

Sure, on average men are stronger than women, but not all men are and not all women are physically weaker, and in all honesty it take very little strength to breaks someone's nose, knees, knock a few teeth out, blind someone, so on so forth, even while holding their hands. (An errant kick or headbutt)

Which actually could be construed as being aggressive, domineering or even abusive.

IMO, the best course of action would be to just walk away. Yes, it isn't particularly nice for someone to slap you but unless you're in a room full of scumbags they'll probably stop, more by verbal than physical and admittedly after following you and repeatedly hitting you, stop the woman from following you, and if you are in a room full of scumbags if you reply in any violent or non-violent way that could be seen as abusive/aggressive you'll be badly injured.

Dermighty · 21-02-2013 04:39PM

marksman74 wrote: »

I was in Subway the other day around lunch time with my wife, we ordered our food and sat down while it was being prepared.
A group of lads and a girl all aged from late teens to early 20s came in and ordered their food.

4 lads sat to my right and 3 lads and the one girl sat straight in front of me.
One of the lads in front said that he was going up for a drink and asked the other lad and girl sitting with him if either of them wanted a drink aswell.
The other fella said he was ok but the girl never answered him so he asked her again.
She again didn’t answer him as she was on Facebook or something and he said to her jokingly, “Your head is always stuck in that phone”.
With that she stood up and gave him a full force open handed slap into the face.
The lads was obviously taken a back but put on a stupid smile to save face in front of the other lads.
The girl then pulled back and gave him another slap similar to the first one straight into the face in front of the whole shop, all this time with a big smile on her face as if she were having great fun.

The poor lad was mortified and went up and got his drink just knowing that if he had said anything to her, some of the lads he was with probably would have gotten onto him for getting onto a girl.

There seems to be a belief at the moment that the saying “You should never hit a girl \ woman” is a direct license for some girls \ women to openly slap or hit lads in public with the knowing that they wont get hit back.

I’m of the belief that no one, male or female has the right to raise their hand to anyone of any sex, unless its in self defence or defence of your family \ property.

Have any of ye experienced anything like this before ???

In ye’re opinions should this lad have:

A./ Took the slap and public humiliation from this girl, simply because shes a girl

B./ Grabbed her hand and told her not to dream of doing that again

C./ Slapped her back with equal force and asked her how she liked it ot

D./ Pulled back and punched that B***H into tomorrow ?

Be quiet you fool!

Carlos Orange · 21-02-2013 04:47PM

Madam_X wrote: »

Manners/politeness have a hidden agenda? News to me.

I don't think holding a door open and opening a door for someone are the same thing.

Tombi! · 21-02-2013 04:48PM

psinno wrote: »

I don't think holding a door open and opening a door for someone are the same thing.

If you open a door for a woman on the sole fact that it's a woman, you should probably reconsider things.

BrianD3 · 21-02-2013 04:53PM

RE: "heroes" getting involved if you defend yourself from a violent woman, the same pr*cks may get involved if there is no striking just a verbal argument. I remember when I was around 18 I was in an argument with a girl over something really stupid. She was the aggressor and it was her fault. She screamed at me which didn't really bother me much. But what did bother me was the group of white knights who got involved, despite not having a clue what was going they assumed that because a woman was screaming at me, I needed a beating. Sad bastards probably thought that they'd get a ride off her afterwards.

So if you defend youself physically or verbally from a woman in public with men around, be prepared to have to fight those men.

Carlos Orange · 21-02-2013 05:02PM

Brutal Deluxe wrote: »

If you open a door for a woman on the sole fact that it's a woman, you should probably reconsider things.

I never claimed I did. Even if I did an off hand attempt at insulting me isn't going to help the conversation any.

You however replied to someone talking about "continued door opening" with a reference to "hold the door open". If they are different things then trying to equate them is nonsensical.

Pumpkinseeds · 21-02-2013 05:03PM

I think the best thing any man can do if they've been assaulted by a woman is to walk away. Society is programmed to defend the woman regardless of anything else. She sounds like the type who is best avoided. Perhaps this incident in Subway would serve as a wake up call for those lads to exclude her from their circle.

Tombi! · 21-02-2013 05:11PM

psinno wrote: »

I never claimed I did. Even if I did an off hand attempt at insulting me isn't going to help the conversation any.

You however replied to someone talking about "continued door opening" with a reference to "hold the door open". If they are different things then trying to equate them is nonsensical.

That wasn't an insult, sorry if it appeared that way.
They're not different things. It's the same basic job. Opening a door for a woman or pulling out a chair for her is the same thing as manners. If someone looks like they need a chair pulled out or a door opened, Ill do it for them

Carlos Orange · 21-02-2013 05:16PM

Brutal Deluxe wrote: »

That wasn't an insult, sorry if it appeared that way.
They're not different things. It's the same basic job. Opening a door for a woman or pulling out a chair for her is the same thing as manners. If someone looks like they need a chair pulled out or a door opened, Ill do it for them

It seems pretty clear to me that opening a door for an encumbered person isn't what was being talked about.

Girls \ Women Slapping Fellas In Public

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