Broke up with boyfriend - going out in search of meaningless sex?

Scortho wrote: »

Wrong thread for this op. personnel issues would probably be better but I'd advise against it in case you get a unexpected surprise in a month. You're in a vulnerable position at the moment and the worst of men will feed of this. Get yourself a nice tub of Ben and jerrys and sit down in front of the telly. Then next week when you're friends are back meet up with them and head out. At least they'll look out for you.

goinganon wrote: »

I'm not sure why I'm posting this - I think I just want to give myself time to think before I go out and do something rash.

Last night I ended my first serious relationship. We went out for a year and a half and it was incredibly intense - but of us vacillating between being passionately in love with each other and absolutely hating each other.

Basically, it was wonderful, but draining and while I'm sad that things are over, it's for the best.

So, my plan for the night had been to sit in and indulge in some crappy food. Now though I'm tempted to doll myself up and just have meaningless sex with some random man. I've never done the one-night stand thing before - the only person I've had sex with was with the aforementioned ex-boyfriend.

None of my friends are around to go out with me - everyone has gone home from college for the weekend. So, I'm considering getting dressed up and just going to some pub alone and basically just picking someone up. It seems incredibly pathetic and I know I'll probably feel cheap in the morning - but getting drunk and happy seems more appealing right now than wallowing in my sorrows.

After Hours possibly isn't the best place for this....but what do people think about rebound sex in general? Good idea or just a recipe for disaster?

passremarkable wrote: »

u still there op