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Protecting pedophiles is not just a Catholic problem

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Ranicand


    Channel 4 has a feature about this tonight at 10.30 Dispatches.
    A victim of child sex abuse in one of Britain's religious communities goes undercover to expose the way his community has for decades been dealing with paedophilia.

    In a year-long investigation, other victims of child abuse from this closed community express their anger about the lack of justice caused by their leaders' misguided approach to dealing with the issue.

    In some cases those brave enough to complain to the police about their abusers have even been harassed, spat at and ostracised by other community members.

    This Channel 4 Dispatches special report also reveals that an alleged child abuser was allowed to continue working with children, despite complaints from his victim.

    And other victims, frustrated by their inability to bring child abusers to justice, tell Dispatches they've threatened and attacked those they believe to be paedophiles.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Ranicand wrote: »

    What's the context? In certain cases those who hace experienced abuse may not want or be ready to report and that should be respected. I have seen far too many people bullied into making a report that they did not want to make.

    Now of course that is different to actively trying to prevent a person who wants to report from doing so. I can't access the vid at the moment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,299 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    Odysseus wrote: »
    I have seen far too many people bullied into making a report that they did not want to make.

    Really? :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Zebra3 wrote: »
    Really? :rolleyes:

    Why the roll eyes? Not believe me? Think everybody who experienced abuse wants to take it to court?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    A priest, a minister and a rabbi walk into a shop, what happened after that is a matter for the courts.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,941 ✭✭✭thebigbiffo


    Religion. It makes everyone that bit eviler.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Odysseus wrote: »
    Why the roll eyes? Not believe me? Think everybody who experienced abuse wants to take it to court?

    Having more child abusers behind bars would also be good. Your statement is also true of rape victims (which in many cases are the same thing). What specifically makes you in favour of keeping the abusers out of prison? There are arguments on both sides.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    Sadly, its a well known fact that the vast majority of paedophiles are protected by their own families.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Confab wrote: »
    Having more child abusers behind bars would also be good. Your statement is also true of rape victims (which in many cases are the same thing). What specifically makes you in favour of keeping the abusers out of prison? There are arguments on both sides.

    Yep, I have seen it in rape too. My concern is my client, if he or she is not ready or able to report that should be respected in my opinion.

    That it means that the abuse is not reported is secondary in this case; of course I want to see any abuser child or adult in front of the courts, but not at the expense of the person who has already suffered a significant trauma.

    Would you like to to see the person forced to report against their will?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Sadly, its a well known fact that the vast majority of paedophiles are protected by their own families.

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't Fiona Doyle's family try to prevent her from taking her sick (mentally) and evil father to court?

    I also heard that Jimmy Saville's family kept shtum, because he was giving them money and gifts, and they didn't want it to end, even if he was a paedo. I don't know who's worse.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Ranicand


    Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't Fiona Doyle's family try to prevent her from taking her sick (mentally) and evil father to court?

    I also heard that Jimmy Saville's family kept shtum, because he was giving them money and gifts, and they didn't want it to end, even if he was a paedo. I don't know who's worse.

    In the Fiona Doyle case the mother suck with the father and sided against her own daughter I think she should be behind bars too.

    As regards Jimmy Saville's family they put a massive memorial on his grave and only got rid of it after the story broke.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,702 ✭✭✭squod


    Big problem in most societies no? Don't think it's all down to white Irish homosexual priests.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Ranicand


    Czarcasm wrote: »

    Thankfully this has never been an issue for me or anybody in my family.

    The Jewish religion seems to be every bit as rotten as our own in respect to protecting evil perverts.

    What I would think would be even more painful for victims is for family to turn their back on them as in the Fiona Doyle case.

    There are going to sickos in all walks of life but protecting the perverts is just evil.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,960 ✭✭✭Ranicand


    squod wrote: »
    Big problem in most societies no? Don't think it's all down to white Irish homosexual priests.

    It was not only homosexual priests many girls faced abuse too.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    squod wrote: »
    Big problem in most societies no? Don't think it's all down to white Irish homosexual priests.


    I wouldn't think any of it is down to white Irish homosexual priests. I think its down to paedophile priests.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 104 ✭✭mightdomighty


    Ranicand wrote: »
    The Jewish religion seems to be every bit as rotten as our own in respect to protecting evil perverts.

    It's not specific to any particular religion really.

    Some people are just c*nts


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    Every religion/ cult has similar problems.

    If you notice in many cults, the 'leader' will invariably have been told by 'god', that he must be given cash, or that he must be allowed sleep with whomever he so wishes, be it the wives in his congregation, or, in other cases, children.

    "It must be true, cos he told us!"

    It's always the same.

    As regards the OP; jewish rabbis recently made the headlines, with news of them putting their lips around the you-know-what, of small boys, being circumsised.
    A group of rabbis is clashing with New York City health officials over the safety of an ancient circumcision ritual.

    Three rabbis and three Jewish groups asked a federal court Thursday to block enforcement of a new regulation requiring written parental consent for a rite called "metzitzah b'peh," in Hebrew, which city health experts said can spread infection and has killed two children since 2004.

    During the ritual, the person performing the circumcision attempts to cleanse the wound by sucking blood from the cut and spitting it aside.

    The saliva contact puts the infant at increased risk of getting herpes simplex, a virus that is carried harmlessly by a large majority of adults but that can be deadly in newborns.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,675 ✭✭✭hidinginthebush


    ScumLord wrote: »
    A priest, a minister and a rabbi walk into a shop, what happened after that is a matter for the courts.

    Did they molest the shop?


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    This is a particular closed sect, as is the case with the Satmar sect in New York.
    Closed insular sects are absolutely ideal conditions for the proliferation of abuse of any kind, because the education is controlled and the abuse can be 'framed' otherwise in the mind of the victim and community at large.

    There are well documented cases of serious abuse in the Amish community, where the abused children (all girls in this case) literally did not have the language to describe or even categorise what was happening, because the Amish give no sexual education, and use no sexual language, nor even name intimate body parts. If you can't say something, how can you accuse someone of it?

    Cults are always bad news, and the really old ones are no better than the really new ones.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,659 ✭✭✭Siuin


    You're right OP, protecting paedophiles isn't just a Catholic problem. It's also a Christian problem, a Muslim problem, a Jewish problem and an Atheist problem. Indeed, you could say that paedophilia is a HUMAN problem.

    However, if people have gotten bored of making Israel threads and decided to use this tired story as a means of having a go at Jews, by all means...
    Ranicand wrote: »
    The Jewish religion seems to be every bit as rotten as our own in respect to protecting evil perverts.

    Yeah, because Jews set up institutions in which they raped and killed children continually while the public turned a blind eye.
    Oh wait, we didn't.

    Well the Jews also allowed their figurehead to move around their religious leaders internationally to avoid prosecution for crimes against children, allowing them to offend again.
    Oh wait, we didn't.

    Well the Jews for sure force their clergy to remain in the unnatural state of celibacy all their lives.
    Oh wait, we don't.

    What a stupid non-story.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Candie wrote: »

    There are well documented cases of serious abuse in the Amish community, where the abused children (all girls in this case) literally did not have the language to describe or even categorise what was happening, because the Amish give no sexual education, and use no sexual language, nor even name intimate body parts. If you can't say something, how can you accuse someone of it?

    Any links to any of those cases? I would be quite interested in reading a about that case.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Siuin wrote: »
    What a stupid non-story.


    Whatever your issues with the OP, I would respectfully ask that you not be so blasé about child abuse. Regardless of the perpetrators, these are hardly "non stories" as you so flippantly put it.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Odysseus wrote: »
    Any links to any of those cases? I would be quite interested in reading a about that case.

    I can't do a search at the moment, but I'll get back to you later. :)



    Edit: Here's one particular case that stuck in my mind, a young girl who could only say that people were 'being bad' to her.
    Sorry I can't do more indepth search for the more comprehensive paper, but this should lead you to it.

    http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=2365919&page=1


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    Candie wrote: »
    I can't do a search at the moment, but I'll get back to you later. :)
    .

    Cheers


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,659 ✭✭✭Siuin


    Czarcasm wrote: »
    Whatever your issues with the OP, I would respectfully ask that you not be so blasé about child abuse. Regardless of the perpetrators, these are hardly "non stories" as you so flippantly put it.

    Get over yourself :rolleyes:
    This thread isn't about child abuse- it's about the OP trying to say that Jews are as bad as the Catholic Church.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 683 ✭✭✭starlings


    Siuin wrote: »
    Get over yourself :rolleyes:
    This thread isn't about child abuse- it's about the OP trying to say that Jews are as bad as the Catholic Church.

    Or, as you said yourself, it's a human problem. No religion has perfect followers.

    In fact, I was glad you said that because lots of Catholics are as tired as you are at people bashing their religion because of its bad apples.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,076 ✭✭✭✭Czarcasm


    Odysseus wrote: »

    Any links to any of those cases? I would be quite interested in reading a about that case.


    I don't know if it's the specific case Candie was referring to, but here's one case from the New York Times:


    http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/03/us/03amish.html


    and an Amish woman's opinion on said case here:


    http://aboutamish.blogspot.ie/2010/09/sexual-abuse-among-amish_08.html?m=1


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Ranicand wrote: »

    Just by looking at the still for that video you can see what a fat disgusting bastard he is. Dirty cvnts like this are the lowest of the low :mad:


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  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Just by looking at the still for that video you can see what a fat disgusting bastard he is.


    I don't think being overweight is part of the criteria for identifying child abusers. That's a bit unnecessary surely?

    This man also is not an abuser per se although he certainly is an abuse enabler.


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