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  • #32
    Catari Jaguar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,649 ✭✭✭Catari Jaguar


    beks101 wrote: »
    What does is someone's expressed desire for me; bold, suggestive, confident body language that makes no bones about what he wants to do to me. Strong eye contact, suggestive smiles, raised eyebrows, blatantly checking me out, whispering in my ear, innuendo, tangible lust. Someone who makes me equally curious & excited about what would happen if we got naked together.

    That's hot. That's exactly what I was talking about. *goes to take cold shower*

    Does the seduction style go hand in hand with persona? If you're sexually charged, you just need the message to be direct: You, me, now.

    I have zero interest in romance. Caring and thoughtful gestures will probably make me fall in love with you eventually. It won't lead to sex, I can't be wooed that way, sex isn't a reward to be earned through deeds. Blatantly checking me out, or ignoring me so that I have to try to seduce you will lead to sex.


  • #33
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    I started this thread to get others opinions and ideas about what seduction is. Now that I have, I am not even remotely any nearer to figuring it out (:rolleyes::mad::P) but I have seen that seduction seems to mean different things to different people. Me, I'd be more of the 'direct' seduction kind of thing. Someone being really obvious they want me and them nekkid is hugely seductive. Doing little things that are sweet and loving isn't seduction to me. That's love. I mean, that's not to say that isn't lovely, but it's not quite what I see as seduction. My girlfriend jumping me in stockings and suspenders... now THAT is seduction. Her making tea and biscuits unasked is not. Which is why I struggle with the idea of me being the secuctress... I'm not good with sexy things. But maybe it doesn't matter, since I guess for her maybe seduction is me being me.

    Interesting....


  • #34
    Hope O_o
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭Hope O_o


    baby and crumble wrote: »
    I started this thread to get others opinions and ideas about what seduction is. Now that I have, I am not even remotely any nearer to figuring it out ........... I struggle with the idea of me being the secuctress... I'm not good with sexy things. But maybe it doesn't matter, since I guess for her maybe seduction is me being me.
    Some people seem naturally provocative and flirtatious. I haven't any sexy seductress skills.
    A friend said its just about being comfortable in your own skin. Still I cant imagine me in a sexually persuasive role.

    But it does sound like you found your answer after all :)...and maybe you gave me mine


  • #35
    primrose_lily
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 105 ✭✭primrose_lily


    beks101 wrote: »
    Yeah, same for me.

    Maybe I'm totally messed up, but for me seduction isn't about being nice & sweet to me & buttering me up - as cute and all as that is, it doesn't usually make me want to jump into bed with someone.

    What does is someone's expressed desire for me; bold, suggestive, confident body language that makes no bones about what he wants to do to me. Strong eye contact, suggestive smiles, raised eyebrows, blatantly checking me out, whispering in my ear, innuendo, tangible lust. Someone who makes me equally curious & excited about what would happen if we got naked together.


    Oh my god...i could not have described it better myself!! i miss that kind of seduction.
    You just know straight away that the person is into you...no playing games, you know where you stand and its frickin hot! Nothing hotter than a really confident man (whos not a dirty sleaze) and who knows exactly how to get me turned on even without having to do alot.
    Even just a few of those things on your list would have my attention straight away!!
    Strong eye contact now thats important, oh and someone whos not afraid to put his arm around you or just be playful in that way...it just shows that hes not afraid to be relaxed around you ;)


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