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Nice guys finish last?

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  • #92
    kfallon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    smash wrote: »
    Me anyway. I'm a 1 man wolf pack!

    Was worried you were a bit of a schizo there for a minute! :p


  • #93
    JohnMarston
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,881 ✭✭✭JohnMarston


    kfallon wrote: »
    Nice guys are pussywhipped

    Normal guys know it's give and take in a relationship

    Bad guys treat their women like shit as if they are beneath them

    How you were molded as a child and teenager will determine which category you fall into.


  • #94
    pablohoney87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭pablohoney87


    JohnMarston wrote: »
    How you were molded as a child and teenager will determine which category you fall into.
    I find how badly you got F*cked over by an ex molds it


  • #95
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    JohnMarston wrote: »
    How you were molded as a child and teenager will determine which category you fall into.

    Im f*cked so!


  • #96
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    pablohoney87 wrote: »
    I find how badly you got F*cked over by an ex molds it
    vicious circle. Get screwed over, then screw someone else over, then they do the same etc etc.


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  • #97
    pablohoney87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭pablohoney87


    smash wrote: »
    vicious circle. Get screwed over, then screw someone else over, then they do the same etc etc.
    Vicious circle that doesnt concern me. Bee-line on to the next one :cool:


  • #98
    Pumpkinseeds
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I'd like to say its not true, but it is. Best to find a confident woman who loves you and is well able to be an f****ng bitch to the rest of the world for both of you, if needs be.


  • #99
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    pablohoney87 wrote: »
    Vicious circle that doesnt concern me. Bee-line on to the next one :cool:
    Beware of stalkers!


  • #100
    pablohoney87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭pablohoney87


    smash wrote: »
    Beware of stalkers!
    They have their uses too ;)


  • #101
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    pablohoney87 wrote: »
    They have their uses too ;)
    Now I'm confused!


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  • #102
    Bad Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,205 ✭✭✭Bad Panda


    This thread should be renamed 'Passive guys finish last'.

    You can be assertive and nice too ya know!


  • #103
    pablohoney87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭pablohoney87


    Bad Panda wrote: »
    This thread should be renamed 'Passive guys finish last'.

    You can be assertive and nice too ya know!
    The only guy ive seen bein assertively nice is sponge bob. I bet he gets all the girls :P


  • #104
    DudeBoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭DudeBoy


    leggo wrote: »
    It has nothing to do with being 'nice', and being 'nice' has nothing to do with the seduction process. The same way that being nice has nothing to do with being a good footballer or not.

    What many (not all) women don't like is passive guys who are insecure and, thus, afraid to show their true selves. So they present this nice guy image instead, which is approachable as it's nice to have someone who'll always be kind to you around, but it doesn't necessarily mean you want to bang them.

    None of us are 100% nice, in the same way that none of us are 100% arseholes. But I can see why a woman would be more attracted to a guy who was unafraid to be an arsehole around her than a guy who was clearly hiding it away under layers of insecurity, only for it to be revealed when it's too late. What we take to mean as 'nice' is, more often than not, just a lick arse who's afraid to be themselves.

    I hate 'nice' girls too. There's nothing worse than a girl licking your arse, having learned from experience that you'll have to deal with a bunch of stuff that you didn't sign up for, as the layers peel off down the line.

    Might sound harsh, but it's the truth.

    god, thats exactly whats wrong with me, well put!! down with that sort of thing! well said man!


  • #105
    Miss Lockhart
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    I agree with those saying it is passive guys who finish last - and not just with women. Being assertive doesn't make you a bad guy and being passive doesn't make you nice.
    pablohoney87 wrote: »
    I find how badly you got F*cked over by an ex molds it

    I think how you were moulded as a child and teenager will determine how you deal with being treated badly in a relationship.


  • #106
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Bad Panda wrote: »
    This thread should be renamed 'Passive guys finish last'.

    You can be assertive and nice too ya know!

    The f*ck you can.


    Oh wait.... you're right.


    Sorry.

    (GOD DAMN IT!!!!) There I go again apologising.


    F*ck this. F*ckin' bullsh*t f*cking ***asfer*** until the handle breaks off. I just can't win can I? :mad:


  • #107
    _Melon_Juice
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭_Melon_Juice


    I think nice lads finish last because they are too shy [some are] to go for what they want or make the first move with a girl

    Nothing irritates me more than when a guy I fancy doesnt make it obvious to me that he likes me, then a year later I finally cop on and its too late

    But that being said, girls like me should stop complaining and make the first move ourselves :P


  • #108
    Red21
    Closed Accounts Posts: 594 ✭✭✭Red21


    What do people nmean by finishing last? are people saying that those with ugly girlfriends/boyfriends and working in a dead in job are nice, cos this is not the case.


  • #109
    Miss Lockhart
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    I would say finishing last means not getting what you want - whether that be the job you want or the woman you want.


  • #110
    Hardonraging
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,641 ✭✭✭Hardonraging


    I'd always finish last when it comes to the ladies, nothing worse than word of mouth ...


  • #111
    mauzo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,033 ✭✭✭mauzo


    Hardonraging wrote: »
    I'd always finish last when it comes to the ladies, nothing worse than word of mouth ...

    You just have to work on the being nice bit so..


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  • #112
    Feisar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,906 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Who the hell wants a grand "nice" BF or GF. It's easy to be nice. It doesn't stand out.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • #113
    pablohoney87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,707 ✭✭✭pablohoney87


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4Ye1JwhiAU

    Gotta keep it low profile sometimes


  • #114
    Feisar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,906 ✭✭✭Feisar


    I'd say being described as nice is one step away from being called harmless. And that's the worst insult ever!

    First they came for the socialists...



  • #115
    Festy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    It has nothing to do with being nice or not.I think it mostly comes down to what social group you're part off and job etc.


  • #116
    barry711
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 136 ✭✭barry711


    Sorry but I'd rather "finish last" than have a string of convictions follow me around with a vain, shallow, superfluous woman hanging out of me, riding my mates behind my back and spending all my money.


  • #117
    dizzywizlw
    Closed Accounts Posts: 584 ✭✭✭dizzywizlw


    barry711 wrote: »
    Sorry but I'd rather "finish last" than have a string of convictions follow me around with a vain, shallow, superfluous woman hanging out of me, riding my mates behind my back and spending all my money.

    Hmm, I'm not a nice guy and have a nice girl...


    I guess I'd rather finish first, well at least in some ways.


  • #118
    D1stant
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,806 ✭✭✭D1stant


    Feisar wrote: »
    Who the hell wants a grand "nice" BF or GF. It's easy to be nice. It doesn't stand out.

    So when are you and Anders Brevik going to announce your engagement?


  • #119
    Mikey1969
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7 ✭Mikey1969


    'Nice guys finish last'?

    That's generally an incorrect assumption.

    Why? We hear about single women in their 20's, 30's and 40's..she's fantastic etc, etc, etc...can't believe she hasn't found a man..etc, etc, etc..

    It never ceases to amaze me that some of these single women tend to go for guys who are absolute bastards. What's going to happen? Guaranteed to all end in tears. The guy treats her like dirt, sleeps with other women, etc etc...and they expect sympathy?

    Take a look at most online dating sites, dating ads in papers...single women looking for a genuinely decent bloke. In other words somebody who doesn't mess her around which generally most bastards do..!

    A lot of single women eventually realise (the penny then drops), they end up with a genuinely decent guy, nice guy etc.

    Nice guys finish last is a mis-representation.


  • #120
    WumBuster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 827 ✭✭✭WumBuster


    This guy used to be the nice guy who always finished last with women etc..Now he's not



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  • #121
    Mongfinder General
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,992 ✭✭✭Mongfinder General


    The more attention/respect/affection you give the less you'll get in return. Unless the girl is a complete shipwreck. The ugly ones will do almost anything to get a man.


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