At what age does someone being a virgin a dealbreaker for you?

BeerSteakBirds · 12-06-2012 03:47AM

The interesting question is

Would this hypothetical person be a Virgin by choice or not ?

If someone hot or even decent looking has just told you that they were waiting 40 years until you arrived like John Wayne then I smell a scam and if you believe it then you might end up being shafted and losing your own inexperience to scam artists. I seem to remember opening some spam years ago which informed me about hot birds from Russia who have no men and are looking for non alcoholic husbands with a job who don't beat them etc. Just send an advance fee for introductions i.e some serious shenanigans going on.

OneArt · 12-06-2012 05:54AM

Wouldn't give a flying f*ck.

Sex is overrated.

mikemac1 · 12-06-2012 06:00AM

OneArt wrote: »

Sex is overrated.

You're doing it wrong

Gummy Panda · 12-06-2012 06:43AM

I think 30 year old virgin woman would come across as a prude and be off putting, while in reality she could have been trying to be romantic and wait but pent up frustration has changed her into a sex craved beast who sticks all sorts of objects up herself e.g. dildos, love beads, a leg of a chair, rubber fists, etc

Doc Ruby · 12-06-2012 07:01AM

syndeyfife wrote: »

Theres no way i could be with him. Id probably break him the first time.

Now this, is a woman.

sam34 · 12-06-2012 07:21AM

poll is confusing - does the male /female bit refer to us the posters or to the hypothetical virgins?

Ms.M · 12-06-2012 08:38AM

I wouldn't have an issue with sleeping with a virgin in theory but if I was really into him I think I'd be a bit worried about him being faithful in the future.

Even if he was a big romantic and never wanted to sleep with more than one person, I'd still anticipate him eventually straying. If he was dating another virgin and they were virgins for moral reasons I'd have more confidence in the relationship.

My husband was a teeny bit of a slut when he was younger, as was I (just a teeny bit

)... We've grown out of it. We got sick of it. I find that reassuring.
We've also got demz skillz. :pac:
(and no STIs!)

Mr.Crinklewood · 12-06-2012 08:42AM

mikemac1 wrote: »

You're doing it wrong

No they aren't.

Oranage2 · 12-06-2012 08:53AM

14

stovelid · 12-06-2012 08:54AM

Third trimester.

Dravokivich · 12-06-2012 09:18AM

Gummy Panda wrote: »

I think 30 year old virgin woman would come across as a prude and be off putting, while in reality she could have been trying to be romantic and wait but pent up frustration has changed her into a sex craved beast who sticks all sorts of objects up herself e.g. dildos, love beads, a leg of a chair, rubber fists, etc

I like where this is going.

Back on track, virgin is a result, you'd need to determine your opinion on it based on cause. I was a virgin up till my mid 20's. Mainly because I never really developed intimacy with women when I was younger and disassociated myself from it. Also, up until recently I always found it quite intimidating based on never experiencing it before. The damn thing can just go around your head in circles. Due to that, I always felt an immense pressure when trying to be with someone because it seemed like there was the expectation that I should either know what I was doing, or not bother. And I find the very idea that "Virgin" being used as a dealbreaker without any consideration to the individual as rather foolish, ignorant and destructive on a personal basis for those who tend to label themselves as virgins.

username_x · 12-06-2012 09:20AM

I took my ex boyfriends virginity when he was 19, i currently keep it in a jar beside my bed. Waiting to run into him again so i smash said jar over his head.

Shane732 · 12-06-2012 09:26AM

username_x wrote: »

I took my ex boyfriends virginity when he was 19, i currently keep it in a jar beside my bed. Waiting to run into him again so i smash said jar over his head.

I take it that relationship ended well so?

SafeSurfer · 12-06-2012 09:35AM

When you are discussing the number of previous partners you have had with a new gf/bf do you include hookers?

Cybercubed · 12-06-2012 11:30AM

sam34 wrote: »

poll is confusing - does the male /female bit refer to us the posters or to the hypothetical virgins?

The poll corresponds to the person who is voting and then the age they would like to have a cut off point.

So "female, 30" would mean a female saying she would not a date a male virgin over the age of 30 under any circumstances.

MagicSean · 12-06-2012 11:46AM

I don't understand the problem with them being a virgin. It's like asking how many previous owners you wish your car had. Obviously I'm gonna want to be the first to drive that baby.

Captain Chaos · 12-06-2012 11:48AM

MagicSean wrote: »

I don't understand the problem with them being a virgin. It's like asking how many previous owners you wish your car had. Obviously I'm gonna want to be the first to drive that baby.

Most women don't think of it like that, they think whats wrong with it that I am the first driver.

Davidius · 12-06-2012 12:05PM

This is one of those "need experience for a job; need job for experience" type scenarios isn't it?

Gummy Panda · 12-06-2012 12:40PM

Shane732 wrote: »

I take it that relationship ended well so?

I think he took her bum fun virginity and she wants it back

Sky King · 12-06-2012 12:44PM

Princess Peach wrote: »

Not being a virgin does not mean a guy is good in bed. Fact.

Saying FACT after a sentence does not make it a fact.

True story.

syklops · 12-06-2012 12:51PM

MagicSean wrote: »

I don't understand the problem with them being a virgin. It's like asking how many previous owners you wish your car had. Obviously I'm gonna want to be the first to drive that baby.

That might be the case with cars, but I prefer if my girls already broken in. Blood, mess, "its not going in", "ow it hurts", tears, more mess "we can do it again in a week or two", etc, are not things I like to incorporate into sexy time.

Teyla Emmagan · 12-06-2012 12:52PM

beks101 wrote: »

I'd probably get a good thrill out of being a guy's first tbh, and teaching someone the ropes would prob be incredibly hot if there was really strong chemistry between the two of you.

Really not as exciting as you might think.

MagicSean · 12-06-2012 12:54PM

syklops wrote: »

That might be the case with cars, but I prefer if my girls already broken in. Blood, mess, "its not going in", "ow it hurts", tears, more mess "we can do it again in a week or two", etc, are not things I like to incorporate into sexy time.

You're doing it wrong

boomkatalog · 12-06-2012 12:55PM

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Also most women find it sexy if the guy falls asleep straight after.

True! There's nothing worst than a sweaty, post-ride cuddle.

G'off me, I'm tired and need to shower :rolleyes:

Shane732 · 12-06-2012 12:59PM

Gummy Panda wrote: »

I think he took her bum fun virginity and she wants it back

Ohhh controversial!

Superbus · 12-06-2012 01:03PM

Is it not a bit 'Bad luck Brian' (so to speak) to not have sex because you're a virgin? Seems like an endless, terrible, sexless vortex of despair.

Novella · 12-06-2012 01:15PM

EdenHazard wrote: »

I'd find it cute.

Really? I think that's a bit patronising.

For me, I can't put an age on when a person being a virgin would be a deal-breaker. The reasons behind it are what's important. If they're a virgin because they think sex is bad or dirty, then it probably wouldn't work for me. If they just wanted to wait for what they thought was the right person, I'd respect that decision.

brokenhinge · 12-06-2012 01:17PM

I'd be delighted, there's no way I'd not seem deadly at the sexy time.

starbelgrade · 12-06-2012 01:19PM

Virgins are fine once you get the blood & tears out of the way.

aujopimur · 12-06-2012 01:23PM

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Also most women find it sexy if the guy falls asleep straight after.

Don't forget about the guys that fal asleep before or during.

At what age does someone being a virgin a dealbreaker for you?

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