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Pregnant women smoking and drinking

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    prinz wrote: »
    hondasam wrote: »
    Hardly the same thing now is it?

    Why not? You don't think newborns suffer from their addicitions to nicotine?


    Baby's are given methadone and are weened off the drug, because of how severe the withdraw symptoms are, nicotine withdrawal is mild compared to heroin


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,131 ✭✭✭ceadaoin.


    .

    More concern of mine would be illegal drug taking. That's far more dangerous than smoking and alcohol consumption.

    I don't know, Heroin (diamorphine) is actually given to women during labour as pain relief.

    Smoking even moderately when pregnant is proven to cause many problems for the baby, at birth as well as in their future life. Lots more women smoke than take illegal drugs so it is a much bigger problem. I don't think it should be made illegal though.

    As far as I know, there are no studies linking low alcohol consumption with any problems for the baby. I gave birth in December and had the odd glass of wine or half of Guinness during my pregnancy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,366 ✭✭✭micropig


    Baby's are given methadone and are weened off the drug, because of how severe the withdraw symptoms are, nicotine withdrawal is mild compared to heroin

    You should have said, that makes it ok


    /thread


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    hondasam wrote: »
    Hardly the same thing now is it?
    Me having a few cigs while pregnant does not make me a bad mother.
    What about all the mothers who smoke not knowing they are pregnant? some of them give up once the pregnancy is confirmed but they still smoked.

    Thats a silly comparison and you know it. Knowling smoking while pregnant is stupid, end of.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    micropig wrote: »


    This is the key, as for the ones that don't, once they find out, they are the same as the ones who smoke while just not caring

    It's ok to smoke until the pregnancy is confirmed? that could be two months into the pregnancy, damage could be done at this stage.
    I still don't think having a sly cig is doing much harm.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    hondasam wrote: »
    No unless it 20 a day everyday.
    Scientists found that women who smoked just six to seven cigarettes per day gave birth to babies who more jittery, more excitable, stiffer and more difficult to console than newborns of non-smokers.

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2946262.stm

    Sounds like people I know who give up the fags tbh.
    Baby's are given methadone and are weened off the drug, because of how severe the withdraw symptoms are, nicotine withdrawal is mild compared to heroin
    The behavioural changes were similar to those found in newborns of women who use crack cocaine or heroin while pregnant - and were strong enough to suggest that babies go through a "nicotine withdrawal" response.

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2946262.stm

    Ah sure. if it's milder than heroin, that's alright.

    As for alcohol..

    http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/parenting/145-babies-had-alcohol-withdrawal-symptoms-2923127.html
    The newborns were suffering from delirium tremens -- commonly known as the 'DTs' -- because of their mothers' heavy drinking. The DTs can begin hours after birth and symptoms include body tremors, seizures and irregular heart beat.

    ..and in case you think it's only the heavy drinkers doing damage...
    Some 71pc reported a low alcohol intake of five units or less a week, while 9.9pc described their consumption as moderate with 6-20 units a week. However 0.2pc -- 114 mothers -- had a high intake of 20 units of alcohol a week.
    They found one case of foetal alcohol syndrome in each of the three levels of drinkers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    krudler wrote: »
    Thats a silly comparison and you know it. Knowling smoking while pregnant is stupid, end of.

    No it's not. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time while mothers drink and smoke.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    micropig wrote: »
    But My kids are not over weight. And I take that view and always will.


    That's because their growth is probably stunted from the smoking


    "I take that view and always will" -- even if they're 20 stone? that's not caring for your children, that would be ignoring the obvious and bordering on abuse

    caring


    But my kids are not 20 stone and never will be.


    You must have missed my post where I said I dont smoke and Ive got drunk twice in 13 years. I dont take drugs either. I don't condemn those who smoke it's their choice.

    Let those without sin cast the first stone.

    I despise drug taking and I don't like it when people abuse alcohol, but it's their choice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 Barrylynagh


    Absolutely shameful give the child a chance


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,366 ✭✭✭micropig


    hondasam wrote: »
    It's ok to smoke until the pregnancy is confirmed? that could be two months into the pregnancy, damage could be done at this stage.
    I still don't think having a sly cig is doing much harm.



    Perhaps so, but it is unintentional, the woman does not know she is pregnant, but when she discovers she is, she stops.


    Sly cig occasionally ( not totalling over 9 in the 9 months:pac:)- probably not going to do much harm

    Smoking regularly as if you weren't pregnant:mad:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,366 ✭✭✭micropig


    But my kids are not 20 stone and never will be.


    You must have missed my post where I said I dont smoke and Ive got drunk twice in 13 years. I dont take drugs either. I don't condemn those who smoke it's their choice.

    Let those without sin cast the first stone.

    Good, glad to hear it:p


    Yes I missed that post.
    It is their choice to smoke, but not on top of the child.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    hondasam wrote: »
    No it's not. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time while mothers drink and smoke.

    yeah but you're comparing doing something knowlingly to doing something not realising you're pregnant,its not the same thing at all. If an expecting mother finds out and stops smoking then she wasnt to know and is at least preventing more damage being done, to continue to do it throughout a pregnancy is just stupid selfishness. you wouldnt allow a newborn to be in a smoke filled room or a toddler to smoke a cigarette, why continue smoking while pregnant when it can have the same effects.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,593 ✭✭✭✭dsmythy


    hondasam wrote: »
    Smoking is an addiction it's impossible to give up just because you get pregnant. One or two cigs a day is not that bad.

    It's not impossible. Some do it some don't.
    hondasam wrote: »
    No it's not. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time while mothers drink and smoke.

    Why do you keep bringing this up. We're talking about women who know they are pregnant and smoke anyway.

    Though I wouldn't ban it as suggested in OP. Silly idea.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,200 ✭✭✭Mindkiller


    hondasam wrote: »
    No it's not. Unplanned pregnancies happen all the time while mothers drink and smoke.
    What he probably meant to post was:

    "Thats a silly comparison and you know it. Knowingly smoking while you know you're pregnant is stupid, end of."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,023 ✭✭✭Dostoevsky


    No it should be a personal choice. If it's made illegal pregnant mothers will flock to the UK to smoke.

    Given that pregnant women who smoke and drink to excess are among the most stupid, self-centred, myopic and weak people any society could produce, would that be such a bad idea for the intelligence level of the Irish gene pool?

    Eugenics, Irish style.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,366 ✭✭✭micropig


    Smoking is an addiction, the mother can't give up easily, without withdrawal...why should it be any easier for a new born baby to go cold turkey?


    Drinking: Odd glass of Guinness is good for iron for the woman

    But absolutely horrific to see a drunk pregnant woman


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,673 ✭✭✭✭senordingdong


    Dostoevsky wrote: »
    Given that pregnant women who smoke and drink to excess are among the most stupid, self-centred, myopic and weak people any society could produce, would that be such a bad idea for the intelligence level of the Irish gene pool?

    Eugenics, Irish style.

    Well if we let the drink drivers sneak through the net I guess we can't be too pickey.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    Tayla wrote: »
    I agree with you but do you also wish people had the 'cop on' not to be overweight or obese while pregnant? Are you aware that the risks are just as bad as smoking?
    yes but this debate is about drinking and smoking Tayla. who is overweight and pregnant and bothering you out of interest? im pregnant and 5 feet 6 and currently weigh 11.5 stone. i think im fine im coming into my sixth month. what about underweight mothers risking childs health? why dont u start a thread on weight and pregnancy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,450 ✭✭✭Morag


    MCMLXXV wrote: »
    No - any mother who smokes while pregnant doesn't give a fcuk about her unborn child.

    Both my gandmothers smoked and between them they 18 happy and healthy children whom they loved and gave a fcuk about.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 363 ✭✭analucija


    yes but this debate is about drinking and smoking Tayla. who is overweight and pregnant and bothering you out of interest? im pregnant and 5 feet 6 and currently weigh 11.5 stone. i think im fine im coming into my sixth month. what about underweight mothers risking childs health? why dont u start a thread on weight and pregnancy
    Are you? I'd think it's a bit high. Maybe you should ease of with the junk food.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    analucija wrote: »
    Are you? I'd think it's a bit high. Maybe you should ease of with the junk food.
    i was 10.5 pre pregnancy and healthy. nothing wrong with me cos im not stick thin and have curves. say what u like theres nothing wrong with my weight.
    also dont make assumptions on me that i eat junk food, im very anti junk and takeaways except very occasionally. i eat healthy and i have curves. im a size 12 . being a size 0 is just as ridiculous as breing a size 20 if your pregnant.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    also as i started the thread id like to add in no way do i agree pregnant women who smoke are bad mothers. its not what i would do and i know its not simple for all. it simply makes no sense to defend it though, surely any mother who smoked kinda wishes she had been able to quit? if a mother is ignorantly smoking and saying it causes no harms thats wrong.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 672 ✭✭✭Battered Mars Bar


    Sharrow wrote: »
    Both my gandmothers smoked and between them they 18 happy and healthy children whom they loved and gave a fcuk about.

    Different times.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 672 ✭✭✭Battered Mars Bar


    analucija wrote: »
    Are you? I'd think it's a bit high. Maybe you should ease of with the junk food.

    Sounds fine to me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    Thanku for that. its hard enough being pregnant without some horrible farm animal telling you , your weight is a problem when its normal


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 363 ✭✭analucija


    analucija wrote: »
    Are you? I'd think it's a bit high. Maybe you should ease of with the junk food.

    Sounds fine to me.
    It's ok, I was just wondering what the response will be if I make silly judgemental reply. You know, like that somebody who drinks a glass of wine doesn't give a damn about their unborn child.

    As I thought, different standards for op.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,239 ✭✭✭KittyeeTrix


    Thanku for that. its hard enough being pregnant without some horrible farm animal telling you , your weight is a problem when its normal

    Eh????:confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    analucija wrote: »
    It's ok, I was just wondering what the response will be if I make silly judgemental reply. You know, like that somebody who drinks a glass of wine doesn't give a damn about their unborn child.
    i never said anyone is a bad mother. i simply choose not to drink or smoke even before i got pregnant. doesnt make me mother of the year. but i think its wrong to defend smoking we all know its stupid to do when pregnant. however i do not think it makes u a scum mother. but i hate seeing it and yeh i dont like it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 135 ✭✭LorraineMcFly


    Eh????:confused:
    the person i said this about was commenting in my weight offensively. so ban me then if you want to.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    i never said anyone is a bad mother. i simply choose not to drink or smoke even before i got pregnant. doesnt make me mother of the year. but i think its wrong to defend smoking we all know its stupid to do when pregnant. however i do not think it makes u a scum mother. but i hate seeing it and yeh i dont like it.

    You had nothing to give up then.
    the person i said this about was commenting in my weight offensively. so ban me then if you want to.

    Kitty is not an AH mod, she cannot ban you.


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