Seroius question, one for the regular weed smokers. Sensible advice much appreciated!

Super-Rush · 15-03-2012 12:49AM

CreepingDeath wrote: »

Right place to ask this question... the AH mods are regular users.

Are we?

Lash_Alert · 15-03-2012 12:50AM

ITS SPELT SERIOUS!

Statistician · 15-03-2012 12:55AM

44leto wrote: »

You smoke to much dope, its not as safe as people believe it is, you are opening yourself up to all sorts of future mental problems.
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Inhaling any kind of smoke isn't safe.

milehip1 · 15-03-2012 12:57AM

WoollyRedHat wrote: »

Embrace Jesus?

Is that a new strain on the go?

Conbhar · 15-03-2012 12:58AM

Lash_Alert wrote: »

ITS SPELT SERIOUS!

Indeed it is, well done!

Lash_Alert · 15-03-2012 12:59AM

Think they say smoking too much can affect your brain in the long run, things such as spelling etc.

Mod:

Poster banned.

Nailz · 15-03-2012 12:59AM

Lash_Alert wrote: »

ITS SPELT SERIOUS!

It is spelled "it's".

By the way, there's no need to shout.

Super-Rush · 15-03-2012 01:02AM

Nailz wrote: »

It is spelled "it's".

By the way, there's no need to shout.

And it will be spelled banned if this crap continues.

Conbhar · 15-03-2012 01:04AM

Lash_Alert wrote: »

Think they say smoking too much can affect your brain in the long run, things such as spelling etc.

Well "they" can go fuk themselves :P

mackg · 15-03-2012 01:04AM

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar wrote: »

yeah but people who have a few cans will still probably hang out with each other if one or more of them stopped drinking

doesn't tend to happen with stoners. it's a very fickle "friendship"

In my group we have people who never smoked, people who smoked and stopped, people who didn't smoke and started later and people who smoked at the start and still do. Never noticed what you're saying.

Lash_Alert · 15-03-2012 01:04AM

Nailz wrote: »

It is spelled "it's".

By the way, there's no need to shout.

I was actually going to correct that before i posted it, but decided to leave it in to show that small things like comas etc dont really bother me, its more the obvious spelling mistakes in a thread title that can be annoying for something so simple.

But well done to you anyways.

Mickey Dazzler · 15-03-2012 01:05AM

Telling my last bird the I was shooting smack intravenously into my cock was one of the hardest conversations i have ever had.

Statistician · 15-03-2012 01:07AM

benway wrote: »

It'll probably involve at least one night of "here, gimme some of that", "I'm not getting anything off this", then holding her hair while she pukes and being reassuring as she works through the whitey. At least, my stoner friends tell me this is what happens.

Do you stoner friends mix it with tobacco?
(Probably the tobacco making them puke)

Logical Fallacy · 15-03-2012 01:09AM

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar wrote: »

yeah but people who have a few cans will still probably hang out with each other if one or more of them stopped drinking

doesn't tend to happen with stoners. it's a very fickle "friendship"

I gave up smoking weed about 2 years ago now and my circle of friends hasn't diminished in the slightest. I've lost none of my old smoking buddies.

If anything i find my friends who drink seem to feel a bit awkward unless a good few others are drinking with them.

Doc · 15-03-2012 01:18AM

Tell her you smoke. Like her I don’t like any sort of drug taking but I don’t force my opinion on anyone else and have had girlfriends who did smoke. You should tell her soon as if you don’t she will find out and see your not telling her as a lie. Even if she would dump you for it then she should know.

Logical Fallacy · 15-03-2012 01:20AM

Doc wrote: »

Tell her you smoke. Like her I don’t like any sort of drug taking but I don’t force my opinion on anyone else if and have had girlfriends who did smoke. You should tell her soon as if you don’t she will find out and see your not telling her as a lie. Even if she would dump you for it then she should know.

Agreed.

I was seeing a girl who didn't smoke, I did. I didn't tend to smoke around her and it wasn't an issue.

She was asking me one day about weed and pills and the like, as she had never done them and was curious. I told her with her completely inability to control herself with regards to booze (she regularly got WAY too ****ing drunk and needed looking after) that she was best off avoiding drugs of all kinds.

stupidusername · 15-03-2012 01:27AM

I'm not really too sure what kind of advice anybody really could give you here. you know she has a problem with it, and you're going to tell her.... so ...what do you want anyone to say? do you need help with the wording or what is it?

Conbhar · 15-03-2012 01:46AM

stupidusername wrote: »

I'm not really too sure what kind of advice anybody really could give you here. you know she has a problem with it, and you're going to tell her.... so ...what do you want anyone to say? do you need help with the wording or what is it?

Yeah i dont really know how id drop it into a conversation to be honest or how to word it for that matter.

stupidusername · 15-03-2012 01:51AM

Conbhar wrote: »

Yeah i dont really know how id drop it into a conversation to be honest or how to word it for that matter.

Don't worry about dropping it into conversation - it's just not a topic that'll come up quite likely. tell her there's something you should discuss, you know she doesn't like drugs and that whole world, and that you're sorry you didn't mention it before (if you are) but you quite regularly smoke weed or whatever you smoke.

it's a matter for the two of you then as to whether or not you'll keep seeing each other. maybe you'll cut back/give up, maybe she'll be ok with it, maybe you'll break up. who knows.

Doc · 15-03-2012 01:59AM

stupidusername wrote: »

Don't worry about dropping it into conversation - it's just not a topic that'll come up quite likely. tell her there's something you should discuss, you know she doesn't like drugs and that whole world, and that you're sorry you didn't mention it before (if you are) but you quite regularly smoke weed or whatever you smoke.

it's a matter for the two of you then as to whether or not you'll keep seeing each other. maybe you'll cut back/give up, maybe she'll be ok with it, maybe you'll break up. who knows.

Couldn’t agree more.

steddyeddy · 15-03-2012 02:28AM

jased10s wrote: »

FFS will you get a grip , Boards will make you more mental than weed.

To the OP , Be truthfull and if your a proper person then it shouldent matter. Just smoke outside as some people dont like the smell.

Maybe introduce her to it and get creative.

If she dont like it then she does not like the real you .

You are what you is.

In fairness hes entitled to his opinion. I have friends who have no doubt it affected their mental health adversly. That said I say live and let live.

up for anything · 15-03-2012 02:37AM

Mickey Dazzler wrote: »

Telling my last bird the I was shooting smack intravenously into my cock was one of the hardest conversations i have ever had.

Good pun.

Laika1986 · 15-03-2012 03:01AM

Op tell her ya smoke and that you understand if she has a problem with it and just don't smoke in front of her. simples

Eric Cartman · 15-03-2012 04:48AM

If you send my your address, ill come over and we can talk about this over a J

pjmaginn · 15-03-2012 05:03AM

Conbhar wrote: »

Rite so the story goes that im sorta seeing a girl and shes lovely and nice and all that but she does not touch weed at all and dosent like the whole drugs thing and i dont really wana tell her that im fond of a j or four :P. Now id tend to smoke 5 - 7 nites a week and have done for the last 5 or so years and im not planing to give up any time soon. So my question is has anyone else had to come clean to potential girlfriends/boyfriends and what advice would you choose to pass on?

cook it up,1 gram gets me 20 cookies i eat 1 cookie per day thats 50p for day i used to smoke arond £20 per day,havnt smoked in 3 years its great & she shouldnt have a problem with you doing it that way its no worse than having a pint of beer,turn gram into dust cook it up in small pot little butter lowest heat for 5mins or untill butter turns brown then pour your cookie mix into the pot so u dnt waste any weed,wait until the pot has cooled down,peace luv no fear

Pdfile · 15-03-2012 07:20AM

pjmaginn wrote: »

cook it up,1 gram gets me 20 cookies i eat 1 cookie per day thats 50p for day i used to smoke arond £20 per day,havnt smoked in 3 years its great & she shouldnt have a problem with you doing it that way its no worse than having a pint of beer,turn gram into dust cook it up in small pot little butter lowest heat for 5mins or untill butter turns brown then pour your cookie mix into the pot so u dnt waste any weed,wait until the pot has cooled down,peace luv no fear

or you could just get a better job to buy more

adrianna_cerva · 16-03-2012 01:12AM

I think you need to be honest with her upfront, if she is anti smoking and catches you, she will see it as a big big deal (in the fact you kept it hidden from her)

I think though and I am not anti smoking doing anything 7 nights a week be it smoking weed or boozing is a lot, give yourself a few nights off! Good luck with it and the new gf!

Peetrik · 16-03-2012 01:32AM

I would suggest complete honesty also.

I know nothing about the girl and I'm going to jump to a massive conclusion about her personality that is completely unfounded but... in my experience people who are 'not into the whole drugs thing' have preconceptions about any substances that aren't legal, the longer they have held these beliefs the less chance they have of changing their minds about them.

If your honest and she accepts you then great, if she wants you to 'compromise' or stop hanging out with friends who smoke then she is not right for you.

Brain Stroking · 16-03-2012 01:38AM

I smoked for 10 years up to 31st December last yr and have given up completely. Have gone out with anti-drug girls in the past and its just a pain in the arse. Plus you are lying to them the whole time and it probably meant that things could never push on and get serious for me as i always felt i was deceiving her.
And those saying "does it not get boring?" obviously never smoked. Because life is sooooo boring since i stopped. TV is ****e. Live sport marathons feel like marathons and i find myself putting in a lot more time at the office. In other words, life sucks. Smoking removes that. But i aint going back

mikom · 16-03-2012 01:41AM

Conbhar wrote: »

Rite so the story goes that im sorta seeing a girl and shes lovely and nice and all that but she does not touch weed at all and dosent like the whole drugs thing and i dont really wana tell her that im fond of a j or four :P. Now id tend to smoke 5 - 7 nites a week and have done for the last 5 or so years and im not planing to give up any time soon. So my question is has anyone else had to come clean to potential girlfriends/boyfriends and what advice would you choose to pass on?

Suggest a weekend away in Amsterdam.
Gauge reaction.

If she agrees, then visit a coffee shop.
Take it from there.
If she won't enter a coffee shop then fuck her into the river and leg it down to the prozzies.

Seriously, suggest a weekend away in Amsterdam.

Seroius question, one for the regular weed smokers. Sensible advice much appreciated!

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