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Girlfriends ex causing problems

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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,496 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Naw rode her ulready. So its too late for that. Unless I ride her again. :D

    Generally one wouldn't refer to someone as one's 'girlfriend' after just the one date.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,329 ✭✭✭bullpost


    Ok then you need to threaten to kill him . That way she wont feel guilty about him anymore and will probably love you twice as much ;)
    You see she had a friend that commited suicied. She blames herself for that. So she doesent want to be guilty for him killing himself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    Generally one wouldn't refer to someone as one's 'girlfriend' after just the one date.

    You give me alot to think about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,089 ✭✭✭henryporter


    Bone him - the guilt of the ghey encounter will immediately cause him to carry out part 2 of his threat.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 101 ✭✭simit


    Threesum!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    bullpost wrote: »
    Ok then you need to threaten to kill him . That way she wont feel guilty about him anymore and will probably love you twice as much ;)

    Hmmmm I see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    simit wrote: »
    Threesum!

    You see? this is the reson you have under 100 post. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,351 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    How old are you? I only expect this carry on from a child.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    How old are you? I only expect this carry on from a child.

    Im 18 sir. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,029 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    hes telling her that he will beat her and me if we dont break up.

    Record these threats and if it doesn't subside go to the cops. One visit by a cop usually shuts these types up.
    Hes also telling her that he will commit suicide.

    People who threaten this rarely follow through. Also, tell your GF she has no control over whether he takes his life or not so there's no point worrying about it.

    If your GF knew his Mother she could try ringing her and telling her she's 'worried' about her son's behaviour. Embarrassment is a powerful thing.

    Good luck with it.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 145 ✭✭bordsie


    Try and get a photo of him passed out with a breadknife in his hand and then post it on boards.ie


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 5ftGiant


    Stick a load of Vasaline under his car door handles, that'll get the message across


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Naw rode her ulready. So its too late for that. Unless I ride her again. :D

    You did not you big liar. Had you "rode" her you'd be living in 'riding City' and not "shiftin city".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,589 ✭✭✭✭dsmythy


    He's threatening to slap her around yet doesn't know what to do about getting back with him. Run away sir. As far as you can!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 136 ✭✭blue movie


    Realise that he is acting like a childish idiot and try forget him.Don't let the idiot put a damper on your relationship with her and enjoy yourselves. He will eventually cop on and get over her when he finds someone else himself. Take it as a compliment that he is jealous of you and her and intimidated by (as you say) a better looking guy who is better for this girl than he ever was. There is some lucky gal out there that will end up with him one day :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,778 ✭✭✭sebastianlieken


    Tell his mum.

    honestly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,037 ✭✭✭Nothingbetter2d


    give her ex a dose of the gay.... then point him towards the george in dublin.... he will be grand in there.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36 lemme


    Pass him the joint FFS


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,897 ✭✭✭MagicSean


    1) Tell your girlfriend to ignore him completely. Without exception.
    2) Forward any threats of self-harm to someone in his family
    3) Keep a written record of any abusive texts or harassing phonecalls
    4) If he persists, bring the written record to the Garda station


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    TheZohan wrote: »
    You did not you big liar. Had you "rode" her you'd be living in 'riding City' and not "shiftin city".

    Ya I do :D , riding city deosent have a good ring to it. :rolleyes:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    5ftGiant wrote: »
    Stick a load of Vasaline under his car door handles, that'll get the message across

    Intersting


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,037 ✭✭✭Nothingbetter2d


    man up and tell him to f' off.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭superstoner90


    man up and tell him to f' off.

    Ibe done that. It funny it drives him up the wall. he gets even more angry. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    Her ex is acting like a spoilt brat trying his best to get her back using the lowest tactics.

    Honestly, let his family know what he's up to and that you'll go to the cops, showing what evidence you have. That'll cut his bullshìt out immediately.

    Or

    AH Answer: Kick the shìt out of him and tell him never to bother either of you again.

    Probably best to go the boring, legal route :pac:
    bordsie wrote:
    Try and get a photo of him passed out with a breadknife in his hand and then post it on boards.ie

    I approve of this advice


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,511 ✭✭✭saywhatyousee


    Get a couple of your friends and go down and give him a good seeing too,if you do not you will look soft in front of your lady friend.Girs do not like soft men


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,009 ✭✭✭vangoz


    Turn him into a tire? Your problem will be gone and you'll have a spare wheel if your car breaks down


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 98 ✭✭Mickey Lover


    Yeah defo keep a record of this losers behaviour and go to Guards too - they mightn't do anything yet but get them to record your visit.

    He must be some bad bstard threatening that when he knows your gf has had to go through a suicide of a friend

    Also how old is he ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    You need to show him you mean business, I find beating my chest and roaring as loud as I can while breaking branches as a show of my strength usually works around these here parts. If that doesn't work throw your poo at him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 681 ✭✭✭Killgore Trout




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