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Why do [some] guys cheat on their long term girlfriends - bored, or not in love?

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  • #62
    hatrickpatrick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,798 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    Because they want to have their cake and eat it, essentially. Same goes for girls who cheat.


  • #63
    up for anything
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,790 ✭✭✭up for anything


    El Pistolero wrote: »
    Your boyfriend cheated on you didn't he?


    Memeber of the spelling police are we?

    I'm detecting a bit of hostility here. :pac:


  • #64
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    Stained Class wrote: »
    40 years of Feminism ,the irish taxation system & the PC brigade have sought to demean Men & their role in society & in family life.

    As I heard recently, some men are so used to being catered to that they see the lack of catering as an imbalance.


  • #65
    Kimia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,897 ✭✭✭Kimia


    john t wrote: »
    but if you get drained enough at home and eat pussy at will .. your not going astray,,

    I just threw up in my mouth a little.


  • #66
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    john t wrote: »
    but if you get drained enough at home and eat pussy at will .. your not going astray,,

    Do you not get bored eating the same thing all the time?


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  • #67
    Stained Class
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    Jess16 wrote: »
    Dude you can't even spell experience

    I'm ashamed to say I don't speak with a posh accent & I don't have a third level education either!:eek:

    No matter, I got on in life without either of them...


  • #68
    Tesco Massacre
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Tesco Massacre


    'Cause women are icky & they have cooties.


  • #69
    Stained Class
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    Kimia wrote: »
    As I heard recently, some men are so used to being catered to that they see the lack of catering as an imbalance.

    Dunno.

    Most Chefs in hotels seem to be male.:confused:

    I'm probably missing your point though...


  • #70
    Jess16
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,176 ✭✭✭Jess16


    Stained Class wrote: »
    I'm ashamed to say I don't speak with a posh accent & I don't have a third level education either!:eek:

    No matter, I got on in life without either of them...

    I'm pleased to hear your prehistoric views haven't been of any hindrance to you


  • #71
    PseudoFamous
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,514 ✭✭✭PseudoFamous


    Kimia wrote: »
    As I heard recently, some men are so used to being catered to that they see the lack of catering as an imbalance.

    To be honest, I think it is an imbalance if women are catered for, yet men are not.

    A woman tends to get the benefit of the doubt in court, and they know it. I've seen women wholly unfit to care for children getting full custody of them. That is imblance.

    I've seen girls claim rape because they willingly had sex with a lad, hammered, and then later decide "No, I want nothing to do with him", and claim rape. They get the benefit of the doubt, until evidence is provided to the contrary. The men are guilty until proven innocent. That is imbalance.


    Personally, I've been accused of stealing a phone by a girl I never met before, who got her knuckledragging brother to come up and threaten me. The phone was pink. She had given it to her friend to keep safe. Nonetheless, there are now dozens of people who think I steal phones because some drunken bint shouted at me one night. Despite her being completely incapacitated, she managed to get the benefit of the doubt: that is imbalance.

    If you want to know more stories like this, there are hundreds of news articles with women being found innocent of such crimes as manslaughter and murder, due to being on their period and unaccountable for their actions. I'd consider that imbalanced.


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  • #72
    Stained Class
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,808 ✭✭✭Stained Class


    Jess16 wrote: »
    I'm pleased to hear your prehistoric views haven't been of any hindrance to you

    No probs.

    I've always done things my way.

    Every decision I've made in life was done with the best will in the world with the information availabe to me at the time.

    Sometimes I got things wrong & sometimes I got it right.

    Overall, I've no regrets.


  • #73
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    john t wrote: »
    hey pussy is pussy and when it drips in your mouth you just lap it up like a kitten slurps milk............

    John the only pussy you have been near had four legs.


  • #74
    Giselle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,540 ✭✭✭Giselle


    john t wrote: »
    hey i eat 2legged pussy ..... so stand down on ur 4legs.....

    You're thirteen, aren't you?


  • #75
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    john t wrote: »
    hey i eat 2legged pussy ..... so stand down on ur 4legs.....

    Desperate virgin, go to bed little boy. This is grown up talk.


  • #76
    psychward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,187 ✭✭✭psychward


    Because both sexes are full of contradictions.

    Fourteen wrote: »
    I know a guy whose dad cheated on his wife who had cancer, which is obviously a ridiculously shit thing to do

    He might have stayed with her because of the illness and everything else might have been serious depressing and unhappy for him. Is it a valid reason to stay together ?
    Should he stay with her even if he doesn't love her I wonder ? Should your partner being ill force you to stay with them even if you had been planning to leave beforehand or if the situation hadn't been rosy beforehand ? I wouldn't abandon my own girlfriend because I do care about her however if things were completely different it's not easy to put on a front for someone you might end up hating and feel trapped by.


  • #77
    Son Of A Vidic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    TEMPLAR KNIGHT wrote: »
    because two fannys are better than one fanny......

    Lesbian action?......How does man benefit when he's been sidelined?


  • #78
    psychward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,187 ✭✭✭psychward


    Corvus Maximus wrote: »
    Lesbian action?......How does man benefit when he's been sidelined?

    Because they are only ''pretend lesbians'' and eventually they miss the cock :D


  • #79
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Yes, but real men would not cheat. Are they not aware of what they may lose, or are there girls, who stupidly take them back. Think there are deeper reasons.
    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Funny, but women seem to survive on their own, if a relationship is not working - they walk.
    Guys seem to look else where and some cheat, but will not leave. If it ain't working why stay ?
    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Think most people men/women would prefer to be told it is over, than to be cheated on. Not happened to me, but seen it happen to a few friends. :(:(
    If guy/girl cheat, they are obviously not happy with their partner, so many people seem to be settling. They get comfortable, and do not want to start over again.


    if this is an issue maybe Pi would be suited...

    because being honest people do whats right bye them selves, are other wise selfish fvcks who only put them selves first or well some of them.. your complaining about men cheating on you well then the simple thing to do is not go after that kinda guy bloke geazer....


  • #80
    CB19Kevo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 805 ✭✭✭CB19Kevo


    In my view guys get a bad rap for this when in reality it happens both ways just that often guys find it harder to keep secret.
    Not right whoever does it and especially in a long term relationship.

    I hear this >'' All guys are the same '' fairly often by girls who had recent issues with men and this gets rather annoying..
    Often the same girls are off ridin some new fella a few weeks later:rolleyes:

    male/female but everyone has differant morals..


  • #81
    wolf moon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 644 ✭✭✭wolf moon


    CB19Kevo wrote: »
    especially in a long term relationship.
    I would have thought that people in a long-term relationships may have more reasons to cheat, to name but a few: stability and emotional safety, kids, mortgage, boredom, medical condition and many more.

    Short-term is a great fun that has only started with all it's chemistry and all that, only a fool would cheat instead of simply walking away if they weren't happy with the other person.

    This is my opinion.


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  • #82
    Gonzor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 257 ✭✭Gonzor


    This probably isnt going to go down well, but I dont care.

    I cheated on 2 girlfriends. In both cases there wasnt much action in the bedroom. I wouldnt mind but out of all my ex's those 2 that I cheated on (and 1 of them in particular) would have being right up there as "wife material". They were pretty perfect in every other way.

    Now dont get me wrong either, Im not saying if you give a guy everything he wants that will stop him from cheating, because it probably wont.

    But if you start denying him then he will probably start looking elsewhere.


  • #83
    Captain McDuck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 87 ✭✭Captain McDuck


    Ive cheated regularly on every girl I have ever gone out with and have never been caught.

    You just need to box clever and stick to one fundamental rule.

    DONT GET CAUGHT.


  • #84
    onedaysoon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭onedaysoon


    Cos she smells of fish


  • #85
    beertons
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 23,355 ✭✭✭✭beertons


    Sex got crap.


  • #86
    pow wow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,288 ✭✭✭pow wow


    Because they (guys and girls) can and they don't think highly enough of their bfs/gfs not to.


  • #87
    Scanlas The 2nd
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Why do guys cheat on long term girlfriends, if they have no children, and are not married, and are free to walk away, as they are not married. I know girls do too. Not all guys cheat, i am aware of this, but just seems so common now adays, and think that they are afraid of been on their own. :confused::confused:

    Nowadays?? It's always been the same. Men and women have always cheated and I'd say in about the same frequency as ever.

    In the words of Eddie Murphy " Men cheat because they must conquer as much pussy as possible, it's not personal, you could have a cape with a big s on it hanging out of your pussy and he'd still cheat".


  • #88
    Scanlas The 2nd
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Doctor Jimbob wrote: »
    cloptrop wrote: »
    men are programmed that way
    boys are asked by their family when they visit , theres romeo how many girlfriends have you got now
    its the way of the world , women invented relationships , men arnt really that into them
    i am 100 per cent faithful to my girlfriend , but thats the way of the world ,
    if your man cheated on you its just his problem , he cant keep it in his pants dont take it personal

    Ah yes the whole 'men are programmed that way' nonsense. Normally used by men who cheat as a pathetic kind of justification.
    I've never been asked that by family, In fact most of my family would frown upon the idea of having numerous girlfriends.
    Women invented relationships? Ok, can you back that up?
    I'm a man, and I have no intention of cheating on anyone. I'd say that makes me a lot more of a man than one who purely thinks with his cock.
    Also, if it's men who are programmed that way, who do women cheat too?




    Because women are programmed to cheat too, that's there is about a 5% chance your dad isn't your real dad.


  • #89
    Zulu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Why do guys cheat on long term girlfriends...
    Because they are bored? Because their needs are no longer being fulfilled? Because the OH has become fat & unattractive?

    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Yes, but real men would not cheat. Are they not aware of what they may lose, or are there girls, who stupidly take them back. Think there are deeper reasons.
    Indeed, there are several hundred cases of men ceasing to exist or instantly changing sex after cheating. Clearly real men do not cheat. Fact.

    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Funny, but women seem to survive on their own, if a relationship is not working - they walk.
    Also interestingly, men can not survive being single. It is suspected that they also cease to exist or change sex the instant they are out of a relationship. How men get into a relationship is, as yet, a mystery. Scientist suspect that women are all lesbians, and that some lesbians in a relationship turn into men in order to procreate.

    Tweet0004 wrote: »
    Think most people men/women would prefer to be told it is over, than to be cheated on. Not happened to me
    Yeah right. Pull the other one. You’re not kidding anyone. Tell me, did you take him back for him to do it again?


  • #90
    Leftist
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,230 ✭✭✭Leftist


    Women are generally far more likely to sleep with someone outside their relationship. And when they do it, they seek companionship, a complete betrayel, men do it to expel semen in as joyful a way as possible. So the two can't even be compared.


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  • #91
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Women cheat too, OP.


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