In a Club...

maxitwist · 24-12-2011 05:59PM #1

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

chin_grin · 24-12-2011 06:00PM

And what's with those packet of peanuts on airplanes? Could they BE any smaller?

brummytom · 24-12-2011 06:01PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

Maybe you're ugly.

also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl

That's just not true, is it?

thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I'll agree with you there. I'd take a pub over a club every time.

Dravokivich · 24-12-2011 06:01PM

I just go out for a night dancing with the lads meself. Hate it when women come up to us fir the shift!

:mad:

starlit · 24-12-2011 06:01PM

Honestly I was very good to make the move but I just got sick of it cause guys didn't feel the same way to let them approach me. Then I know they are genuine. That's why I let guys make the move, guys don't really like a girl to chase them that's from experience at clubs.

Kasabian · 24-12-2011 06:02PM

I am old. The slowdance was the route in, back in the day.

starlit · 24-12-2011 06:03PM

Ya prefer the pub over a club, easier to get chatting to people no pressure to make a move when in a pub compared to a nightclub. Late bars all the way woo!

Enjoying oneself with friends and having a boogie and enjoying a night out should matter more than getting the shift like!

Good luck with that OP!

Logical Fallacy · 24-12-2011 06:04PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

They don't.

why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl

Not ever guy does.

does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I am not sure what you mean by this I must say. Most of the folk that i know do loads of stuff and don't just go to clubs.

Sunnyisland · 24-12-2011 06:05PM

Kasabian wrote: »

I am old. The slowdance was the route in, back in the day.

We called it the lurch

;) What do they do these days ?

kjl · 24-12-2011 06:05PM

I'm a guy and I get hit on all the time, from a bum pinch to awkward girls trying to say hello.

mackg · 24-12-2011 06:06PM

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

They don't.

Not ever guy does.

I am not sure what you mean by this I must say. Most of the folk that i know do loads of stuff and don't just go to clubs.

How old are you?
How old is OP?

starlit · 24-12-2011 06:07PM

kjl wrote: »

I'm a guy and I get hit on all the time, from a bum pinch to awkward girls trying to say hello.

Happens to me too sometimes but I am a girl so its the other way around for me so that its guys that do that to me. Prefer the awkward hello to be honest. Become a detective trying to find the culprit who pinches my bum.

Kasabian · 24-12-2011 06:08PM

realies wrote: »

We called it the lurch ;) What do they do these days ?

No idea, but I bet the succesful one's aren't asking the girl's to get with them.:)

DB21 · 24-12-2011 06:09PM

Bitter OP = Ugly OP

Standman · 24-12-2011 06:10PM

Kids nowadays

24-12-2011 06:11PM

OP cop and shut up. Go to over 19s clubs maybe. Thanks.

Samich · 24-12-2011 06:13PM

What's the 1st rule of Fight Club!!!!!!!

EdenHazard · 24-12-2011 06:15PM

going to pubs is boring, might as well stay home, going to a club is beast.

A0 · 24-12-2011 06:16PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

Do you mean getting drunk to approach women/men? If so, yes, I think it's a shame that most people need to get hammered to say what they feel/think. May be try dating sites or join groups, classes so you'll be able to socialise differently. I prefer to flirt - chat with a woman when both of us are sober.

starlit · 24-12-2011 06:19PM

Try joining something like tag rugby! Good idea for the dating scene!

Pace2008 · 24-12-2011 06:20PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

That's not true at all. I've been approached by girls plenty of times on nights out and I'm not even preposterously good looking.

[/quote] also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl[/quote] That's not true at all either. The people I hang around with are sound (wouldn't hand around with hem if they weren't innit) and walking through the doors of a club doesn't turn them into dickheads for some unquantified reason.

[/quote]thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?[/QUOTE] You're begging the question here so I can't even answer this.

Stop basing your blanket views of Ireland's club dynamics based on that one time you went to Coppers.

maxitwist · 24-12-2011 06:25PM

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

mattjack · 24-12-2011 06:27PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

Like her jocks ?

starlit · 24-12-2011 06:27PM

Surely asking for dance wouldn't be a big deal???

TheZohanS · 24-12-2011 06:34PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

Lol

maxitwist · 24-12-2011 06:36PM

mattjack wrote: »

Like her jocks ?

lol, it was my girlfriend at it was a headress she was wearing. She just took it back of him, i told her she should have kicked him in the nads too but this sort of behaviour seems really common. I hate clubs though, so i dont want to go to then just so i can stop guys from being an asshole to my girl.
But this **** is gonna happen because its the socially acceptable way to be and way to get the shift in our country. pathetic.

Logical Fallacy · 24-12-2011 06:37PM

mackg wrote: »

How old are you?
How old is OP?

I'm 30. Most of my friends are DJ's, producers and promoters....basically people who you would really expect to live in clubs....and clubbing still isn't the be all and end of our socializing.

Hell, 2 years ago i was in a club at least twice a week and clubbing still wasn't the majority of my social life.

mattjack wrote: »

Like her jocks ?

Her virginity.

mattjack · 24-12-2011 06:41PM

maxitwist wrote: »

lol, it was my girlfriend at it was a headress she was wearing. She just took it back of him, i told her she should have kicked him in the nads too but this sort of behaviour seems really common. I hate clubs though, so i dont want to go to then just so i can stop guys from being an asshole to my girl.
But this **** is gonna happen because its the socially acceptable way to be and way to get the shift in our country. pathetic.

Who you going out with ? A squaw...."HERE YOU ,GO DOWN THE SHED AND GET ME MORE BEER"........

maxitwist · 24-12-2011 06:41PM

im 19, and i dont get out much.

mackg · 24-12-2011 06:44PM

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

I'm 30. Most of my friends are DJ's, producers and promoters....basically people who you would really expect to live in clubs....and clubbing still isn't the be all and end of our socializing.

Hell, 2 years ago i was in a club at least twice a week and clubbing still wasn't the majority of my social life.

Yeah I guessed you wee at least older than 25, I guessed OP was a bit younger than that. I'm 25 and only recently kind of got to seeing that there is other things to do. From like 18-21/22 it was alll drinking and clubbing. In fairness after OP's last few posts I think he might just be off his nut.

Saila · 24-12-2011 06:45PM

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I thought the pub was

pub =/= club.

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