In a Club...

maxitwist

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

chin_grin

And what's with those packet of peanuts on airplanes? Could they BE any smaller?

brummytom

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

Maybe you're ugly.

also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl

That's just not true, is it?

thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I'll agree with you there. I'd take a pub over a club every time.

Dravokivich

I just go out for a night dancing with the lads meself. Hate it when women come up to us fir the shift!

:mad:

starlit

Honestly I was very good to make the move but I just got sick of it cause guys didn't feel the same way to let them approach me. Then I know they are genuine. That's why I let guys make the move, guys don't really like a girl to chase them that's from experience at clubs.

Kasabian

I am old. The slowdance was the route in, back in the day.

starlit

Ya prefer the pub over a club, easier to get chatting to people no pressure to make a move when in a pub compared to a nightclub. Late bars all the way woo!

Enjoying oneself with friends and having a boogie and enjoying a night out should matter more than getting the shift like!

Good luck with that OP!

Logical Fallacy

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

They don't.

why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl

Not ever guy does.

does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I am not sure what you mean by this I must say. Most of the folk that i know do loads of stuff and don't just go to clubs.

Sunnyisland

Kasabian wrote: »

I am old. The slowdance was the route in, back in the day.

We called it the lurch ;) What do they do these days ?

kjl

I'm a guy and I get hit on all the time, from a bum pinch to awkward girls trying to say hello.

mackg

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

They don't.



Not ever guy does.



I am not sure what you mean by this I must say. Most of the folk that i know do loads of stuff and don't just go to clubs.

How old are you?
How old is OP?

starlit

kjl wrote: »

I'm a guy and I get hit on all the time, from a bum pinch to awkward girls trying to say hello.

Happens to me too sometimes but I am a girl so its the other way around for me so that its guys that do that to me. Prefer the awkward hello to be honest. Become a detective trying to find the culprit who pinches my bum.

Kasabian

realies wrote: »

We called it the lurch ;) What do they do these days ?

No idea, but I bet the succesful one's aren't asking the girl's to get with them.:)

DB21

Bitter OP = Ugly OP

Standman

Kids nowadays

Jay D

OP cop and shut up. Go to over 19s clubs maybe. Thanks.

Samich

What's the 1st rule of Fight Club!!!!!!!

EdenHazard

going to pubs is boring, might as well stay home, going to a club is beast.

A0

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

Do you mean getting drunk to approach women/men? If so, yes, I think it's a shame that most people need to get hammered to say what they feel/think. May be try dating sites or join groups, classes so you'll be able to socialise differently. I prefer to flirt - chat with a woman when both of us are sober.

starlit

Try joining something like tag rugby! Good idea for the dating scene!

Pace2008

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

That's not true at all. I've been approached by girls plenty of times on nights out and I'm not even preposterously good looking.

[/quote] also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl[/quote] That's not true at all either. The people I hang around with are sound (wouldn't hand around with hem if they weren't innit) and walking through the doors of a club doesn't turn them into dickheads for some unquantified reason.

[/quote]thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?[/QUOTE] You're begging the question here so I can't even answer this.

Stop basing your blanket views of Ireland's club dynamics based on that one time you went to Coppers.

maxitwist

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

mattjack

maxitwist wrote: »

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

Like her jocks ?

starlit

Surely asking for dance wouldn't be a big deal???

TheZohanS

maxitwist wrote: »

Im not trying for advice on how to get girls, this topic was more so meant to be a social commentary.

From my knowledge alot of guys will simply walk up to a girl and ask if they want to get with him, im not sure, maybe girls do to, i dont go to clubs so this is just from small stories girls have told me
(a common approach from us guys seems to be taking a personal possesion and then saying 'i'll give it back if you get with me)
To me this just seems incredibly jeuvenille and i cant believe its still where were at, im a little dissapointed in society.

Lol

maxitwist

mattjack wrote: »

Like her jocks ?

lol, it was my girlfriend at it was a headress she was wearing. She just took it back of him, i told her she should have kicked him in the nads too but this sort of behaviour seems really common. I hate clubs though, so i dont want to go to then just so i can stop guys from being an asshole to my girl.
But this **** is gonna happen because its the socially acceptable way to be and way to get the shift in our country. pathetic.

Logical Fallacy

mackg wrote: »

How old are you?
How old is OP?

I'm 30. Most of my friends are DJ's, producers and promoters....basically people who you would really expect to live in clubs....and clubbing still isn't the be all and end of our socializing.

Hell, 2 years ago i was in a club at least twice a week and clubbing still wasn't the majority of my social life.

mattjack wrote: »

Like her jocks ?

Her virginity.

mattjack

maxitwist wrote: »

lol, it was my girlfriend at it was a headress she was wearing. She just took it back of him, i told her she should have kicked him in the nads too but this sort of behaviour seems really common. I hate clubs though, so i dont want to go to then just so i can stop guys from being an asshole to my girl.
But this **** is gonna happen because its the socially acceptable way to be and way to get the shift in our country. pathetic.

Who you going out with ? A squaw...."HERE YOU ,GO DOWN THE SHED AND GET ME MORE BEER"........

maxitwist

im 19, and i dont get out much.

mackg

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

I'm 30. Most of my friends are DJ's, producers and promoters....basically people who you would really expect to live in clubs....and clubbing still isn't the be all and end of our socializing.

Hell, 2 years ago i was in a club at least twice a week and clubbing still wasn't the majority of my social life.

Yeah I guessed you wee at least older than 25, I guessed OP was a bit younger than that. I'm 25 and only recently kind of got to seeing that there is other things to do. From like 18-21/22 it was alll drinking and clubbing. In fairness after OP's last few posts I think he might just be off his nut.

Saila

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

I thought the pub was

pub =/= club.

df1985

whats with people using the word douche?? we're not in america....

Napper Hawkins

This thread is breaking my heart.

starlit

Do you actually know what a douche is?

True we not in america.

Go on the pub!

seanbmc

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

Not this can of worms again.

starlit

Napper Hawkins wrote: »

This thread is breaking my heart.

Yep it breaking my achey breaky heart!

maxitwist

my soul is falling apart...

daniels.ducks

df1985 wrote: »

whats with people using the word douche?? we're not in america....

Why are you speaking English? We're not in England.

OP I hate clubs. It calls for the fella to become creepy and the lady to be too drunk to notice/care.

maxitwist

Mar tá tú ag iarraidh tá muid in ann caint mar seo, it might keep the trolls out Id like a decent talk on the issue but by the looks of it this isnt the place, i was going to settle for joining in on the trolling until your post

Kevin Duffy

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'
also, why is it that every guy turns into a total douche and cant say anything more than 'will you get with me' to a girl
thirdly, does anyone else hate that this is the accepting norm for socialising and having a good time in our country?

Must be just you OP, 'cos I'm fighting them off with a shítty stick.

maxitwist

ok, were back, i had no idea i had to so careful with how i worded my op. Never mind anyway, the attitude in this thread seems to mirror the attitude irl,
which in itslef is interesting. Thanks for everyone who tried to contribute, and for everyone else, your words may have been ****e, but at least you got your number counted.

Kevin Duffy

maxitwist wrote: »

ok, were back, i had no idea i had to so careful with how i worded my op. Never mind anyway, the attitude in this thread seems to mirror the attitude irl,
which in itslef is interesting. Thanks for everyone who tried to contribute, and for everyone else, your words may have been ****e, but at least you got your number counted.

Right back atcha.

maxitwist

a troll always finds a way

LH Pathe

maxitwist wrote: »

Why is it that only girls get 'hit on'

because disco is a girls environment they go there and take MDMA in order to shake that ass off to the flat 4/4 generated by a ****ing 'puter, gone done spiked emself but.. essentially a girly workout. anything else is just a desperate disenfranchised predator

Laisurg

I've been picked up by about 5 or so girls in clubs this year so it's not impossible but still yeah very uncommon (3 weren't really much to be proud of but still).
Lads generally are not good with women, drink doesn't change this at all just makes them think they're better with girls or just stops them from caring, though from what you've said I'm guessing you're talking about one of those holes like coppers or 21s? :pac:

LH Pathe

Don't talk to me aboutclub man, I went to ****ing only 'goth' club left in existance and even that was more darkrave than darkwave. yes you, gay dick jockey in Dominion.. mac jockey, whatever.

Pace2008

maxitwist wrote: »

ok, were back, i had no idea i had to so careful with how i worded my op. Never mind anyway, the attitude in this thread seems to mirror the attitude irl,
which in itslef is interesting. Thanks for everyone who tried to contribute, and for everyone else, your words may have been ****e, but at least you got your number counted.

Are you honestly shocked by the negative reaction? You claimed that all men acted like arseholes in clubs, which is pretty offensive as well as being patently untrue.

minidazzler

Samich wrote: »

What's the 1st rule of Fight Club!!!!!!!

The rules in fight club were in place to be broken, Fight Club and project Mayhem couldn't have existed and flourished like they did if people obeyed the first two rules. They were anti-authority organisations, which makes the rules rather pointless and put there to see who actually wants structure gone from society. :cool: