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IHeartChemistry · 18-12-2011 05:02PM

I began to drink at 15, but my parents knew at 16 and were buying it for me when we went out for dinner or whatever. But it was pints I was bought

Mine are totally relaxed with me drinking but I aint a big drinker anyway.

Screaminmidget · 18-12-2011 06:14PM

Sure my father goes out more than I do...

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 06:18PM

Started drinking at 16 three months before I turned 17. Started on cider ended up on shots. The lighter the drink the better.

Mr. Rager · 18-12-2011 07:23PM

So most people started around 16-17? That's what I had thought...well I'm 16 now and have been drinking (not always getting drunk) for around half a year (started late age 15). They are so against drink, if they found out they would kill me.

They are typical country parents (both brought up on a Catholic, farming background). Last night my mother practically said she doesn't want me to ever drink, even when I'm 18 :eek:

I hate lying to them. I just don't see the need of scaring me off drink. I have been caught once, around 4 months ago, and the morning after was one of the worst of my life.
I don't get how they don't know that most 16 y/os drink every weekend? They seem to think any of my friends who drink are scum who I shouldn't hang around with. What should I do?

Luno · 18-12-2011 08:02PM

I don't see the point in snoods, they're scarves that don't end? Why would you bother wearing one would an ordinary scarf not make more sense? Felt this didn't belong in yaaaaaah or aaaaaarrrrrrgh so it ended up here.

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 08:14PM

fjsanchez wrote: »

So most people started around 16-17? That's what I had thought...well I'm 16 now and have been drinking (not always getting drunk) for around half a year (started late age 15). They are so against drink, if they found out they would kill me.

They are typical country parents (both brought up on a Catholic, farming background). Last night my mother practically said she doesn't want me to ever drink, even when I'm 18 :eek:

I hate lying to them. I just don't see the need of scaring me off drink. I have been caught once, around 4 months ago, and the morning after was one of the worst of my life.
I don't get how they don't know that most 16 y/os drink every weekend? They seem to think any of my friends who drink are scum who I shouldn't hang around with. What should I do?

Kill you say? bit over dramatic. but what would i know im a brat anyway:pac: I take no s it from them. The punishment is worth it me think made me a better person.

ha ha. As i said to someone last night your 18 now you have the right to fight back. The only fear is being kicked out of home, i walked out at 16. Told my dad i was drinking when 17. he was sound bout it but gave me a lecture on it and dont follow my mothers footsteps(didnt end great:() Let them say what they want. Its your life you know how to live it use their words as advice you know how to make your own judgement.

18-12-2011 09:00PM

M&S* wrote: »

I don't see the point in snoods, they're scarves that don't end? Why would you bother wearing one would an ordinary scarf not make more sense? Felt this didn't belong in yaaaaaah or aaaaaarrrrrrgh so it ended up here.

I think I've worked out the idea. They give you the warmth of a scarf without the ends from the scarf knot, which doesn't go well with certain types of clothes. They're great for wearing when playing sports when you can't have anything dangling off you.

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 09:03PM

I've just been asked to join in a threesome :eek:

JamJamJamJam · 18-12-2011 09:04PM

Is it just me, or do other people consistently end up in the 'Collectibles / Antiques' forum when they try to click on Clearasil & Hormones?! :P

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 09:05PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I've just been asked to join in a threesome :eek:

Cant be too bad:P

PseudoFamous · 18-12-2011 09:14PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I've just been asked to join in a threesome :eek:

Why is this indecision? DO EEET

Colm! · 18-12-2011 09:25PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I've just been asked to join in a threesome :eek:

that's it you've earned my vote for "Most Inspiring" in the Jizzlers this year

Doublechinlolz · 18-12-2011 09:34PM

Fjsanchez you sound like my family :pac: they've kind of learned to accept me and my brother drinking but when I was 15 there was always war over drink.. Like really war, but as I've said it bothered them less with time. Really it's your choice and you can tell them that and go through all the punishments etc but once you're at least 17 they'll probably live with it, and at 18 you're your own responsibility.

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 09:42PM

PseudoFamous wrote: »

Why is this indecision? DO EEET

Cos like... wow.

Salty · 18-12-2011 10:16PM

M&S* wrote: »

I don't see the point in snoods, they're scarves that don't end? Why would you bother wearing one would an ordinary scarf not make more sense? Felt this didn't belong in yaaaaaah or aaaaaarrrrrrgh so it ended up here.

I think snoods are better than scarves tbh. If you get them long enough you can wrap them around your neck a couple of times without having then ends hanging off you. I think they cover up more if you get me..I'm always warmer in a snood than a scarf!

Grindylow · 18-12-2011 10:17PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I've just been asked to join in a threesome :eek:

Pics or didnt happen tbh

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 10:21PM

You mean, pics of me being asked?

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 10:25PM

cloud493 wrote: »

You mean, pics of me being asked?

Rehearsals everyone we take in 2:pac:

Mr. Rager · 18-12-2011 10:30PM

shannon_tek wrote: »

Kill you say? bit over dramatic. but what would i know im a brat anyway:pac: I take no s it from them. The punishment is worth it me think made me a better person. ha ha. As i said to someone last night your 18 now you have the right to fight back. The only fear is being kicked out of home, i walked out at 16. Told my dad i was drinking when 17. he was sound bout it but gave me a lecture on it and dont follow my mothers footsteps(didnt end great:() Let them say what they want. Its your life you know how to live it use their words as advice you know how to make your own judgement.

Doublechinlolz wrote: »

Fjsanchez you sound like my family :pac: they've kind of learned to accept me and my brother drinking but when I was 15 there was always war over drink.. Like really war, but as I've said it bothered them less with time. Really it's your choice and you can tell them that and go through all the punishments etc but once you're at least 17 they'll probably live with it, and at 18 you're your own responsibility.

Thanks for the advice.

Maybe I'm over reacting slightly, they aren't going to kill me :P. I don't want my parents to go out buying me drink or anything, I just wished they didn't mind as much if I occasionally drink. I can understand that they wouldn't want to see me drunk.

Of course it'll be my decision when I'm 18, so I suppose that's something. But I feel even at 17 they will be still anti-drink, which is kinda stupid since I'll be in LC year and I'm a lot more grown up than most people my age. I suppose there are a lot of young adults who have been/are in the same predicament.

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 10:32PM

shannon_tek wrote: »

Rehearsals everyone we take in 2:pac:

We were just talking, as we do, I was advising her on how to build her team in the new copy of pokemon black she has, she suddenly just said

"you know what would be fun? threesome. me you xxxxx"

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 10:35PM

fjsanchez wrote: »

Thanks for the advice.

Maybe I'm over reacting slightly, they aren't going to kill me :P. I don't want my parents to go out buying me drink or anything, I just wished they didn't mind as much if I occasionally drink. I can understand that they wouldn't want to see me drunk.

Of course it'll be my decision when I'm 18, so I suppose that's something. But I feel even at 17 they will be still anti-drink, which is kinda stupid since I'll be in LC year and I'm a lot more grown up than most people my age. I suppose there are a lot of young adults who have been/are in the same predicament.

Well ya its perfect imo if your not drunk no parent wants to see that. But Yes it should be that your parents are happy to let you drink as long as you tell them and they are with you. bit iffy i know but its the way our family role. Even in the uk its preferred if you tell your parents rather than drink behind their back. personally id prefer that.
Yes so many are in the same boat so dont worry. If you feel safe enough you should tell them for when da S it hits the fan some night when it all went horribly wrong. imo

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 10:36PM

cloud493 wrote: »

We were just talking, as we do, I was advising her on how to build her team in the new copy of pokemon black she has, she suddenly just said

"you know what would be fun? threesome. me you xxxxx"

Oh... .That.... I do that all the time with my friends male and female. sitting in the living room. roaring out i want a threesome. just to make ppl laugh.

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 10:39PM

shannon_tek wrote: »

Oh... .That.... I do that all the time with my friends male and female. sitting in the living room. roaring out i want a threesome. just to make ppl laugh.

We then spent the next 3 hours discussing it in a sexual manner(its just the two of us) and what we would do, and googling how to actually do a threesome.

shannon_tek · 18-12-2011 10:42PM

cloud493 wrote: »

We then spent the next 3 hours discussing it in a sexual manner(its just the two of us) and what we would do, and googling how to actually do a threesome.

all you need to do now is strip and into bed. just need the 3rd:D
Looks like someone's dead serious. but id totally go for a threesome if offered im dying. or so i said last night walking down the street with my friend. Its why you should always carry minimum 2 condoms on you in person at all times

:P:pac:

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 10:45PM

I don't carry condoms on my person! Goodness gracious. My englishness/bad experiences, makes me awkward about sex.

Hairycopper · 18-12-2011 10:50PM

How cheap of me would it be to wrap Christmas presents with bright yellow "floor to ceiling" tape that I found in the garage instead having to go to the trouble of going to Tesco and buying normal clear tape?

Mr. Rager · 18-12-2011 10:53PM

Hairycopper wrote: »

How culchie of me would it be to wrap Christmas presents with bright yellow "floor to ceiling" tape that I found in the garage instead having to go to the trouble of going to Tesco and buying normal clear tape?

FYP

Mr. Rager · 18-12-2011 10:55PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I don't carry condoms on my person! Goodness gracious. My englishness/bad experiences, makes me awkward about sex.

Are you a women or a man? Fairly new to the forum so I don't know.

cloud493 · 18-12-2011 10:56PM

fjsanchez wrote: »

Are you a women or a man? Fairly new to the forum so I don't know.

I'm a chap.

SarahBeep! · 18-12-2011 11:00PM

cloud493 wrote: »

I'm a chap.

It's so much easier to guess when people have Avatars!!

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