caught my bird cheating

Saila · 31-10-2011 04:11AM

Abi wrote: »

A mother that cheats and a father with that attitude, nice. It seems to me that 2 people need to grow the fuck up.

he never said his kids are hers too

shinikins · 31-10-2011 04:11AM

Nevore wrote: »

Really? None at all? Either you've got literally no imagination or are engaging in ridiculous hyperbole.

Neither of the above, I don't believe hitting anyone is justifiable in any circumstance bar self defense.

Mr. CooL ICE · 31-10-2011 04:13AM

If all else fails, listen to Sean Connery

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0

John Doe1 · 31-10-2011 04:13AM

Whats her number, she seems like a goer:)

Saila · 31-10-2011 04:14AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

You try having your heart broken by ur soul mate, id have knifed the both of them if i could, im dont deserve ****ing this im a good person

dont think she felt the same

dlofnep · 31-10-2011 04:14AM

If I've learned anything about women, is that - time heals all - and there is always someone else out there that you will inevitably like.

Take some time out, take a holiday abroad for a week or two and collect yourself. She's not worth it if she did that to you.

efb · 31-10-2011 04:14AM

Wow- World of Warcraft is getting really advanced these days!

Abi · 31-10-2011 04:14AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

You try having your heart broken by ur soul mate, id have knifed the both of them if i could, im dont deserve ****ing this im a good person

What makes you think that you're the only person that this has ever happened to? The person I thought was my soul mate turned out to be a lot worse than your 'bird'.

Crazed stabbings does not = good person, btw.

Coriolanus · 31-10-2011 04:15AM

shinikins wrote: »

Neither of the above, I don't believe hitting anyone is justifiable in any circumstance bar self defense.

Well that's not your original position, so that's one "occasions where it is justified to hit any woman, no matter the ag".

Lets try and see if we can think of any more shall we?

Say, not self-defense, but defense of a loved one? That's a little bit trickier I know but I'm sure we can come to a consensus.

Abi · 31-10-2011 04:16AM

Saila wrote: »

he never said his kids are hers too

I know, but why bring it up if that's the case?

/shrug

KaiserMc · 31-10-2011 04:17AM

Corvus Maximus wrote: »

So you actually hit your girlfriend? Big man your are. Any man that raises his hand to his woman is no man in my books. No matter what excuse is used to justify it. Have you hit her before? Because perhaps you gave her a reason to behave the way she did.

Ah! I'd be wary of someone like you, your're what I would call the 'Nice guy in a bad situation' ,best avoided if your a male ..totally untrustworthy.

senorwipesalot · 31-10-2011 04:17AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

You try having your heart broken by ur soul mate, id have knifed the both of them if i could, im dont deserve ****ing this im a good person

By your own admission you dont deserve fcukin.
wtf do you expect

luckyfrank · 31-10-2011 04:18AM

i still love her she's the mother of my children, i cant believe im back in my parents house it's so surreal, i just wanna wake up from this nightmare

Cavehill Red · 31-10-2011 04:21AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

i still love her she's the mother of my children, i cant believe im back in my parents house it's so surreal, i just wanna wake up from this nightmare

In all seriousness, dude, if you have kids, you need to make an appointment with a family law solicitor first thing Tuesday morning. Get some advice. Calm the fcuk down. A few days sober.
Then speak to your kids' ma via a trusted intermediary (her bro or sister, perhaps) explaining that you are sorry for assaulting her and also devastated at her betrayal. Whatever message you get back will give you an idea whether the solicitor is getting more appointments or not.

Son Of A Vidic · 31-10-2011 04:23AM

KaiserMc wrote: »

Ah! I'd be wary of someone like you, your're what I would call the 'Nice guy in a bad situation' ,best avoided if your a male ..totally untrustworthy.

What kind of fúckwittery is this I'm reading? But there's a script in there somewhere I suppose.

Abi · 31-10-2011 04:24AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

i still love her she's the mother of my children, i cant believe im back in my parents house it's so surreal, i just wanna wake up from this nightmare

I hope this thread gets moved to RI, because you need serious replies. Not that I haven't been giving you them, but you're not in a good way, understandably.

You can fire out all the slaps you want, but it's not going to make what happened un-happen, and you could be charged for assault for it.

I had to move back home for a bit too, and I agree - it feels fucked up. While you're insanely angry at her right now, you need to think of the little people here. They've done nothing wrong and don't understand what is happening. I wouldn't be able to take someone back after that, and if you're the same - you're going to have to start thinking logically for the kids sake, and somehow try to set the anger aside, for them, not her.

Saila · 31-10-2011 04:25AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

i still love her she's the mother of my children, i cant believe im back in my parents house it's so surreal, i just wanna wake up from this nightmare

look at it this way, at least you got two kids out of her

LighterGuy · 31-10-2011 04:29AM

shinikins wrote: »

Neither of the above, I don't believe hitting anyone is justifiable in any circumstance bar self defense.

BS my friend

what if i slept with your partner, laughed in your face and called you every name under the sun while ending it with ... "and what are you going to do about it?" with a big grin.

I reckon you'd change your mind about the whole "hit only in self-defense" and rightfully so. There are things in life that justify/incite a fight.

senorwipesalot · 31-10-2011 04:30AM

Abi wrote: »

What makes you think that you're the only person that this has ever happened to? The person I thought was my soul mate turned out to be a lot worse than your 'bird'.

Crazed stabbings does not = good person, btw.

What? I always thought crazed stabbings maketh the man.

LighterGuy · 31-10-2011 04:32AM

luckyfrank wrote: »

Party in a friends house last night, lots of drink and other stuff, i fall asleep on the chair in the kitchen i wake up walk in to one of the bedrooms looking for my bird and i caught her in bed with another guy, gave both of them the slaps, moved back into my parents home im full of murdurous rage i feel lost

Sadly mate,
you shouldnt of posted it in here. All you'll get are piss-takers.
And even if this gets moved to the Personal Issues section.. you'll be met with such horse crap there too.

- "ah sure maybe you should talk to her and forgive her"
- "how do you know she had sex? maybe she was just resting in bed with him?" (yes luckyfrank, you will get crap like that! its a joke)

luckyfrank · 31-10-2011 04:46AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGnto91s5wI

ballsacky · 31-10-2011 04:47AM

Chin up lad.

LighterGuy · 31-10-2011 04:48AM

Luckyfrank,
This whole thing is going to rock your world sadly. And I wont lie, its going to take a VERY long time to get over.

For what its worth, and i know its easier for me to say, but when you feel a bit better. best to move on. You can still be a father to your kids. But I dont think you can be a husband to her any more.

shinikins · 31-10-2011 04:51AM

LighterGuy wrote: »

BS my friend
what if i slept with your partner, laughed in your face and called you every name under the sun while ending it with ... "and what are you going to do about it?" with a big grin.

I reckon you'd change your mind about the whole "hit only in self-defense" and rightfully so. There are things in life that justify/incite a fight.

Typically male reaction, IMO. Jump right in with your fists before thinking, by all means, I don't lash out with violence.

longshanks · 31-10-2011 04:53AM

Corvus Maximus wrote: »

What kind of fúckwittery is this I'm reading? But there's a script in there somewhere I suppose.

Fuckwittery? That, my friend, is one hell of a word. A blue ribbon, best in show, prize winning word.

dave3004 · 31-10-2011 04:54AM

Frank, have you ever been unfaithful or you one of the good ones?

MrStuffins · 31-10-2011 04:55AM

I know this is AH, but I honestky can't believe the stick the OP is getting because he lost his temper and struck a woman.

They went to a party together and when he fell asleep she went to a bedroom with another guy and shagged him............. and the OP is the bad guy?

LighterGuy · 31-10-2011 04:55AM

shinikins wrote: »

Typically male reaction, IMO. Jump right in with your fists before thinking, by all means, I don't lash out with violence.

It isnt a male reaction. This isnt about gender.
But to absolutely say that in any circumstance you wouldnt fight (bar self defense) is unrealistic.

There are some as*holes in this world. People who will step on you and cross a line so much .... and not think twice about it.

luckyfrank · 31-10-2011 04:58AM

LighterGuy wrote: »

Luckyfrank,
This whole thing is going to rock your world sadly. And I wont lie, its going to take a VERY long time to get over.

For what its worth, and i know its easier for me to say, but when you feel a bit better. best to move on. You can still be a father to your kids. But I dont think you can be a husband to her any more.

i still love her, why why why, the c/unt is trying to mug me off and deny it

WHY WOULD SHE DO THIS TO ME, out of the blue i feel like driving over and pulling the c/unt out of the bed

efb · 31-10-2011 05:00AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UaYHRx9-v2M

caught my bird cheating

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