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How do you think you would rate having sex with the opposite sex ?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,510 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Guys this 5 on 1 tactic is a bit unfair not to mention uncomfortable

    We're just expressing our opinion. People are agreeing with each other. At no point has it gotten personal, except when Kanoe assumed Coeurdepirate is a gay man. The overlying assumption there being that if you don't get angry with seeing mans chest then you must be someone who is attracted to men.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    At no point has it gotten personal, except when Kanoe assumed Coeurdepirate is a gay man.

    CouerDepirate can stand up for himself hes a grown man .I don't agree with the other person assuming but a 5 on 1 attack seems a bit harsh


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,510 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    CouerDepirate can stand up for himself hes a grown man .I don't agree with the other person assuming but a 5 on 1 attack seems a bit harsh

    It's hardly an attack! All anyone has done is disagree with Kanoe and state their opinion. It's all been very civilised, as far as I can see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,207 ✭✭✭jaffacakesyum


    CouerDepirate can stand up for himself hes a grown man .I don't agree with the other person assuming but a 5 on 1 attack seems a bit harsh

    Attack?? :confused: People are allowed to have differing opinions. Tis a forum after all :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Attack?? :confused: People are allowed to have differing opinions. Tis a forum after all :D

    I know that person was in the wrong but is one person telling them not enough?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Back on topic please.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Back on topic please.

    Sorry -


    I don't think I'd be able to have sex with a guy point blank, that being said I would try it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,576 ✭✭✭Coeurdepirate


    CouerDepirate can stand up for himself hes a grown man .I don't agree with the other person assuming but a 5 on 1 attack seems a bit harsh

    First of all - I didn't attack anyone
    Secondly - I'm actually seventeen
    And finally - I didn't ask anybody to 'stand up for' me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Firstly I wasn't referring to you attacking
    Secondly I don't give a sh!t how old you are because
    Thirdly you are well able to stand up for yourself

    So get your facts straight


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,576 ✭✭✭Coeurdepirate


    Firstly I wasn't referring to you attacking
    Secondly I don't give a sh!t how old you are because
    Thirdly you are well able to stand up for yourself

    So get your facts straight
    Are we viewing the same thread? You seem to be under the illusion that I'm asking people to stick up for me.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Are we viewing the same thread? You seem to be under the illusion that I'm asking people to stick up for me.

    No you said you don't need anyone sticking up for you I never implied you did


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    *ahem* On topic please, if you wish to continue this argument take it to PMs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Fozzydog3


    Guys this 5 on 1 tactic is a bit unfair not to mention uncomfortable

    That's what she said !

    guys and gals keep it fun or PM each other


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Sorry kirby

    On a topic note - I cannot rate what I haven't tried


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,576 ✭✭✭Coeurdepirate


    *ahem* On topic please, if you wish to continue this argument take it to PMs.

    Sorry kirby, I ehh, didn't see your other post. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Fozzydog3


    Like herding cats here , I was expecting to see "how gay" (note the quotation marks for the love of god ) people were , as in are we all uniformly unattracted to the opposite sex , so it was interesting to see how some people wouldnt mind while that one person cant stand bare skin touching


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    Is there a big difference in man sweat and woman sweat? Is it more strong


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Is there a big difference in man sweat and woman sweat? Is it more strong

    It's just... different, wouldn't necessarily describe it as stronger.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    But how is it different texture ? Odour ? Etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 588 ✭✭✭littlehedgehog


    Males and females release different pheromones, which give a different smell.

    I would consider male sweat to smell stronger, but I think that men would find female sweat to smell stronger, as it is more different to their own.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,920 ✭✭✭✭stephen_n


    Fozzydog3 wrote: »
    Like herding cats here , I was expecting to see "how gay" (note the quotation marks for the love of god ) people were , as in are we all uniformly unattracted to the opposite sex , so it was interesting to see how some people wouldnt mind while that one person cant stand bare skin touching

    Probably just proves the point that sexuality for a lot of people isn't s rigid thing! I suppose it opens a wider debate though regarding attraction given some peoples view that the could handle the mechanics but couldn't concieve making a connection with opposite sex partners! I find that strange as I would sort of come at that from the other way round in that, if I was attracted to someone their gender would be irrelevant! Passion and raw physicality in sex is great but it's pretty hard to beat sex in a fully connected sense!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,212 ✭✭✭WonderWoman!


    I never really noticed the difference


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,920 ✭✭✭✭stephen_n


    Jean wrote: »
    Males and females release different pheromones, which give a different smell.

    I would consider male sweat to smell stronger, but I think that men would find female sweat to smell stronger, as it is more different to their own.
    It's not just a male female thing though! Different people release different odours, not sure if it's the pheromones that are different but it might be! But that's why the same perfume/after shave smells slightly differently depending on who's wearing it and also a theory I would have is that the interpretation of the smell changes depending on your sense of attraction to the person!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,522 ✭✭✭Kanoe


    ha..
    wait, I'll do the rolly eyes bit first.
    I've lived with a guy, I don't like hairy chests, it reminds me of what I already know I don't like. Same goes for the smell of male sweat. And also how it is to have my bare skin touched by a hairy male sweat smelling man. How do I react at the pool? I was there on sunday for a swim with him, some fella started talking to me with a semi. How do you think I felt. As a gay man I'm sure if some fella came at you with one in a swimming pool you wouldn't feel as violated as I do. You find men attractive, this is why I assumed you were a gay male and can't fathom me not feeling the same way.
    Most women here haven't lived with a man, maybe they don't understand where I'm coming from. Now I'll finish off my post with the I think your an asshole rolley eye emoticon.

    :rolleyes:


    p.s. my post didn't request or seek agreement or acceptance about how I feel, this is about how I feel remember, not about whather you like or dislike the fact and so the comment "all we're doing it disagreeing with Kanoe" is moot. also I haven't been here to contribute to the "argument" but it was enjoyable watching my name being contributed so many times all the same.


    and also, fúck this forum. bye.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,488 ✭✭✭Goodshape


    Kanoe, I don't like that the thread has been derailed here but I'd honestly, and with no disrespect intended, be a bit worried that you've got some issues to deal with there -- if your reactions are as extreme as you're making out.

    How did you even know he had a semi? Did he show you as much or are you jumping to worst possible conclusions?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,522 ✭✭✭Kanoe


    no I'm making it up for the drama. come on ffs. It was pointing at me.

    I've read enough, don't want to read this shíte anymore, feel free to ban me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,576 ✭✭✭Coeurdepirate


    Kanoe wrote: »
    no I'm making it up for the drama. come on ffs. It was pointing at me.

    I've read enough, don't want to read this shíte anymore, feel free to ban me.
    Perhaps his shorts/whatever were doing the thing that my school uniform does that makes it look like I have a constant erection.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,510 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Kanoe wrote: »
    ha..
    wait, I'll do the rolly eyes bit first.
    I've lived with a guy, I don't like hairy chests, it reminds me of what I already know I don't like. Same goes for the smell of male sweat. And also how it is to have my bare skin touched by a hairy male sweat smelling man. How do I react at the pool? I was there on sunday for a swim with him, some fella started talking to me with a semi. How do you think I felt. As a gay man I'm sure if some fella came at you with one in a swimming pool you wouldn't feel as violated as I do. You find men attractive, this is why I assumed you were a gay male and can't fathom me not feeling the same way.
    Most women here haven't lived with a man, maybe they don't understand where I'm coming from. Now I'll finish off my post with the I think your an asshole rolley eye emoticon.

    :rolleyes:


    p.s. my post didn't request or seek agreement or acceptance about how I feel, this is about how I feel remember, not about whather you like or dislike the fact and so the comment "all we're doing it disagreeing with Kanoe" is moot. also I haven't been here to contribute to the "argument" but it was enjoyable watching my name being contributed so many times all the same.


    and also, fúck this forum. bye.

    You know what? None of the people who commented on what you said earlier resorted to name calling and aggression like you. We were all just chipping in at a conversation because we found it interesting. Guess what, when you make an comment in a public forum, that happens. Get over yourself.

    Also, I bet most women here have lived with men. I have a dad, 2 brother, and lived with MY best friend who's a guy for 3 years. I don't flip out when i see his chest hair and want to yell at him for sweating.

    Oh, and it's kind of insulting to assume a gay guy here would be fine with a randomer 'coming at them' with an erection. Cos yeah, guys are just that shallow.

    Edit: sorry to the mods for going off topic. I just felt the need to defend myself publicly since I was implicitly being met with aggression publicly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Last warning to stay on topic or the thread gets locked

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,522 ✭✭✭Kanoe


    You know what? None of the people who commented on what you said earlier resorted to name calling and aggression like you. We were all just chipping in at a conversation because we found it interesting. Guess what, when you make an comment in a public forum, that happens. Get over yourself.
    ...well actually, it all started here.
    Sorry but that's really, really stupid. Dunno how he's even friends with you tbh.
    I find this insulting and when I explained why I don't like it I got a half hearted apology that ended with a :rolleyes:.
    baby wrote:
    TBH I find the idea of getting angry when you see a mans chest is a bit much. Seems to be an extreme reaction IMHO. And I'm not a gay man. At all.We're just expressing our opinion. People are agreeing with each other. At no point has it gotten personal, except when Kanoe assumed Coeurdepirate is a gay man. The overlying assumption there being that if you don't get angry with seeing mans chest then you must be someone who is attracted to men.
    Actually that was a pretty logical conclusion.
    Also, I bet most women here have lived with men. I have a dad, 2 brother, and lived with MY best friend who's a guy for 3 years. I don't flip out when i see his chest hair and want to yell at him for sweating.
    I don't know if you're just trolling at this stage, just going out on a limb here but I'm guesing you don't have sex with either of them.
    Oh, and it's kind of insulting to assume a gay guy here would be fine with a randomer 'coming at them' with an erection. Cos yeah, guys are just that shallow.
    about as insulting as some stranger suggesting I'm really, really stupid for not liking male chest hair and that its not right that I'm also his friend.
    Edit: sorry to the mods for going off topic. I just felt the need to defend myself publicly since I was implicitly being met with aggression publicly.
    I'm guessing you have some kind of personal grudge with me because I don't recall addressing you at any stage other than at this very moment throughout this thread..and yet here you are, not once or twice but thrice addressing me and only ever to tell me that what I'm feeling is wrong. I don't care how much you like chest hair and the smell of man, but just because I don't and it doesn't meet your exacting standards or constitute what you consider "normal", doesn't make it wrong.
    put it this way, If I were to come here and denounce your dress sense as a bit extreme and "really really stupid" you'd be the first out of the corner to claim your title so pfo.


    I used the f word and took the thread off topic that deserves a lifetime ban.


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