How do you think you would rate having sex with the opposite sex ?

Fozzydog3 · 03-09-2011 09:38AM #1

Just a bit of fun for teh gheys (for those who aren't 'entirely sure' that was a spelling variation of the gays )

I'd imagine it would be like watching an episode of Two And a Half Men , not overly horrifying but just uncomfortable and I wouldnt wanna be there .

so how difficult would it be for you ?

littlehedgehog · 03-09-2011 09:53AM

Hm, I'm not sure!

As a younger person, I would've been very much like NO, NO, NO, COULD NOT, CANNOT, ABSOLUTELY NOT, HOW COULD YOU EVEN ASK THAT.

But as I've gotten older, and more confident and secure in myself and my sexuality, I think more I'd probably be able to do the sex, and probably think it was ok, if they were good at it.

Probably..

It's the relationship part that would never happen - I'm gonna be with a lovely lady for the rest of my life, I think

Annasopra · 03-09-2011 09:58AM

I'm not 'a ghey' and I'm not entirely sure what 'a ghey' is either

Fozzydog3 · 03-09-2011 10:00AM

mango salsa wrote: »

I'm not 'a ghey' and I'm not entirely sure what 'a ghey' is either

its a informal internet term for a homosexual sorry i'll edit it now

stephen_n · 03-09-2011 10:01AM

mango salsa wrote: »

I'm not 'a ghey' and I'm not entirely sure what 'a ghey' is either

Someone who doesn't take themselves and their sexuality far to seriously!

littlehedgehog · 03-09-2011 10:13AM

Gotta say, I would refer to myself as TEH GHEY sometimes too..

L1011 · 03-09-2011 11:18AM

Tried it. Didn't like it.

WonderWoman! · 03-09-2011 12:15PM

I reckon I could teach men a thing or 2 bout the g spot because my straight friends seem to think they have trouble

coolperson05 · 03-09-2011 12:56PM

I don't think I could...kissing yeah but anything else, nope! I'm def on the home team lol

Goodshape · 03-09-2011 02:29PM

Tried it. Enjoyed it, just not nearly as much

Certainly doesn't gross me out.

Links234 · 03-09-2011 03:34PM

it would probably be uncomfortable for all involved

Kanoe · 03-09-2011 04:00PM

much the same only it would take a fraction of the time and I wouldn't be able to talk about the weather while smoking a spliff afterwards.

rainbow kirby · 03-09-2011 04:01PM

Jean wrote: »

But as I've gotten older, and more confident and secure in myself and my sexuality, I think more I'd probably be able to do the sex, and probably think it was ok, if they were good at it.

Probably..

It's the relationship part that would never happen - I'm gonna be with a lovely lady for the rest of my life, I think

I'm not a gold star, and this is pretty much the viewpoint I'd take. I'm not grossed out by the actual act, but was pretty "meh" about it. I really just can't imagine myself in a relationship with a guy though.

WonderWoman! · 03-09-2011 04:02PM

^ Are you Bi?

rainbow kirby · 03-09-2011 04:04PM

Don't identify as such, no.

WonderWoman! · 03-09-2011 04:08PM

sorry I meant the other person:o

Kanoe · 03-09-2011 04:17PM

I lived with a guy for three years when I was younger so technically I guess I am but I haven't been with one in over a decade. Don't know if that answers your question but honestly on the topic at hand, I've a very good platonic male friend and if he even so much as removes his shirt in front of me during the summer I get angry and tell him I don't want to be confronted by his body hair, or even so much as smell his sweat in my vicinity. If his bare skin touches of me I get angry and the sight of a man demonstrating his sexual prowess makes me pukey so it would take a lot to even think of sleeping next to one let alone having sex with one.

WonderWoman! · 03-09-2011 04:28PM

compared to my gf the opposite sex would have a lot to come up against

she's a freaky kinky bitch

plein de force · 03-09-2011 05:08PM

i did experiment with girls when i was younger and it did absolutely nothing for me.

so, i wouldn't rate having sex with a woman, it just wouldnt physically be able to happen

chubster · 03-09-2011 08:07PM

It'd be like playing snooker with a rope!
Just wouldn't happen...

Give me a big hairy bear anyday!!
Woof :-)

brokenice · 04-09-2011 12:58AM

Goodshape wrote: »

Tried it. Enjoyed it, just not nearly as much

Certainly doesn't gross me out.

absolutely, i've been with the opposite sex a few times, always enjoyed myself. some things are better, others aren't. in terms of physical contact, sex with men is nicer, and i reckon most men would agree with that, if there wasn't a stigma attached to homosexual encounters. everyone should try it at least once. i'm not a believer of the whole 'oh god, i couldn't, gross!' mentality.

littlehedgehog · 04-09-2011 01:08PM

WonderWoman! wrote: »

^ Are you Bi?

Nope

I identify as gay.. well, maybe queer.. well.. maybe meh!

Women get my pulse racing, and I connect on a completely different emotional level with women, compared to men. I don't want to be in a relationship with a man, and I want to be in a relationship with a woman.

Fozzydog3 · 04-09-2011 01:11PM

brokenice wrote: »

absolutely, i've been with the opposite sex a few times, always enjoyed myself. some things are better, others aren't. in terms of physical contact, sex with men is nicer, and i reckon most men would agree with that, if there wasn't a stigma attached to homosexual encounters. everyone should try it at least once. i'm not a believer of the whole 'oh god, i couldn't, gross!' mentality.

I agree with that part completely in theory but any time I've had a girlfriend I've just went absolutely batsh!t insane and turn into an absolute prick .

azezil · 05-09-2011 11:54AM

I've only kissed a couple of girls but I found the experience very strange, it just doesn't feel right.

Girls are too smooth for my liking :pac:

Elle Collins · 05-09-2011 12:51PM

brokenice wrote: »

in terms of physical contact, sex with men is nicer, and i reckon most men would agree with that, if there wasn't a stigma attached to homosexual encounters. everyone should try it at least once.

Not much in the way of respect for other peoples sexuality here then. If you want people to respect your sexual orientation I'd suggest you try respecting theirs.

Annasopra · 05-09-2011 01:05PM

Elle Collins wrote: »

Not much in the way of respect for other peoples sexuality here then. If you want people to respect your sexual orientation I'd suggest you try respecting theirs.

Perhaps I'm missing something - where's the disrespect?

WonderWoman! · 05-09-2011 01:22PM

mango salsa wrote: »

Perhaps I'm missing something

Me too I can't see any disrespect

jaffacakesyum · 05-09-2011 02:16PM

mango salsa wrote: »

Perhaps I'm missing something - where's the disrespect?

Well I found it a bit odd that he said "sex with men is nicer and most men would agree with that if there wasn't a stigma attached to homosexual encounters"

Effectively he's saying that the majority of men would prefer sex with men. I would have to disagree with that and say that the majority of straight men are just that - straight. And prefer sex with women. In that way, he was disrespecting peoples sexuality.

But perhaps I am reading it completely wrong in which case I apologise!

Elle Collins · 05-09-2011 02:38PM

jaffacakesyum wrote: »

Well I found it a bit odd that he said "sex with men is nicer and most men would agree with that if there wasn't a stigma attached to homosexual encounters"

Effectively he's saying that the majority of men would prefer sex with men. I would have to disagree with that and say that the majority of straight men are just that - straight. And prefer sex with women. In that way, he was disrespecting peoples sexuality.

This is exactly the point I'm making. I'm a straight woman with plenty of gay friends and never in a million years would I suggest that heterosexual sex is the way to go and the only reason they don't know that is because they're not doing it! How intrustive do you have to be to tell other people what they ought to be doing in bed? And how little respect do you need to have for other peoples sexual autonomy to make such a suggestion in the first place?

If I said similar to my gay friends I'm sure they'd tell me to fcukoff. I'm also sure I'd deserve it.

WonderWoman! · 05-09-2011 02:52PM

I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say - Sorry!

Elle Collins · 05-09-2011 03:00PM

WonderWoman! wrote: »

I'm not sure I understand what you're trying to say - Sorry!

I'm saying I'm sure you would not appreciate anyone telling you what gender you ought to be sleeping with WonderWoman, and I'm quite sure I'm correct on that point.

How do you think you would rate having sex with the opposite sex ?

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