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Shop Manners

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  • 26-08-2011 06:52PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭


    I don't know am I alone on this but sometimes I find people really rude serving in shops, some, not all. And yes I worked in a shop myself and we were always told to be mannerly. So today I was visiting my parents and went to their local shop, the owner has all seemed a sour sort but honestly he was downright rude today. Do I just refuse to go there or would anyone here ever say anything? My eldest was smiling up and him and continually saying, 'hi,' in a cute way. He just seemed rude to him and me in truth. Didn't make eye contact and threw the change at me. The students working there all seem lovely though. Do some people not realise how important it is to make an effort?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 112 ✭✭jacksprat


    talk to joe


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 884 ✭✭✭cats.life


    what did he say to you op? and there are rude customers. and i worked in a shop aswell, in the deli . i would go in and piss him of again to annoy him throw the money back at him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭Asmodean


    Being someone who has worked in retail for years I always go out of my way to be polite and friendly with all if my customers. Especially if they are nice to me.
    Playing devils advocate here for a second but some customers can be obnoxious and downright rude also. Manners while shopping is applicable to both sides of the counter IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 373 ✭✭Rylan


    IMHO it's Galway shoppers who are far more rude that the people serving them. /


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,071 ✭✭✭gaeilgegrinds1


    I'm really only talking about one individual here, he seems a right piece of work, just mentioned him to my mother and she said he's known for his lack of manners. Right, I won't change him so!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Galway -> Ah for general manners discussion

    So OP, when he threw did the change at you, did he hit you in the face? Or did the change fly past and hit the wall?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Tell him you're a mod on Boards and see how quickly he'll change his attitude. He'll be giving out free lollies for you son before you know it!

    Ask Ghandee there. He knows all about it! :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,653 ✭✭✭Ghandee


    I know nothing........ ^^


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    Jebus like, I always wonder about people who care about things like this.
    Have they not got anything better to be worried about or what?!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    The foreign workers are noticeably cheerier in shops and they seem to be more helpful too.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Maybe the poor lad had just found out he's infertile and your adorable little sprog just reminded him of how empty his life will be when he gets older and sits wasting away in a nursing home with no children to visit or take care of him.

    Or maybe your kid isn't as cute to other people as it is to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 337 ✭✭CavanCrew


    Ive worked in retail before, not near as bad as other jobs.
    The staff in Brown Thomas are the worst.
    Well not all, but a lot are pure snobs, treat you like you are not worthy of their time, Sorry love, but look at what side of the counter you are on...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭Asmodean


    The foreign workers are noticeably cheerier in shops and they seem to be more helpful too

    That's a bit of a generalisation now in fairness. I've worked with a good few non-irish people over the years and trust me they can be just as rude as Irish shop assistants.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,102 ✭✭✭✭Kintarō Hattori


    OP sometimes people are just dicks. He might have been having an off day. The next time you go in he could be as nice as pie.

    I wouldn't make a judgement on him from just one visit.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    My eldest was smiling up and him and continually saying, 'hi,' in a cute way. Didn't make eye contact and threw the change at me.

    Probably a peado just trying to keep it together.
    "keep it together"...... "keep it together"........."keep it together".
    Probably pulled the stomach outta himself the moment ye left.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,512 ✭✭✭Oh_Noes


    Do I just refuse to go there or would anyone here ever say anything?

    Yeah just avoid going there if you can, and if this shop comes up in conversation with your family/friends/locals then mention that they're really rude in that shop. A shop near me has managed to build up a bad rep over the years because they're rude. A lot less people go there and they do rubbish business compared to what they would if they had a better reputation.


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,464 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    My eldest was smiling up and him and continually saying, 'hi,' in a cute way. He just seemed rude to him and me in truth. Didn't make eye contact and threw the change at me.

    Maybe a loved one of his is dying of cancer, maybe his wife is sleeping with his Brother, maybe he's suffering with crippling depression.. maybe it's all he can do not to fall to pieces infront of you and your cute eldest and he'd be gone the fcuk out of there if he didn't count desperately on every rusty cent that passes through the til?





    Or he could just be a cnut.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    xzanti wrote: »
    Maybe a loved one of his is dying of cancer, maybe his wife is sleeping with his Brother, maybe he's suffering with crippling depression.. maybe it's all he can do not to fall to pieces infront of you and you're cute eldest and he'd be gone the fcuk out of there if he didn't count desperately on every rusty cent that passes through the til?





    Or he could just be a cnut.

    or he may not like kids, i cant stand kids, and i dont see what this guy did wrong, you may think your child is cute, but not everyone agrees


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Karona


    I hate it when they are extremely rude. I always say thank you really loudly if they throw change at me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 451 ✭✭Pure Sound


    Some people are just assholes, I wouldn't worry about it OP



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 173 ✭✭muskyj


    i would worry about it. customer service is a huge thing imo. i have worked behind the counter and still do in a sense as i am the first person the customer to my company speaks to (by telephone). having a friendly, aproachable, helpful shop/business assistant makes all the difference to me as to whether i will return to that business again or not. we all have our off days and we all have our difficult customers but i think that a retail outlet service should begin with the staff. a few years ago i was fortunate enough to take a trip to new york. i found that everyone i met in the retail business were very friendly and very helpful. the first complaint i had on our trip was when i arrived back in shannon and i found the staff rude. sorry to say but i knew i was back in ireland when i experienced the way staff treat customers. ireland in general need to wake up to this problem. we depend so much on tourism in this country, i think it is time we learnt a bit about hospitality.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,822 ✭✭✭✭Ally Dick


    Is there anything ruder than Xtravision staff ? No wonder their stores are closing down


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    Ally Dick wrote: »
    Is there anything ruder than Xtravision staff ? No wonder their stores are closing down

    Nothing to do with the fact that you can download a movie for free then.

    ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 894 ✭✭✭filmbuffboy


    in fairness Ive always found xtra vision staff to be very unhelpful. Its just karma that downloading became the norm! no more paying 5 or 6 euro to rent a film when you can download it at home no hassle!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 174 ✭✭VenusPlays


    Xtra vision staff in my local shop have always been really nice. But last time I was in there was a guy from another shop covering and he was super nice. Gave me free popcorn :)

    Local shop staff have gone down hill though, some of them make no eye contact, talk to each other while never acknowledging your presence and just keep scanning things in and only remember you are there when they want paying. I've also been in a shop recently where the girl behind the till was on her mobile the entire time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I don't tolerate been treated badly by anyone. If I find someone is rude I'll spend my money elsewhere.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 894 ✭✭✭filmbuffboy


    I don't tolerate been treated badly by anyone. If I find someone is rude I'll spend my money elsewhere.

    Yeah same here, and I usually make sure to tell others about how bad the service is in a particular place too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    charlemont wrote: »
    The foreign workers are noticeably cheerier in shops and they seem to be more helpful too.


    It would seem I have not been fortunate enough to experience this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 191 ✭✭Scealta_saol


    Everyone who's worked in retail (myself included) were always told that you leave your personal problems at the door before you start work. I know that can be hard but you're there to provide a service.

    I work on the phones mostly dealing with complaints and I get some terrible customers screaming at me and calling me names. Most make me angry and I'll have to take a call almost immediately after they've left. But I have to take a deep breath and be pleasant with the next customer. They don't know the caller before them was a pr1ck.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,822 ✭✭✭✭Ally Dick


    Nothing to do with the fact that you can download a movie for free then.

    ;)

    It's that as well of course


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