The best video camcorder for recording home vids and music. Help and advice please.

Hi folks.

Firstly, I have never purchased or really operated a video camcorder before (are they even called video camcorders anymore…or is that like saying “best walkman on the market”?)
Although I do use my iPhone a lot for taking videos, so I am aware of the concept

Anyway, I am looking to buy a really good quality yet affordable camcorder.

I will be using it for the following:

Indoor family events.
Recording music indoors (as in live trad sessions)
Uploading these to the internet.
Outdoor usage would be limited

I am mainly looking for good quality and longevity, as in I do not plan on updating next year for a newer model.

So what would you good people recommend?

Do I need a lot of add-ons to record music?

And where would be the best place (I’m based in Dublin, North)

Thanks in advance Folks.:)

B