Size does not matter? Girls please answer.

looky loo · 24-08-2011 03:42AM

later10 wrote: »

Not necessarily. There are some girls who won't have sex with guys who are too endowed, or perhaps if the girl does go ahead with it, might not enjoy the sex because she's too nervous of getting hurt.

At least if a guy has a tiny cock a woman is unlikely to point blank refuse sex. Those of us with more normal endowments may laugh at this as a non-issue, but I actually know a guy who had serious relationship problems with some girls over this, girls would only want to do oral and rarely anything else. Being too big can be frustrating for a guy's sex life.

Totally agree with this post, had the same problem with a well endowed guy, I feel sorry for a guy who has this problem. We all have our insecurities, you dont have to be blunt about things, in the bedroom, if you have problems, communication is the main thing, and satisfaction doesnt always have to include a penis.

sidneykidney · 24-08-2011 03:44AM

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SheFiend · 24-08-2011 03:52AM

I think size does matter, but the best size is different for everyone. It's absolutely not a case of "Bigger is better".
Small penis and loose pussy = not much fun for boy or girl.
Big penis and tight pussy = Painfull and not much fun for the girl.
So, it really depends on the ratio of penis to pussy sizes.

Abi · 24-08-2011 03:57AM

madmammy wrote: »

it doesn't matter to me as long as you know how to be inventive and how to use what talents you were given

Couldn't agree more.

not all women want big, there's a reasons size's differ

Exactly. Being too small seems to be the main fear, when the opposite can be a bigger problem (excuse the pun). I met a nice guy before who was on the bigger (and wider) end of the scale. To put it nicely, it didn't fit.

The thread will likely end up in S&S, because when a discussion like this is open, other factors come into it. Though, I will say, penetration is not the only way of achieving orgasm.

later12 · 24-08-2011 04:03AM

Abi wrote: »

Though, I will say, penetration is not the only way of achieving orgasm.

Are you reading this kfallon?

sneaky finger is not the only answer

Abi · 24-08-2011 04:09AM

later10 wrote: »

Are you reading this kfallon?

sneaky finger is not the only answer

Well, it can be some of the answer.

Mapck · 24-08-2011 04:44AM

Well the truth is penis length really doesn't matter. What really matters is:
([Length x Diamter] + Width/Girth)/ (Angle of the Tip or the Yaw)²
And that is your adjusted penis size or T.M.I.

Killer Pigeon · 24-08-2011 04:48AM

(a) <======3

or

(b) <=3

Choose!

Overheal · 24-08-2011 04:53AM

Killer Pigeon wrote: »

(a) <======3

or

(b) <=3

Choose!

Girth debate. GO

kowloon · 24-08-2011 05:06AM

looky loo wrote: »

I'm a woman, yes size does matter, and any woman who says otherwise is lying. Also a man who is too big...can find he will have difficulty having intercourse with women, so big or small, its a problem. What your looking for is the 'goldilocks' of peni.

The one that tastes just right? Aren't you the discerning mickey connoisseur!

later12 · 24-08-2011 05:07AM

Would you rather have normal size but narrow,

or,

shorter than normal but thick girth?

I'd be tempted to choose (b) if I had to pick one. After all the aim isn't to stimulate the cervix, you're really trying to stimulate a much more proximal area.

I'll tell you what's really weird, huge clitorises (clitorati?). It's like a baby's willy.

SheFiend · 24-08-2011 05:18AM

later10 wrote: »

Would you rather have normal size but narrow,

or,

shorter than normal but thick girth?

Hmm. But longer penis' will reach another erogenous zone, (can't think of what it is called) which shorter ones won't.

I guess it's six of one and half a dozen of the other.

Abi · 24-08-2011 05:35AM

SheFiend wrote: »

Hmm. But longer penis will reach another erogenous zone

A longer penis can cause just as many problems. If memory serves, the average woman only has an average of between 3-4 inches of depth inside her. Anything much bigger than that may run the risk of bleeding her inside, and no - thats not an achievement lads. It can cause more serious problems. Same for too much by the way of girth.

twistedsoul · 24-08-2011 05:44AM

"its all about the girth" so the ladies say !

flutterflye · 24-08-2011 05:45AM

Considering Abi's post, I'm going to say that size does matter, for the reasons she gives, but not for the reasons guys usually think.
If it's on the smaller side, they could use different positions or techniques, but if it's too long or wide, that would cause major problems alright.

minidazzler · 24-08-2011 05:55AM

Abi wrote: »

A longer penis can cause just as many problems. If memory serves, the average woman only has an average of between 3-4 inches of depth inside her. Anything much bigger than that may run the risk of bleeding her inside, and no - thats not an achievement lads. It can cause more serious problems. Same for too much by the way of girth.

Ah, it is a bit of an achievement though. That's one to tell the lads down the pub, I'm so fcukin huge I made her bleed from her vagina....

Esel · 24-08-2011 05:56AM

Overheal wrote: »

Size doesn't matter...... if you're hung..

Whereas if you are hanged....

that blood that can't get to your head has to go somewhere....

later12 · 24-08-2011 05:57AM

That's an awfully morbid post for 6 a.m.

Esel · 24-08-2011 06:10AM

I just edited it for you.

Abi · 24-08-2011 06:10AM

minidazzler wrote: »

Ah, it is a bit of an achievement though. That's one to tell the lads down the pub, I'm so fcukin huge I made her bleed from her vagina....

Buy them a round then, and when you come back- tell them damaged cells can cause abnormal cell growth. We know what can happen then

SheFiend · 24-08-2011 06:16AM

Abi wrote: »

A longer penis can cause just as many problems. QUOTE]
Sorry Abi, was replying to the multiple choice above. I should have said "a.) Normal but thin" has it's attractions too

later12 · 24-08-2011 06:16AM

Esel wrote: »

I just edited it for you.

The best jokes are usually those that don't require emoticons.

I don't really think death erections are particularly funny. Not that I'm offended or anything, just a little bemused.

minidazzler · 24-08-2011 06:23AM

Abi wrote: »

Buy them a round then, and when you come back- tell them damaged cells can cause abnormal cell growth. We know what can happen then

I don't, I'm confused now. When you said abnormal cell growth I thought you meant babies but then I realised I was wrong. I'm confused! What can happen then?

Funglegunk · 24-08-2011 06:50AM

I'm two inches.

From the ground.

parker kent · 24-08-2011 07:12AM

later10 wrote: »

The best jokes are usually those that don't require emoticons.

Waaaay off topic, but sometimes on boards it seems there is a massive problem with irony deficient people. You nearly need to write in bold capital letters afterwards "THIS IS A JOKE".

Anyway, to the matter at hand (so to speak), size doesn't matter is a simple way of saying that if you have a smaller penis, it is not the end of the world. There are so many other issues involved. A man with a below average penis size but fantastic knowledge of how to please a lady will tend to be far better than a fumbling goon with an enormous penis. Plus different women prefer different sizes for all sorts of reasons. No different to how men prefer different sizes of vagina.

later12 · 24-08-2011 07:15AM

parker kent wrote: »

Waaaay off topic, but sometimes on boards it seems there is a massive problem with irony deficient people. You nearly need to write in bold capital letters afterwards "THIS IS A JOKE".

No it was obviously intended as a joke.

It's just that it's a particularly unfunny one.

Joey the lips · 24-08-2011 07:18AM

I dont know how i rate when it comes to size and tbh i never really cared.
Myself and my wife enjoy sex and love to make love. I never got the issue of size tbh but my wife affectionatly jokes that when she is horny my penis is 12 foot long and when she is not horny it does not matter if its 60 feet long.

Kinda sums the arguement up for me.

Men want all womens tits to be 34D but from observation some of the most lovely women are 38 B and C. So really while size matters i think when it comes to fantasy and raw sex it can never be big enough.

But when you pass 30 and are emotionally in a good place with your relationship.....You could not give a dam.

Tea_Bag · 24-08-2011 07:34AM

am I the only one here who's had sex with so few women that I didn't know vaginas came in different sizes? what gets bigger or smaller??

parker kent · 24-08-2011 07:39AM

later10 wrote: »

No it was obviously intended as a joke.

It's just that it's a particularly unfunny one.

I'm not debating his/her post, I was referring to your line about emoticons not being necessary. Maybe I should have added "This is an aside and not referring specifically to any post".

I love Joan Burton · 24-08-2011 07:46AM

Il be honest im only 19 and ive seen and had a fair share of members, and bigger is defo better, but you have to know how to use it too so take note boys!

Size does not matter? Girls please answer.

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