Need help stalking!

teol wrote: »

Look for her brothers/sisters on facebook/twitter
Look on http://ie.linkedin.com/
Send her a letter
Do you not still have her college email address?

I was in college, she wasnt.

Balmed Out wrote: »

I feel for you dude, id suggest

Do the letter.
Talk to the neighbours, show them some old photos - maybe they have newer ones too!!!
Check bebo - old but who knows
Check all old contacts of hers on facebook and search through their friends, theres this reall annoying feature that allows people hide their profile from coming up on search results.

This thread highlights some major attention issues with boardsies!!

leonidas83 wrote: »

sounds like there's more to this than just friendship on your side of things OP, if she was someone you knew back a few years ago who ya werent overly bothered about why are you so desperate to get in touch, just doesnt make sense, if you admit that ya like her ill tell ya the best way to get in touch with her, honest:)

I never said I wasnt overly bothered about her - I said I was very fond of her.???

leggo wrote: »

OP your determination to find her does sound a bit creepy tbh. It's not normal behaviour (except for rapists). Making an annual trip there then posting on boards about it? Come on dude...go to nightclubs, join a dating site, whatever, there are other ways to meet women apart from obsessively stalking someone who gave you a bit of attention years back.

The letter thing or showing up on her doorstep years later will only weird her out and make her think you haven't stopped thinking about her (which a quick check of your boards posts will later confirm for her).

I dont make an annual trip "specifically" to see here - I called up when I was in the area, I'm just out of a 3yr relationship so a g/f is the last thing on my mind. The reason I posted here is because its annoying that she just vanished - cat on a string thing - if I do ever find her we will probly just catch up and that'l be it - but the annoyance of not being able to find her will be gone.

JaxxYChicK wrote: »

Ah OP, you've already been given the best advice. Write a letter, include return address. So what if she doesn't live there? Why are you so afraid of someone else reading your note? Are you planning to tape a handful of your own pubes to it?

Since you've exhausted all other obvious avenues, do the letter thing. If she's not living there whoever is might have a forwarding address for her.

OK so I was back there today finishing a job so called up - no answer, left a note with my e-mail on it. As I was driving away a guy came up and said he was the brother of the girl who owned the house and did I need anything - had a chat and my friend no longer lives there - I had allready left the note so I told him to tell his sister to mail me if she had a forwarding address.

Kind of dissapointed she doesnt live there anymore but at least I know she aint there now. Doubt i will get any luck as he said his sis was there the last 5 yrs.

Oh well,

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Unsolved Mystery!!!!!