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Unrequited Love
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parker kent wrote: »Would somebody telling you they dedicate all their **** to you be the equivalent of a proposal? :pac:
Only if they promised to dedicate all **** to me forevermore, I can't abide by **** cheating.
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Yup,
Was seeing a 'moth' there before xmas for a while, I moved away for work.. she's moved on (i think -she calls me bud now when we chat :mad:), shes still single but we dont talk much, moving back to college in a few weeks, i will definitly see her, but don't know if i can say anything..
Didnt realise i liked her that much..
Ive been filling the gap with random beores but its just not the same..0 -
You have to learn the difference between love and infatuation, though. I remember one time I got hit so bad that I wrote her a letter by hand - something I hadn't done in years. By the time I'd written two pages I was over it: putting my thoughts down on paper showed me how irrational they were, and I shredded the letter straight away.
At least you had the sense to hand write a letter and could see that it wasn't clever to post it.
Me? I was badly lead on by my unrequited love and it all ended badly (though it never really started! :pac:) I was going travelling a few days later and I wrote him an email declaring my feelings. An email! I was such a muppet. :rolleyes:
I'm home a few years now and I see him the odd time (with the same girlfriend as he had back then) and it does be a bit awkward but sure, I'll always have feelings for him, there's nothing I can do to change that. It's toughened me up a bit in the ole love life.
Still though, I'd nail him to the headboard if I got the chance.... 0 -
You have to learn the difference between love and infatuation, though. I remember one time I got hit so bad that I wrote her a letter by hand - something I hadn't done in years. By the time I'd written two pages I was over it: putting my thoughts down on paper showed me how irrational they were, and I shredded the letter straight away.
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Ah, I'm currently trying to resolve this. Last week or so the guy I'm seeing returned from holidaying with his family for a month, informed me he's in love with me and proceeded to ask me out. We've been meeting secretly for 8/9 months now and I'd like to keep it that way, it makes it unofficial and exciting. In the beginning I was more into him than he was into me, but oh how the tables have turned. Anyways he wants an answer and refuses to allow contact with him till i fully decide. Which predominantly means it'll all cease if I give him a negative response:(
So in a quest to decide I thought I'd seek the opinion of an older acquaintance who I would assume this might've happened to with the amount of experience he's had throughout his years. Didn't bring it up at all, instead skipped the talking part and proceeded into the bedroom. Yet the acquaintance noticed something different about me by stating that he thought I liked him more than I should. I know that whatever was different about me compared to the rest of our encounters clearly it wasn't initiated by him! So I left with absolutely no answers, lots of new questions, all of which i do not have the answer for.
Let the letter writing (and scraping) begin!:rolleyes:0 -
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Thanks guys, it's a crap feeling and one I'm too old for but anyhow...stupidusername wrote: »I don't really get this unrequited love thing. I mean having a crush on someone isn't love. I don't get how you can love someone you don't know that well.
He's been a good friend for years. I know him inside out 0 -
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