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Adverse Reaction to chatting someone up/asking someone out

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  • #32
    smash
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,808 ✭✭✭✭smash


    black francis wrote: »
    TBH, this makes you sound like more of an arsehole than her.
    how is that? she was a sarcastic little wagon!


  • #33
    Sinfonia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,854 ✭✭✭Sinfonia


    needadvi wrote: »
    this really gorgeous guy trys to chat to me[...]A few hours later he stands up looks down at me on the chair and yells at me. You little bitch, you think you are sooo gorgeous and beautiful that you can't talk to anyone here well f##k you bitch and he walked off

    This is the worst behaviour of all, and I've seen a lot of guys do it, because they're embarrassed that they got turned down.
    Sometimes men talk to a girl, and she responds with conversation, or maybe she says something first to him, just casually. At this point, a lot of these men somehow have the deluded attitude that this means she wants him (because if she didn't, she wouldn't talk to him right?). Eventually the polite girl turns down the guy, and he comes out with a torrent of abuse. What a sh*t.

    Teasy-flirty girls are around, and they are annoying, because their intention is to needle guys, but men need to learn that just because a woman speaks to you in a social context, it does not necessarily mean they want your cock.


  • #34
    adocholiday
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,340 ✭✭✭adocholiday


    In the college a few years ago was mad about a girl but was crap at chatting girls up. I was really apprehensive but dutch courage and all that.

    Went up said hi my name is, I'm in your class etc and she just stared with a look of horror on her face! Then she goes eh are you having a laugh? And stormed off!

    Confidence shattered, I got with a dog ugly girl to boost my self esteem :-)


  • #35
    whiteknucles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭whiteknucles


    Sinfonia wrote: »
    This is the worst behaviour of all, and I've seen a lot of guys do it, because they're embarrassed that they got turned down.
    Sometimes men talk to a girl, and she responds with conversation, or maybe she says something first to him, just casually. At this point, a lot of these men somehow have the deluded attitude that this means she wants him (because if she didn't, she wouldn't talk to him right?). Eventually the polite girl turns down the guy, and he comes out with a torrent of abuse. What a sh*t.

    Teasy-flirty girls are around, and they are annoying, because their intention is to needle guys, but men need to learn that just because a woman speaks to you in a social context, it does not necessarily mean they want your cock.

    Oh yes it does.


  • #36
    o1s1n
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,924 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    whiteknucles wrote: »
    Oh yes it does.

    I assume it's that attitude which has lead to your white knuckles.

    Fap fap fap.


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  • #37
    Onthe3rdDay
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,194 ✭✭✭Onthe3rdDay


    Sinfonia wrote: »
    but men need to learn that just because a woman speaks to you in a social context, it does not necessarily mean they want your cock.

    Women need to learn that a guy saying hello doesn't mean that person wants to jump into bed with them. Too often you're trying to be polite and the woman (and more often her friends) think you're chatting them up.


  • #38
    whiteknucles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭whiteknucles


    Listen o1s1n (if that's your real name) I have whiteknukles from endless hours of masturbating. So whatever you're alluding to I wish you would stop.


  • #39
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Onthe3rdDay wrote: »
    Women need to learn that a guy saying hello doesn't mean that person wants to jump into bed with them. Too often you're trying to be polite and the woman (and more often her friends) think you're chatting them up.

    Of course you're not.


  • #40
    amacca
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,976 ✭✭✭amacca


    Sinfonia wrote: »
    men need to learn that just because a woman speaks to you in a social context, it does not necessarily mean they want your cock.

    this....this is disappointing.

    it appears as if not that many women want my cock after all.


  • #41
    daniels.ducks
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 493 ✭✭daniels.ducks


    whiteknucles wrote: »
    Listen o1s1n (if that's your real name) I have whiteknukles from endless hours of masturbating. So whatever you're alluding to I wish you would stop.

    I think you'll fit right in... :pac:


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  • #42
    Oisinjm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 890 ✭✭✭Oisinjm


    Just a few weeks ago was in Magaluf on a sixth year holiday. One of the lads whos a bit nuts turned round to us and decided to show us how you get a bird. So basically he tackles this girl to the ground and rolls around with her for about 2 minutes with her struggling to get away. Then when they stand up they both start meeting. It was honestly the weirdest thing I've ever seen.


  • #43
    looky loo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 296 ✭✭looky loo


    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????


  • #44
    py2006
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,845 ✭✭✭py2006


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????

    Well he wouldn't call her a creep, flick his hair and turn his back on her! :P


  • #45
    looky loo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 296 ✭✭looky loo


    py2006 wrote: »
    Well he wouldn't call her a creep, flick his hair and turn his back on her! :P

    Still havent answered the question????????...


  • #46
    whiteknucles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭whiteknucles


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????


    Does not compute.


  • #47
    py2006
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,845 ✭✭✭py2006


    looky loo wrote: »
    Still havent answered the question????????...

    Well I doubt he would say "F off", it has happened to be once or twice where a girl would strike up a conversation that I didn't fancy! But I just spoke to her as normal! She may have gotten from my body language that I was interested!


  • #48
    amacca
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,976 ✭✭✭amacca


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????

    Id talk back all the while looking for an escape route, fidgeting nervously and eying the exit.........desperate to preserve the sanctity of my cock.


  • #49
    whiteknucles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭whiteknucles


    Well tbh that's what I love about the old "cock in the pintglass routine" I invented. Sometimes it works and you get the girl (or girls) other times you can use it as a defensive tactic and use your own pint glass which actually makes you look a little unstable.


  • #50
    malarkus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 55 ✭✭malarkus


    Wimmins be crazy

    The night I met my (now ex) girlfriend I was too shy to chat her up all night and in the end a friend introduced her to me and it went from there.. but for 2 years she never let me forget how angry she was at me for not trying to chat her up that first night.. and yet simultaneously complained that guys try it on all the time and she is SOOOO fed up with it.

    Wimmins, they be crazy :pac:


  • #51
    gugleguy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,959 ✭✭✭gugleguy


    Deleted User wrote: »
    They're just playing hard to get.

    y not try a non Irish Lady?


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  • #52
    looky loo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 296 ✭✭looky loo


    whiteknucles wrote: »
    Well tbh that's what I love about the old "cock in the pintglass routine" I invented. Sometimes it works and you get the girl (or girls) other times you can use it as a defensive tactic and use your own pint glass which actually makes you look a little unstable.

    You sound unstable....no offense...lol


  • #53
    amacca
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,976 ✭✭✭amacca


    whiteknucles wrote: »
    Well tbh that's what I love about the old "cock in the pintglass routine" I invented.

    you cant really take credit for that

    since the dawn of time man has been sticking his cock into things...including pint glasses whenever they first appeared

    you may have developed and perfected it perhaps as a means of both attracting and repulsing women depending on the situation...but invented, I doubt it.


  • #54
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    looky loo wrote: »
    The age of chivalry is dead........

    and women killed it- Dave Chapelle


  • #55
    Hail 2 Da Chimp
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,589 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Chimp


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????

    I'd ride her, I just wouldn't call her again...


  • #56
    looky loo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 296 ✭✭looky loo


    py2006 wrote: »
    Well I doubt he would say "F off", it has happened to be once or twice where a girl would strike up a conversation that I didn't fancy! But I just spoke to her as normal! She may have gotten from my body language that I was interested!

    You'd make a great politician....still havent answered my question...!!!..:)


  • #57
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 24,867 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    gugleguy wrote: »
    y not try a non Irish Lady?

    Racism.


  • #58
    FloatingVoter
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????

    Let her down gently, possibly inventing a wife, implying that in another world...who knows ?
    Everybody gets to walk away with dignity.

    edit: I'm 36 in Dublin, the wife trick won't work if in a small town / or very young.


  • #59
    py2006
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,845 ✭✭✭py2006


    looky loo wrote: »
    You'd make a great politician....still havent answered my question...!!!..:)

    I thought I did! :confused::(


  • #60
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    looky loo wrote: »
    Ok lets look at this from the other side....A girl comes over to a guy she fancies and tries to engage him in conversation, but he's not interested....how would you guys reply???????

    Chat back and be friendly if she wants more and I'm not interested just say I'm seeing someone else


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  • #61
    saa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭saa


    Haha I don't know what all this answer my question lark is about but its quite funny

    answer my question
    I said ANSWER MY QUESTION

    I just wouldn't :L


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