How can you tell when a girl likes you?

Ask her.

Ah sure just drop the hand, youll know soon enough.

Killer Wench wrote: »

Sounds to me that you are her safe male friend.

Want to know for sure, ask her to your place for dinner on a Friday night. Then ask her what you should have for dinner and at what time you should eat.

If she says an early time with take-out food, you're only friends.

If she says a prime time with her offering to cook, she really likes you.

If she gives you a really late time with the offer of just drinks, she just wants to bang.

Really you reckon that theorys solid? Never heard that one before.

Although I do reckon your right or maybe she could be just really shy or inexperienced, how old is she op?

The Internet Explorer wrote: »

Blast her with kiss.

Can't lose with that plan

Dont just ask her!!! Who the hell does that!!

Get full, try get up on her and then if it goes pear shaped blame the drink :cool:

Superbus wrote: »

She said she loves you, and you know that can't be bad.

Yeah, she loves you and you know you should be glad!

Give her something thats yours - necklace, guitar plec, a cheesy pic of you or something, not terribly personal but just something thats yours and that she could possibly carry. This will mean you're with her in some vague sense and you'll be on her mind. Do it in an off hand, casual, "unplanned" way. Then next time you see her check to see if she has the item with her. Also, make some form of physical contact like tickling, mess with her nose, her hair, even things like nugding, anything that could lead to that "oops, my mouth fell on your lips" moment.
I was in the same situation ages ago, couldnt tell. Got all these mixed signals. Then I found she just liked me as a friend. I was pissed and stopped giving a crap. Then did the above without any serious intention and bang. And it was during the summer too, I think this time off season can toy with womens minds a bit. Anyway, there ye have it!

Aoifey! wrote: »

Jeez, I must like every guy I talk to so. I'm always fiddling with my hair out of boredom/uncomfort/just fixing my hair.

stop ruining the thread! this coul;d be the next brian and ciara.

Aoifey! wrote: »

Jeez, I must like every guy I talk to so. I'm always fiddling with my hair out of boredom/uncomfort/just fixing my hair.

Its all about the look though(kind of hard to explain typing on a internet forum)
When you make eye contact they touch their hair.Its a sign of nervous tension i did many body language class's.They did not help me win at poker but they helped when picking up the ladies:)

partyndbs wrote: »

need advice.(shy girls btw not flirty 1s)
my friend is shy..know her my whole life but only start hangin out last year....fancy her 2 bits but dunno if i should make a move. let da good ppl of ah help me

few signs

• we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
  
• at her party i was talking to her uncle and she came over and said she thought i was a good guy and had her approval....would seem a dead giveaway right haha
  
• at times her friends have made comments about me being her bf
  
• sittin down on chair with her and she start subtly resting her feet against side of my leg.. we are very good friends but still kinda shy around each other so seemed a bit risky 4 her....not somethin she'd do id imagine

I don't want to be the douche who rains on your parade but from what I've read you are definitely in the friend zone. You have known her too long and have waited too long to form any kind of saucy relationship. You are now like a 'brother' to her. The fact that she introduced you to family and said that you were a good guy just cements that; a girl wouldn't do that with someone she had sexual desires for.

It reminds me of the episode of Inbetweeners where Charlotte said to Will something along the lines of "I would really like a boyfriend like you" ... "hahahahahaha not you though Will someone like you!!"

From your post I can guarantee, without doubt, that you are between 15 and 20 years old. I can also guarantee, without doubt, that you will ignore all advice in this thread and just go for it anyway. I am going to tell you that you have nothing to lose and the chances are you will fail; but if you succeed you will be a happy young man. You have a case of 'oneitis' where you only like one girl and she is all that is great in the world. You will look back one day at this forum post and laugh; but today is not that day.

I would advise you to not go for it and find someone else, this will increase your chances of her actually fancying you as more than a friend - she may then make more obvious (actual) advances towards you and you won't really have to do anything other than go with it. You won't take this advice (young love, n'awwwwwwww) though so just go for it and if you get shot down say something along the lines of "that's ok, I thought we might have had something more I was just confused it's cool though I'm totally happy with just being friends anyway".

Aoifey! wrote: »

Jeez, I must like every guy I talk to so. I'm always fiddling with my hair out of boredom/uncomfort/just fixing my hair.

Pubic hair?
weeeeeeeird