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How can you tell when a girl likes you?
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06-07-2011 02:06AM#1need advice.(shy girls btw not flirty 1s)
my friend is shy..know her my whole life but only start hangin out last year....fancy her 2 bits but dunno if i should make a move. let da good ppl of ah help me
few signs- we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
- at her party i was talking to her uncle and she came over and said she thought i was a good guy and had her approval....would seem a dead giveaway right haha
- at times her friends have made comments about me being her bf
- sittin down on chair with her and she start subtly resting her feet against side of my leg.. we are very good friends but still kinda shy around each other so seemed a bit risky 4 her....not somethin she'd do id imagine
yo so ah help me out..expect a few of u actin da bollox but help a brother lol0 - we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
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...only start hangin out last year....fancy her 2 bits but dunno if i should make a move. let da good ppl of ah help me
yo so ah help me out..expect a few of u actin da bollox but help a brother loli dont have a place mate ha ye but defo am not safe male friend..shes too shy with me for that
Lose the txt spk Thanks
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irishescorts wrote: »Go in for the kiss mate, best way to do it.
If she recoils then you're fooked, just be honest and tell her you're into her
And best of luck!
OP,
I think its fair to say that the best advice you could get on how to subtly find out whether or not your as yet unfruitful dalliances may turn into a fulfilling and healthy relationship can be drawn from Irishescorts0 -
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Don't arse about anyway, make your move quick or you could end up in the friend zone for good.
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This also reminds me of a time I was at a party with a girl i kinda fancied, getting on grand all night but never really got the "signal" so I was pretty confused as to what to do - later we were alone in the sitting room and I said f**k it so it stuck the head in her - when that was over she responded with a confident - "about f**king time"
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need advice.(shy girls btw not flirty 1s)
my friend is shy..know her my whole life but only start hangin out last year....fancy her 2 bits but dunno if i should make a move. let da good ppl of ah help me
few signs- we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
- at her party i was talking to her uncle and she came over and said she thought i was a good guy and had her approval....would seem a dead giveaway right haha
- at times her friends have made comments about me being her bf
- sittin down on chair with her and she start subtly resting her feet against side of my leg.. we are very good friends but still kinda shy around each other so seemed a bit risky 4 her....not somethin she'd do id imagine
I don't want to be the douche who rains on your parade but from what I've read you are definitely in the friend zone. You have known her too long and have waited too long to form any kind of saucy relationship. You are now like a 'brother' to her. The fact that she introduced you to family and said that you were a good guy just cements that; a girl wouldn't do that with someone she had sexual desires for.
It reminds me of the episode of Inbetweeners where Charlotte said to Will something along the lines of "I would really like a boyfriend like you" ... "hahahahahaha not you though Will someone like you!!"
From your post I can guarantee, without doubt, that you are between 15 and 20 years old. I can also guarantee, without doubt, that you will ignore all advice in this thread and just go for it anyway. I am going to tell you that you have nothing to lose and the chances are you will fail; but if you succeed you will be a happy young man. You have a case of 'oneitis' where you only like one girl and she is all that is great in the world. You will look back one day at this forum post and laugh; but today is not that day.
I would advise you to not go for it and find someone else, this will increase your chances of her actually fancying you as more than a friend - she may then make more obvious (actual) advances towards you and you won't really have to do anything other than go with it. You won't take this advice (young love, n'awwwwwwww) though so just go for it and if you get shot down say something along the lines of "that's ok, I thought we might have had something more I was just confused it's cool though I'm totally happy with just being friends anyway".Jeez, I must like every guy I talk to so. I'm always fiddling with my hair out of boredom/uncomfort/just fixing my hair.
Pubic hair?
weeeeeeeird0 - we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
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TwoShedsJackson wrote: »See if she gets an erection when she's talking to you.
13 years and still these gems
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Well I for one thinks it sounds like she likes you (I've used the head on the shoulder one a few times (that's actually how I "made my move" on my husband - married 13 years now- we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
- at her party i was talking to her uncle and she came over and said she thought i was a good guy and had her approval....would seem a dead giveaway right haha
- at times her friends have made comments about me being her bf
- sittin down on chair with her and she start subtly resting her feet against side of my leg.. we are very good friends but still kinda shy around each other so seemed a bit risky 4 her....not somethin she'd do id imagine
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Ah the teenage years! I remember being so distracted with the thought of making a fool of myself that I never made a move. Meanwhile there were people in the background who figured out the rules really quickly and just jumped straight in. They realised that you have to make a few blunders before things come right. I envy those who learned the 'rules' (as in there are none!) early because it took me a long time to cop on :pac:
Go for it. Ask her out. You're not doing anything wrong by asking a girl out. If there's a knockback, take it on the chin and move on. If she says yes, you're sorted. Either way it's a win because you won't be second guessing any more.
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It's very possible she does like you...or she thinks of you as a really close friend. A couple of years ago before my best friend and I fell out (because I wouldn't date him) I used to act exactly like that. On nights out I would be tired and we'd be talking to a group of people and I'd put my head on his shoulder and he'd put his arm around me. We went everywhere together so if I ever entered a pub on my own everyone would say "where's the boyfriend?" and were genuinely shocked to find out he wasn't my boyfriend!
If I were in your shoes I would ask her out to a movie. I usually don't recommend it for a first date but given that you already know each other quite well it should be okay 0 -
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need advice.(shy girls btw not flirty 1s)
my friend is shy..know her my whole life but only start hangin out last year....fancy her 2 bits but dunno if i should make a move. let da good ppl of ah help me
few signs- we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
- at her party i was talking to her uncle and she came over and said she thought i was a good guy and had her approval....would seem a dead giveaway right haha
- at times her friends have made comments about me being her bf
- sittin down on chair with her and she start subtly resting her feet against side of my leg.. we are very good friends but still kinda shy around each other so seemed a bit risky 4 her....not somethin she'd do id imagine
If all this be true then she's not one bit shy, its just, well just..your a bit slow op. Man up and tell this girl what she wants to hear.0 - we were down beach after a party and we were all sitting there and she rested her head against my shoulder
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start hanging around with other girls or talk about how nice such and such is.See if she reacts
This does not work! Alot of girls are stubborn and will do the exact same, and you will have to try harder with them because they will give the whole "Oh I thought you didnt like me, u liked her?" crap!0 -
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