Have you ever had a stalker?

stevejr · 04-07-2011 01:56AM #1

I have, luckily for me the problem sorted itself out once she went to Specsavers....

Asphyxia · 04-07-2011 02:04AM

:D:D
http://thejosevilson.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/stalkers.jpg

policarp · 04-07-2011 02:05AM

Have you ever had a stalk...?

Karona · 04-07-2011 02:07AM

I have a stalker... will not stop texting me even though I dont text back. Keeps saying Hey, How are you?

Its so flucking annoying. I never text back.

policarp · 04-07-2011 02:08AM

Asphyxia wrote: »

:D:D
http://thejosevilson.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/stalkers.jpg

Peeping Tom...

Asphyxia · 04-07-2011 02:12AM

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im invisible · 04-07-2011 02:12AM

Karona wrote: »

I have a stalker... will not stop texting me even though I dont text back. Keeps saying Hey, How are you?

Its so flucking annoying. I never text back.

Hey, how are you? I txted you there, but you never replied

The Princess Bride · 04-07-2011 02:12AM

In the 80s,I went out with a guy called Spud,and he had a brother who was a bit intense.
Every time we went out as a group,he'd spend the night staring at me.
One night,when Spud went to get drinks,Spud eile( cannot for the life of me remember his name,but no doubt will have nightmares and remember it later)
sidled in closer and said " msthe80s,you know it's really me you love .You want to marry me and have my babies, you know you do..................."
:eek::eek::eek::eek:
Jesus,I didn't even want to marry Spud,let alone psycho brother!!!

PseudoFamous · 04-07-2011 02:14AM

msthe80s wrote: »

In the 80s,I went out with a guy called Spud,and he had a brother who was a bit intense.
Every time we went out as a group,he'd spend the night staring at me.
One night,when Spud went to get drinks,Spud eile( cannot for the life of me remember his name,but no doubt will have nightmares and remember it later)
sidled in closer and said " msthe80s,you know it's really me you love .You want to marry me and have my babies, you know you do..................."
:eek::eek::eek::eek:
Jesus,I didn't even want to marry Spud,let alone psycho brother!!!

My name is John, dear.

later12 · 04-07-2011 02:15AM

A stalker is not an unwelcome texter who doesnt get the message. A stalker is someone who sneaks into your house to write love messages in his bodily fluids on your wallpaper, or follows you in your everyday life to an intrusive degree.

I find it is mediocre looking naive girls who usually like to proclaim that somebody is stalking them. Maybe it has something to do with attention seeking, maybe it has something do do with paranoia - maybe they really do believe they are Paris Hilton. In any case, I think most so-called stalkers are just friendly guys/girls who may not immediately get the message that their friendship is unwanted.

Midnight_EG · 04-07-2011 02:16AM

Why'd you close the blinds

Marty McFly · 04-07-2011 02:17AM

Yep I can sadly say ive had two in my lifetime, is it a bad dthing I wonder or is it like a badge of honour.

One was a complete pyscho called into my house one day and after realising I was in work invited herself in and sat there with my mother for 2 hours until I arrived home from work to find my ma laughing when she opened door saying you have a visitor I spent the next 5 hours squirming trying to get her out of my house.

Kojak · 04-07-2011 02:18AM

I read the title as "Have you ever been a stalker?"

Wolfe Tone · 04-07-2011 02:18AM

later10 wrote: »

A stalker is not an unwelcome texter who doesnt get the message. A stalker is someone who sneaks into your house to write love messages in his bodily fluids on your wallpaper, or follows you in your everyday life to an intrusive degree.

I find it is mediocre looking naive girls who usually like to proclaim that somebody is stalking them. Maybe it has something to do with attention seeking, maybe it has something do do with paranoia - maybe they really do believe they are Paris Hilton. In any cases, I think most so-called stalkers are just friendly guys/girls who may not immediately get the message that their friendship is unwanted.

Friendship isnt unwanted, she just hasnt got any credit... for the past 2 months

CrazyRabbit · 04-07-2011 02:19AM

I do the stalking....from your back garden. It's my job.

cesc77 · 04-07-2011 02:25AM

I once had a stalker who took their own life after I made it clear that I wasnt interested.

They were harmless to me but it has obviously had an effect on me and how I deal with people from now on.

Be careful as you dont know what goes on in peoples heads.

Doogieboogie · 04-07-2011 02:35AM

I had an ex who stole my address book, stalked me and various members of my family/friends. Wrote me 5 letters a day, sent me bizarre mix tapes (this was in the mid 90's) turned up at my house, my place of work...Eventually went away when I had a burly friend and his burly mates have a 'word' or three. Scary.... I don't think I slept right for about 8 months.

04-07-2011 02:37AM

Karona wrote: »

I have a stalker... will not stop texting me even though I dont text back. Keeps saying Hey, How are you?

Its so flucking annoying. I never text back.

Same here, been there, done that. Ended up changing my number... she asked me at one stage if we'd make a pact that if neither of us were married by the time we were 25 that we'd marry each other! :eek:

saintsaltynuts · 04-07-2011 02:43AM

I class a stalker as an unwanted erection that appears out of the blue maybe four/five times a day.

Kanoe · 04-07-2011 02:43AM

yes, at first I was flattered and then I told her she kissed like a girl.

[edit; it was like opening up the 7th circle of hell]

Mal-Adjusted · 04-07-2011 02:52AM

i have a FB stalker (who's branching out into real-life) . the ex of a friend. she's always on my page, leaving comments & long private messages as well as bothering my girlfriend.

later12 · 04-07-2011 03:02AM

While admittedly this is a self-selective response pool, I am amazed that 9 people out of about 20 have so far suggested that they have had stalkers. Boards.ie respondents must be particularly fascinating, beautiful people relative to the general population!

Can this thread have a poll? It would be interesting to see how high the stalk-o-meter will go:pac:

Mal-Adjusted · 04-07-2011 03:03AM

later10 wrote: »

While admittedly this is a self-selective response pool, I am amazed that 9 people out of about 20 have so far suggested that they have had stalkers. Boards.ie respondents must be particularly fascinating, beautiful people relative to the general population!

Can this thread have a poll? It would be interesting to see how high the stalk-o-meter will go:pac:

well to be fair, if you didn't have one, then why even bother posting?

Kanoe · 04-07-2011 03:04AM

stalkbook uhuh uhumm .. k i'm stalking somebody as we speak. well maybe not stalking but I haven't thought about them in ages and went and checked out their page. I still would.

Needler · 04-07-2011 03:05AM

Havn't had a stalker, why the feck would anyone want to? lol

and yes a lot of girl's "stalker" are just ordinary fellas who she hasn't told to feck off yet because secretly she likes the attention

LisaLee · 04-07-2011 03:08AM

Yes, he used to wait for me outside of lecture halls then come over and start asking me what I was doing later on.

I always told him I was busy, but he wouldn't back off until I started dating someone. Bit of an oddball, especially since he knew what lecture halls I'd be in each day.. :eek:

Fozzydog3 · 04-07-2011 03:09AM

who else is here to see if they've been found out ?

later12 · 04-07-2011 03:13AM

Mal-Adjusted wrote: »

well to be fair, if you didn't have one, then why even bother posting?

Well yes, I took account of that by adding that the pool is self selective. But I would consider having a stalker to be quite a rare thing, not being convinced that the country is over-run with stalkers. So it strikes me as amusing that in a thread that is just over one hour old, very late on a Sunday night, already so many people claim to have been stalked.

Maybe stalkees are just more likely to be sleepless, and therefore online at 3am when their stalker is hiding in the wardrobe in the next room, though, who knows...

Kanoe · 04-07-2011 03:25AM

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Needler · 04-07-2011 11:26AM

later10 wrote: »

Well yes, I took account of that by adding that the pool is self selective. But I would consider having a stalker to be quite a rare thing, not being convinced that the country is over-run with stalkers. So it strikes me as amusing that in a thread that is just over one hour old, very late on a Sunday night, already so many people claim to have been stalked.

Maybe stalkees are just more likely to be sleepless, and therefore online at 3am when their stalker is hiding in the wardrobe in the next room, though, who knows...

ah sure if you posted this thread in tLL you won't get one girl saying she never had a stalker

Biggins · 04-07-2011 11:42AM

Had two serious ones which had to be dealt with.
An ex-girlfriend also had a serious one for a year too.

Have you ever had a stalker?

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