Webcam sex - would you call it cheating?

Toby Take a Bow · 09-05-2011 11:26PM

TheZohan wrote: »

On a serious note though, women see emotional cheating like you have here as a much bigger deal than guys...anything physical as in person to person is cheating for most guys.

But if you caught your girlfriend doing something similar with a guy on a webcam, how would you react? I'd probably class it as cheating, or at least definitely something we'd have to 'talk' about (ie, it'd probably result in the relationship ending).

DominoDub · 09-05-2011 11:26PM

I am neither CAM4 or against it ...!

MidnightQueen · 09-05-2011 11:27PM

Yup i would call it cheating too. Virtual reality sex like Judge Dredd, LOL would be the same thing as having sex in real life.

RachaelVO · 09-05-2011 11:28PM

kfallon wrote: »

Wait til I introduce you to 'Boldfinger' :pac:

Oh my...

:o:o:o:o:o

Fluorescence · 09-05-2011 11:30PM

It wouldn't be a relationship-ending offence for me, but yeah I wouldn't be cool with it. I'd probably fume for a couple of days, self-doubt, and then get over it.

KingEnda · 09-05-2011 11:36PM

there would need to be a bit of contact for cheating. Web cam sex is just having a wa*k with someone watching you
She could get pissed off for a while but he could be doing a hell of a lot worse

Tar.Aldarion · 09-05-2011 11:37PM

I would consider it very bad.

arybvtcw0eolkf · 09-05-2011 11:41PM

RachaelVO wrote: »

Yes it's cheating! You don't have to fcuk him/her for it to be cheating. Could be sexting, telephone sex or horny IM, makes not a sh1t worth of difference.

+1 This!.

If I was in a casual enough relationship this wouldn't matter a fiddlers f*ck to me, if in a loving relationship I'd be very hurt and consider it a betrayal.

tippx · 09-05-2011 11:46PM

What if your partner joined in would that qualify as a 3 some:rolleyes:

Raze_them_all · 09-05-2011 11:49PM

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

I would consider it very bad.

What if the other person was Avril Lavigne getting her bits out on screen?

It wasn't me! · 10-05-2011 12:14AM

Yes, it's cheating. Would he have done it if herself was in the room and expected her to be fine? If not, then he obviously knows it wasn't acceptable too and went ahead anyway.

Tar.Aldarion · 10-05-2011 12:14AM

Raze_them_all wrote: »

What if the other person was Avril Lavigne getting her bits out on screen?

then she can gtfo

starbelgrade · 10-05-2011 12:16AM

jubella wrote: »

Agreed. It's definitely cheating! How would a guy feel if he found his girlfriend stripping off for some guy on webcam?!

Horny.

Praetorian Saighdiuir · 10-05-2011 12:20AM

Its only cheating if he pressed Ctrl + Alt + ejaculate.

TheZohanS · 10-05-2011 12:29AM

Toby Take a Bow wrote: »

But if you caught your girlfriend doing something similar with a guy on a webcam, how would you react? I'd probably class it as cheating, or at least definitely something we'd have to 'talk' about (ie, it'd probably result in the relationship ending).

It depends, if it was with someone on the far side of the world I might be slightly miffed but I'd sit down and talk about it like an adult and find the reason for it, it might even add a new dimension to our relationship. If it was with someone she knew, had met or had planned to meet I'd probably dump her.

A_Border_Bandit · 10-05-2011 12:30AM

I despise guys who cheat when they're playing on the computer.
It's just not cool like. I mean, you get a quick rush and everything but then you just feel empty inside, you're back to reality man and no amount of

R2, R2, L1, L2, LEFT, DOWN, RIGHT, UP, LEFT, DOWN, RIGHT, UP

will ever fix that.

ArtSmart · 10-05-2011 12:33AM

cheating? only if you use someone else's credit card.

Fluorescence · 10-05-2011 12:35AM

TheZohan wrote: »

It depends, if it was with someone on the far side of the world I might be slightly miffed but I'd sit down and talk about it like an adult and find the reason for it, it might even add a new dimension to our relationship. If it was with someone she knew, had met or had planned to meet I'd probably dump her.

If it was a complete stranger on the other side of the world that they would never meet, I'd view it as interactive porn to be honest. It probably would be a dumpable offense if it was someone they knew IRL.

Aishae · 10-05-2011 12:54AM

an ex of mine 11 years ago did the webcam sex thing with a woman regularly - no i didnt know this till later - they ended up fecking off with her.
so its not just a harmless sex thing like porn.
at the very least youd have to have a very good chat about it as i would see it as a form of cheating (with th potential for the worse forms of chating too)

--LOS-- · 10-05-2011 01:13AM

ye, same as sending dirty texts, emails, being on dating sites on the sly

haydar · 10-05-2011 01:30AM

If i caught my bird doin it she would definitely get the boot. If i caught her lookin at porn however, id probably say 'thats a ****e site, try youjizz' or something

Neonjack · 10-05-2011 01:59AM

dark crystal wrote: »

........., having discovered an MSN log detailing a, em, hot and heavy session he had with another girl on webcam.

The gobsh*te.

Picture quality's much better on skype....

K-9 · 10-05-2011 02:08AM

As long as they never meet up it isn't that much different from watching porn tbh.

Yeah, it's a real person, what do people think porn is?

haydar · 10-05-2011 02:11AM

K-9 wrote: »

As long as they never meet up it isn't that much different from watching porn tbh.

Yeah, it's a real person, what do people think porn is?

But it is because they are interacting. Porn is impersonal

CoolHat · 10-05-2011 02:11AM

is it cheating?

yes.
its cheating.

CoolHat · 10-05-2011 02:16AM

TheZohan wrote: »

It depends, if it was with someone on the far side of the world I might be slightly miffed but I'd sit down and talk about it like an adult and find the reason for it, it might even add a new dimension to our relationship. If it was with someone she knew, had met or had planned to meet I'd probably dump her.

doesnt matter if its someone they know locally, or across the world ... its a clear intention of what the relationship means to them.

by all means then I could see another girl strip off in front of me, in person, and she masturbates. While I masurbate. I dont kiss her. I dont do anything. Can twist it the same way right? ... 'didnt do anything'

Its cheating (as in doing an act behinds someones back) only a fool would ignore, or rationalise it.

--LOS-- · 10-05-2011 02:17AM

K-9 wrote: »

As long as they never meet up it isn't that much different from watching porn tbh.

Yeah, it's a real person, what do people think porn is?

would you rather your gf was getting off to pictures of your friends/people you know as opposed to someone you dont know?

SparKing · 10-05-2011 02:32AM

He's a complete idiot
For getting caught.
Or he didn't care enough or think it was important though to hide the evidence.
Note to self: clear search history after enfapulation.

Sidenote: is going to a stripclub cheating?

deathrider · 10-05-2011 04:01AM

TheZohan wrote: »

The aul webcamarooney is kinda like watching a porno. Does your friends fella live near the webcam girl? Like if she lives in a foreign country(or Laois) it shouldn't be a big deal...

That's kinda going down the road off "If you don't remember, then it never happened" or "If you're in a different postcode, it's not really cheating". All of which, of course, are complete horse-sh1t.

There's a big difference between webcamming it up and porno. Porno seems fair enough, but webcam is actual interaction. So, yeah, I've very class that as cheating.

Mully_2011 · 10-05-2011 04:38AM

No its the internet

Webcam sex - would you call it cheating?

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