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Couples reading each other's texts

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  • #32
    BostonB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,053 ✭✭✭✭BostonB


    In the modern world don't email, text, facebook, or write down anything you don't want on the 9 O'clock news. A slip of a key and boom its sent to the wrong person.

    ;)

    ...or you fall out with someone and then they all that stuff saved....


  • #33
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    BostonB wrote: »
    In the modern world don't email, text, facebook, or write down anything you don't want on the 9 O'clock news. A slip of a key and boom its sent to the wrong person.

    ;)

    ...or you fall out with someone and then they all that stuff saved....

    Your texts and emails must be the most boring on the planet if you stick to that rule.


  • #34
    Mike 1972
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,017 ✭✭✭Mike 1972


    sensibleken wrote: »
    wait....they can put their genitals in each others mouths but not read each others texts?

    Do hookers read their clients texts ?


  • #35
    BostonB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,053 ✭✭✭✭BostonB


    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    Your texts and emails must be the most boring on the planet if you stick to that rule.

    On the traceable phone anyway......;)


  • #36
    hardCopy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,969 ✭✭✭hardCopy


    BostonB wrote: »
    On the traceable phone anyway......;)

    Keep it on the burner kids


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  • #37
    Lcronin2011
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭Lcronin2011


    If my boyfriend left the room before and left his phone i would have a look through his messages just out of curiosity. Stopped doing it though because he did it to me one day and i realised how annoying it is. Plus who cares about text messages! :p


  • #38
    Zebra3
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,299 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    Lcronin2011 wrote: »
    If my boyfriend left the room before and left his phone i would have a look through his messages just out of curiosity. Stopped doing it though because he did it to me one day and i realised how annoying it is. Plus who cares about text messages! :p

    Maybe their friends who sent them something private not expecting some nosey person to be reading something that is none of their business. :rolleyes:


  • #39
    amandaf675
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 488 ✭✭amandaf675


    Under no circumstances does anyone read my texts! Id actually knock someone out! its not because im hiding anything but i like my privacy!


  • #40
    wild_cat
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,291 ✭✭✭wild_cat


    Can I ask any who does read their partners messages do you not trust them or what?

    If that's the reason you need to sort it out.


  • #41
    AckwelFoley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,556 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    i couldnt care less if she reads my texts, ive nothing to hide anymore

    ..if her mother read my texts, that would be a different matter.. "YOU DID THAT WITH WHAT?"


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  • #42
    deathrider
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,699 ✭✭✭deathrider


    Nobody texts me :(


  • #43
    Lcronin2011
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭Lcronin2011


    wild_cat wrote: »
    Can I ask any who does read their partners messages do you not trust them or what?

    If that's the reason you need to sort it out.

    As i said i used to do it and stopped. And its not that i dont trust him coz i trust him 100%! I didn't go through them coz i thought he was texting another girl or that i would find dodgy messages, it was just out of curiosity?? :o


  • #44
    Teyla Emmagan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,638 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    cosanostra wrote: »
    My mates woman not only reads his messages but replies and then deletes them, we only found this out recently and were wondering why he always refused to go on the beer!

    That is totally ****ed up.


  • #45
    wild_cat
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,291 ✭✭✭wild_cat


    Teyla Emmagan wrote: »
    That is totally ****ed up.

    I'd break up with someone for that and I tolerate lots of shit behaviour but privacy is a big thing.


  • #46
    amandaf675
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 488 ✭✭amandaf675


    wild_cat wrote: »
    I'd break up with someone for that and I tolerate lots of shit behaviour but privacy is a big thing.

    x2


  • #47
    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    Lcronin2011 wrote: »
    As i said i used to do it and stopped. And its not that i dont trust him coz i trust him 100%! I didn't go through them coz i thought he was texting another girl or that i would find dodgy messages, it was just out of curiosity?? :o

    Curiosity of what? What were you curious about?

    My Mrs did it once or twice to me when we were younger, I soon put her straight on that.

    My phone is my phone. Mine. Yes, we are a couple, I love her to bits, have no secrets from her, but I still have my personal space. And for me, my phone is my personal space.


  • #48
    Lcronin2011
    Closed Accounts Posts: 94 ✭✭Lcronin2011


    Sofiztikated wrote: »
    Curiosity of what? What were you curious about?

    My Mrs did it once or twice to me when we were younger, I soon put her straight on that.

    My phone is my phone. Mine. Yes, we are a couple, I love her to bits, have no secrets from her, but I still have my personal space. And for me, my phone is my personal space.

    i dont know..
    Good thing you put her straight!!


  • #49
    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    Lcronin2011 wrote: »
    i dont know..
    Good thing you put her straight!!

    Damn straight. Nothing a quick punch to the ovaries didn't sort out.

    I in no way condone/commit spousal abuse. But it's AH, I'm trying to be funny, in a non funny way.


  • #50
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Sofiztikated wrote: »
    Damn straight. Nothing a quick punch to the ovaries didn't sort out.

    I in no way condone/commit spousal abuse. But it's AH, I'm trying to be funny, in a non funny way.

    IN other words your wife wears the trousers :D


  • #51
    Lorrrrraine
    Closed Accounts Posts: 330 ✭✭Lorrrrraine


    I've never heard of anybody doing it and wouldn't do it myself.
    What if a friend is texting something private?


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  • #52
    Kevin Duffy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,439 ✭✭✭Kevin Duffy


    My ex did this to me. For the hard of reading, my ex.


  • #53
    mconigol
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,583 ✭✭✭mconigol


    What I want to know is what people have to hide??

    I think all texts should be logged in a database that's open to the public. It would make society much more open imo.

    Plus it would be hugely entertaining. :pac: I'm getting tired of reading all the same threads on boards.


  • #54
    NomdePlume
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 156 ✭✭NomdePlume


    mconigol wrote: »
    What I want to know is what people have to hide??

    I think all texts should be logged in a database that's open to the public. It would make society much more open imo.

    All texts should be sent via Joe Duffy. He will read each one out, and remark on their terribleness where appropriate.


  • #55
    sashafierce
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,599 ✭✭✭sashafierce


    This post has been deleted.


  • #56
    mconigol
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,583 ✭✭✭mconigol


    NomdePlume wrote: »
    All texts should be sent via Joe Duffy. He will read each one out, and remark on their terribleness where appropriate.

    I don't know if he could cope.


  • #57
    Sofiztikated
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    mconigol wrote: »
    What I want to know is what people have to hide??

    I think all texts should be logged in a database that's open to the public. It would make society much more open imo.

    Plus it would be hugely entertaining. :pac: I'm getting tired of reading all the same threads on boards.

    I don't think anyone wants to read about me calling Her Indoors' sister a raging cúntrag.
    sashafierce wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.

    I smell a rat here. You mean, YOU log into HIS Facebook page, and read HIS messages. I don't think its a male thing to do.


  • #58
    Raze_them_all
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,477 ✭✭✭✭Raze_them_all


    I bloody hate it, just because you read me your messages doesn't mean you get to read mine.


  • #59
    redz11
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭redz11


    I'd read my boyfriend's texts if he asked me to, say if he was driving or something, as he doesn't use his phone for anything personal anyways.

    However I use my phone and my e-mail to have private conversations with my friends all the time. I would never let him read my texts because of this (not that he's ever wanted to), and I think it's really f*cked up that anyone would read personal messages on another person's phone.

    It's not a matter of trust, at all, in my opinion. It's that I might be having a personal conversation with a close friend or family member via text. They are comfortable having that conversation with me, it's completely unfair that my boyfriend can have access to it. If they wanted him to know, they'd have chosen to talk to him about it themselves.
    sashafierce wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.

    Would you be OK with your friends' OHs reading every text/e-mail that you send to your friends? Without your knowledge or permission, and regardless of how well you know the OH? In my opinion, I wouldn't like it done to me - it's not fair and it's an invasion of privacy.


  • #60
    lamai
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 312 ✭✭lamai


    Dangerdunf wrote: »
    My girlfriend always reads mine if I leave my phone around. Wrecks my head!!:mad:

    why don't you kick her in the box?


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  • #61
    sashafierce
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,599 ✭✭✭sashafierce


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