Tell me if Im being too harsh (I trust you people will)

Bit of a rant after a glass of vino, I have a friend who is a bit of a looker not one of the best looking girls I know but very pretty and very small and slim. She's a great personality, very outgoing and charming. The one down side of her is when is comes to looks she really knows it and goes on about it a lot.

So we were out one night recently and I had been telling her I was a bit down in the dumps about things and have been to see a counsellor etc kinda thing and she said "Well you shouldnt wallow in these things it's self indulgent", that's how I feel anyways and then said a few more times it's self indulgent and some people would cut off their right arm to live the quality of life we lead and that's that. So I thought ok fair enough you're entitled to your opinion but then starting thinking of the amount of times she has rung me to obsess about some guy and how long Ive spent listening to this and often things dont work out for her but she'll literally always say "Well I know he really likes me" even in one case when someone actually told her he didnt so she never seems to get down about these things.

So that night after she had dismissed me by saying I was self-indulgent and selfish she started going on about how all the guys she works with flirt with her again and how she brought a friend into work with her and they all said "OMG your friend looks so much older than you" etc. Now my friend is very good looking but she defo looks her age so she starts going to me "Dont I look far younger then I am" etc and I said "Oh yeah a bit" hoping she'd leave it and then she told me I never pay her enough compliments, at this stage Im thinking why does it matter what you look like that's not why Im friends with you.

Nearly done! I think the last time I felt this strongly about her going on was after we came back from a holiday where we'd been shopping and she'd spent the whole time moaning that she was soooooooooo skinny and couldnt find any clothes small enough to fit, any shop we went into she'd try something on to prove it was too big and then come out and be like look at this! At the same time she pointed out that our other friend had put on a lot of weight and had I not noticed! So I remember thinking if you have noticed that why would you be so insensitive to go on and on and on about how you're so so skinny.

I mean Ahhhhh! I just want to say to her who cares no one else I know spends hours talking about how good looking/skinny/young looking they are and I know a couple of knockouts. Its affecting our friendship, not because Im jealous I have thought about that but I really dont mind that Im not as good looking as her and dont get male attention they way she does (and I mean that!) but because I resent being dismissed for my "selfishness" and then have to listen to who fancies her for ages and how good looking she is.

Rant over! Opinions please:)