Cheater's. Who is to blame????

rochey84 · 15-04-2011 02:39PM #1

Hi guys and girls,

I've come across this before, but lets call this situation John and Mary, John and Mary are together 10 years when Mary goes off and sleeps with a randomer named Tom.

John finds out about it and goes off after Tom to kick 7 shades of the brown stuff out of him.

The reverse also applies, John goes off and sleeps with a randomer named Sarah, Mary finds out about it and goes after Sarah and rips her hair out.

Here is my problem with the above scenarios:
Tom and Sarah are single at the time, it is not their responsibility to make sure that John and Mary remain faithful to each other that responsibility lies with John and Mary.
The single people are free to sleep with whoever they want as long as it is consensual, even if the single people know that the others aren't single it doesn't make them the worst person in the situation, (it doesn't make them angels) but they aren't villians!

So I suppose my question is this why blame the single people (Tom and Sarah) its your partners responsibility to stay faithful isn't it?

what do you guys all think?

P.s. all the above people do not exisit and I'm sure if they did, Mary would blast John with piss and vice versa!

AnonoBoy · 15-04-2011 02:41PM

Can we find a way to blame 'de immigrents' in this situation perhaps?

_feedback_ · 15-04-2011 02:42PM

Important question:

Mary and Sarah . . .

Who is the hottest?

mikemac · 15-04-2011 02:42PM

Did Tom and Sarah fail to spot the wedding rings?

Tom is a homewrecker and Sarah is a shameless hussy
They deserve each other

Kiith · 15-04-2011 02:43PM

You cheated on your girlfriend/boyfriend. It's your fault.

OutlawPete · 15-04-2011 02:43PM

Mary's a bitch.

The cheating spouse is always the one to blame, ALWAYS!

wobbles-grogan · 15-04-2011 02:43PM

"Mam, I have a friend, his name is.......mick. And mick threw a stone at the window in the school, but mick's friend......mark got blamed. But now mick feels really bad, do you think mick should own up?"

"Yes, that would be a delightful thing to do"

"Mam, I threw the stone."

Saila · 15-04-2011 02:43PM

as long as its not a biggamist who married 5 times with not '1 divorce youre winning

mathie · 15-04-2011 02:44PM

rochey84 wrote: »

what do you guys all think?

Hypothetically, Tom and Sarah are the innocent parties.

In actuality, you're a 27 year old wife-banger.

Azureus · 15-04-2011 02:44PM

Sarah is a hussy, but John would be getting his ass kicked by moi!

krudler · 15-04-2011 02:45PM

Mary cheats on Tom with Sarah

awwwww yeahhhh :cool:

Micky Dolenz · 15-04-2011 02:47PM

Is the answer 42?

Ruu_Old · 15-04-2011 02:47PM

Shortly after, Tom, Mary, Sarah and John had been had sex with and then shot by Trent. "Haha!", said Trent.

/miss padraiggg

Spunge · 15-04-2011 02:49PM

I don't think simple logic applies to something as emotional as that.

Also Mary could be a total bitch

Penn · 15-04-2011 02:49PM

I remember when Channel4 did a documentary about Tiger Woods cheating, they interviewed one of the girls and asked "Did you know he was married?". She replied "The question is, did HE know he was married?"

Then the cameraman blasted her with cum cos she was hot

hondasam · 15-04-2011 02:50PM

Did John sleep with Tom

mikemac · 15-04-2011 02:50PM

Sounds like a weekly episode of Ros na Rún

i71jskz5xu42pb · 15-04-2011 02:50PM

rochey84 wrote: »

what do you guys all think?

Are you suggesting that John should have kicked 7 shades of the brown stuff out of Mary?

rochey84 · 15-04-2011 03:05PM

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

Micky Dolenz · 15-04-2011 03:06PM

rochey84 wrote: »

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

Anyone's husband then?

mathie · 15-04-2011 03:06PM

rochey84 wrote: »

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

Maybe she looks like Ronnie Corbett?

hondasam · 15-04-2011 03:08PM

rochey84 wrote: »

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

John did sleep with Tom, I knew it

Orando Broom · 15-04-2011 03:10PM

rochey84 wrote: »

Hi guys and girls,

I've come across this before, but lets call this situation John and Mary, John and Mary are together 10 years when Mary goes off and sleeps with a randomer named Tom.

John finds out about it and goes off after Tom to kick 7 shades of the brown stuff out of him.

The reverse also applies, John goes off and sleeps with a randomer named Sarah, Mary finds out about it and goes after Sarah and rips her hair out.

Here is my problem with the above scenarios:
Tom and Sarah are single at the time, it is not their responsibility to make sure that John and Mary remain faithful to each other that responsibility lies with John and Mary.
The single people are free to sleep with whoever they want as long as it is consensual, even if the single people know that the others aren't single it doesn't make them the worst person in the situation, (it doesn't make them angels) but they aren't villians!

So I suppose my question is this why blame the single people (Tom and Sarah) its your partners responsibility to stay faithful isn't it?

what do you guys all think?

P.s. all the above people do not exisit and I'm sure if they did, Mary would blast John with piss and vice versa!

Kill whichever of them is the public servant.

Chickaroo · 15-04-2011 03:11PM

I bet Ann & Barry feel really left out

hondasam · 15-04-2011 03:12PM

If John slept with Tom, Did Mary and Sarah sleep together

phill106 · 15-04-2011 03:14PM

I think the fault is with the cheaters spouse. Obviously not enough sexy time.

rochey84 · 15-04-2011 03:16PM

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Anyone's husband then?

I genuinly haven't cheated on or with anyone in recent times and I don't plan to either, but this is something I've seen throughout my life and I never quite understood it, the person who is activly cheating on their partner gets away with it and the single person gets vilivied (bad spelling I know!)

thebigbiffo · 15-04-2011 03:21PM

rochey84 wrote: »

I genuinly haven't cheated on or with anyone in recent times and I don't plan to either, but this is something I've seen throughout my life and I never quite understood it, the person who is activly cheating on their partner gets away with it and the single person gets vilivied (bad spelling I know!)

normally, if the single person is indeed vilified, the person cheated on either conciously or sub-conciously wants to stay with the man/woman who cheated so they naturally project their rage onto the singleton.

that's the way i see it.

unless singleton actually knew the person being cheated on - i would blast singlton with piss if that was the case because they are as complicit then.

15-04-2011 03:23PM

rochey84 wrote: »

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

Well then in your case tom and john should just own to being gay get divorced and have a nice civil partnership.

This will of course leave mary and sarah free to make their move into the adult film industry!

The end!

StupidLikeAFox · 15-04-2011 03:25PM

rochey84 wrote: »

John, Mary, Tom and Sarah, are NOT real people in this situation it is hypotethical and for the person that called me a 27 year old wife banger I'd hate to upset ya but I'm a 26 (at least for another month and a bit) year old gay man so I ain't banging anyone's wife!!!!

Men are allowed be wives now too y'know

yupyup7up · 15-04-2011 03:25PM

they seem happy enough to me
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2168/2071709966_acf8d7bf2d.jpg

Cheater's. Who is to blame????

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