Have you ever worked with someone who can't stand you?

Make them suffer. What have you got to lose?

I think starting this job i pissed off our developer, but now we get on like a house on fire think that was cause of the bitching session we had about the boss. plus i kinda don't work with him - he's in a different country.

I work alone.


So yes is the answer.

Sometimes the job in hand is not difficult at all but it's the idiot putting obstacles in your way ( physically or metaphorically ) that becomes the problem . I've always being pretty good working with just one other person or in a small group .But If sometimes working alone mean I get the job done much better and gives satisfaction then bugger off anybody who doesn't like me for it .You are never going to please everybody anyway regardless of what job or line of work you are in .

uncleinim wrote: »

I do. Ordinarily I wouldn't be arsed about it, but the thing is, I like this co-employee! It doesn't seem to matter what I do, whether I'm nice and engaging, or if I try and stay out of their way, the outcome is the same. It makes for an awkward work environment....

Right so it's not worth bothering with, be a bigger prick back until they get the message.

Loads of reasons people don't like others.

Sometimes people don't like other someone because they remind them of somebody else that they don't like. (cant be helped)

Jealousy is another reason (cant be helped)

Insecurity about themselves reminded by something about you (cant be helped)

It could be that they are intimidated by you (depends on the reason)

As an example, I personally don't like the company of materialistic people. Even when they are nice people in other ways they wreck my head when they focus on money all the time. Who's father has this. What car do they have. Ou is that designer? ****ing yawn! That person would not know why I did not like them but they would pick up on it. I would not bother telling them unless they asked but I am sure that would not help matters.

I would not worry about them liking you and I would make very little effort to do anything about it. I would not treat them worse because of it as that would only enforce whatever negative traits that they find in you and others could pick up on that too and then your Pat Kenny in the RTE canteen.

They are probably judging you unfairly or does not understand you then life is too short to worry about why. Now if nobody likes you (I am sure that is not the case) then I would deffo do something about that.


Most people are wankbags anyway