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First Love

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  • #32
    chicken fingers
    Closed Accounts Posts: 645 ✭✭✭chicken fingers


    TheZohan wrote: »
    And for those that weren't aware that the OP was a troll:
    hah, fair enough! (from those of us who dont read every post on every thread on the site)


  • #33
    mikom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    ♫
    Music was my first love
    and it will be my last.
    Music of the future
    and music of the paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaastttt♫


  • #34
    Jaxxy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,297 ✭✭✭Jaxxy


    Probably wasn't love at all.


  • #35
    Bloody Nipples
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Bloody Nipples


    Boards.ie is a strange place to come looking for titillation.

    I recommend one of the internet's very fine pornography emporiums for the fleshy delights you seek.


  • #36
    Trog
    Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    whatsamsn wrote: »
    It was terrible. She was a liar, cheater and clearly had mental issues. Ahhhh ... to be young and stupid :) If the same happened now i'd kick her to the curb in the gee as soon as I got the signs.

    Fixed that there.


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  • #37
    RichieC
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,331 ✭✭✭RichieC


    rainbowdrop wrote: »
    My first love was a 'he', but yeah, him shagging his wife must be like throwing a sausage down O'Connell Street.

    I try not to think about it *shudders*

    A wizards sleeve!


  • #38
    Trog
    Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    af_thefragile wrote: »
    Pretty ****e.

    Don't even know if she's alive or dead now...

    Open the basement to check? This wasn't meant literally.


  • #39
    Pace2008
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008


    32 of your 50 posts are new threads.

    People who think out loud are annoying enough, but this is pulling the piss.


  • #40
    coolperson05
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 280 ✭✭coolperson05


    My First Love: Too far away and 6 months too long!


  • #41
    Jake Rugby Walrus666
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Jake Rugby Walrus666


    Pace2008 wrote: »
    32 of your 50 posts are new threads.

    People who think out loud are annoying enough, but this is pulling the piss.


    I commend the OP.
    Interesting thread ShearerGeordie. Keep up the good work. Love conquers all.


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  • #42
    Dravokivich
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,424 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    i was 9... watching an intro to a james bond movie... when i realised the women were naked... man i was soooo i love that night...


  • #43
    TheZohanS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Pace2008 wrote: »
    32 of your 50 posts are new threads.

    People who think out loud are annoying enough, but this is pulling the piss.

    As a wise mod once put it "the seagull effect"; where a poster comes in, shìts and then flies off.


  • #44
    strokemyclover
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,198 ✭✭✭strokemyclover


    I was drunk and stumbling home during my gaeltacht summer holiday when I was 13. The moon light bounced off the snout of the most beautiful creature I've ever seen. With her thick coat caught up in a barbed wire fence I was entranced listening to her sing some of her most famous tunes while trying to struggle free.

    Only Stevie Nicks and I will remember the details of that glorious, heavenly night. I've never been able to listen to a Fleetwood Mac song ever since! :(


  • #45
    Kimono-Girl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,160 ✭✭✭Kimono-Girl


    JaxxYChicK wrote: »
    Probably wasn't love at all.


    it wasn't love at all, i only have just these past 2 years learned what Love really is....


  • #46
    Novella
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    I dunno. It seems to me a lot of people do the whole, "Ah no, I didn't love him/her, not really!" after they break up with someone. I'm guilty of it myself, but I kinda think that maybe, after time passes, people just forget how absolutely crazy they used to be about a person.


  • #47
    af_thefragile
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,161 ✭✭✭af_thefragile


    Trog wrote: »
    Open the basement to check? This wasn't meant literally.

    Which means she could be both at the same time...

    Hmm... I've lost all contact details to check... So just like Schrodinger's cat, we'll leave her as probably dead and alive as well...

    Its hard for me to see her in a positive light... Probably cuz I wasted too much time and money behind her and she was an ungrateful b*ch all the time!! Ah well, that was a long time ago and I've also pretty much forgotten what she even looks like at this stage! It was just one of those teenage things. You know its all new and screw up big time and then realise how much of a twat you've been but then later look back and realise its all for the good you aren't with her anymore.

    Novella wrote: »
    I dunno. It seems to me a lot of people do the whole, "Ah no, I didn't love him/her, not really!" after they break up with someone. I'm guilty of it myself, but I kinda think that maybe, after time passes, people just forget how absolutely crazy they used to be about a person.
    I guess its sorta why I'm scared of confronting my last gf. We both had very strong feelings for each other and although we separated, the feelings couldn't really go away for a long long time. Its good she lives in Scotland... Like its been a good while since it ended and I haven't spoken to her in a long time. She even contacted me last year on facebook but I ignored her cuz I know getting back in contact will her will eventually lead us down the same slippery slope which got us together in the first place. But I don't wanna go back there. Its better for the both of us that way.


  • #48
    starlit
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,349 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    A mistake but learnt a lesson from it.


  • #49
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Princess Leia. In the tarty gear.

    I knocked her head off by mistake though. :(


  • #50
    Kimono-Girl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,160 ✭✭✭Kimono-Girl


    Novella wrote: »
    I dunno. It seems to me a lot of people do the whole, "Ah no, I didn't love him/her, not really!" after they break up with someone. I'm guilty of it myself, but I kinda think that maybe, after time passes, people just forget how absolutely crazy they used to be about a person.


    or you realise that you were so blinded by the illusion of a relationship that you confused it with love and couldn't see the many flaws they had! :)


  • #51
    Princess Peach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    It was really brilliant! Some really great times, very few bad times, except all the times we broke up :( And I think you know that it was love by how you felt after it ended. And I'm still a mess, so I know I really loved him.


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  • #52
    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    Princess Peach wrote: »
    It was really brilliant! Some really great times, very few bad times, except all the times we broke up :( And I think you know that it was love by how you felt after it ended. And I'm still a mess, so I know I really loved him.
    He was a plumber, wasn't he?


  • #53
    leincar
    Closed Accounts Posts: 683 ✭✭✭leincar


    Married her.


  • #54
    flyton5
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,106 ✭✭✭flyton5


    Gave me smelly fingers...

















    I grabbed her arse and she sharted on them. Good times...


  • #55
    LambsEye
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,678 ✭✭✭LambsEye


    Intense.....(i.e. LOADS of Anal.)

    No but really; intense. I was 15. He was my best mate since I was like 4. Dated for a year. He broke up with me. Spent a year hating him and now he's my ultimate best, best friend. We joke about getting back together all the time. So much so that current boyfriends always hate him.


  • #56
    Storminateacup
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,424 ✭✭✭Storminateacup


    My 1st love? My daddy. For sure, and for always.


  • #57
    Trog
    Closed Accounts Posts: 456 ✭✭Trog


    Novella wrote: »
    I dunno. It seems to me a lot of people do the whole, "Ah no, I didn't love him/her, not really!" after they break up with someone. I'm guilty of it myself, but I kinda think that maybe, after time passes, people just forget how absolutely crazy they used to be about a person.

    This does happen, but I'd say what happened to me is fairly common too. I was mad about her, well, I thought I was but I really hated her. We argued all the time, but really I just really really wanted to be in love with her, cos she ticked the right boxes, not because I enjoyed spending time with her, which I didn't. Add this to fear of being alone and the fact that she was literally batsh*t crazy and it all went haywire.

    Then I met my current girlfriend quite a while and after a few life-altering experiences. I didn't want to fall in love. I couldn't afford to emotionally, so I thought. And she's literally the most perfect person I've ever come across. Not just perfect in a general sense, but tailored to fit my personality, which everyone who knows me agrees is the most unusual personality possible while still holding a resemblance of sanity. I realised that love isn't something you want then achieve, but something that literally becomes part of you.

    So I didn't love the first girl at all, I just thought I did because it hurt when we were apart. It hurt because she made me unhappy, but I wanted to believe she was the one so much that I didn't know it.

    I don't think my case is that unusual, especially with guys who are supposed to not want love but secretly do, like me back then.


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