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Dancefloor pinching !

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  • #32
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Reward wrote: »
    If a woman gropes a man and he in turn cuts out her reproductive organs, who is the bad one?

    'Ah sure it was only a bit of fun, Guard!'

    Double standards indeed.


  • #33
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    shrewdness wrote: »
    It's more the double standards that's the issue. So would you say it's fair for a fella to lash out at a woman for dropping the hand on him?

    What kind of woman would drop the hand on a random guy in a club?


  • #34
    fonecrusher1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    Ive had my arse pinched a few times. And my arms? Well not pinched, squeezed. Whats that all about? Also i have dimples (on my face you dirty pups) & drunken women on occasion have poked & pinched them. With their fingers.
    I had my balls groped in a packed nightclub once. Never seen who did it. Which was kind of disturbing. Im pretty sure it was a woman. Yeah fairly sure.:(


  • #35
    ScareGilly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 723 ✭✭✭ScareGilly


    Kiera wrote: »
    What kind of woman would drop the hand on a random guy in a club?

    Have you been reading the thread or...?


  • #36
    shrewdness
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,709 ✭✭✭shrewdness


    Kiera wrote: »
    What kind of woman would drop the hand on a random guy in a club?

    Seen it done plenty of times, and done to myself a few times too, arse grabbed and balls too! When I worked in a bar a few years ago it was the worst, especially when there were hen parties in! I didn't necessarily mind the ass grabbing(not the first time anyway), but unexpectedly getting your balls pinched by sloppy drunken women is not fun!


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  • #37
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    shrewdness wrote: »
    Seen it done plenty of times, and done to myself a few times too, arse grabbed and balls too! When I worked in a bar a few years ago it was the worst, especially when there were hen parties in! I didn't necessarily mind the ass grabbing(not the first time anyway), but unexpectedly getting your balls pinched by sloppy drunken women is not fun!

    I wouldnt say it is. Neither is getting your tit grabbed by some drunken knob!


  • #38
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 523 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Had my boobs grabbed on plenty of occasions. They all get a smack across the head for that. Some guy grabbed down there one night so I got him kicked out. Went home straight after. Was a horrible feeling.


  • #39
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Kiera wrote: »
    I wouldnt say it is. Neither is getting your tit grabbed by some drunken knob!

    If there's next time, don't twist their balls, just shove them or something. Twisting his balls can prompt an incredibly painful and life threatening medical emergency. I condemn his behaviour, but reacting like that is very dangerous.


  • #40
    ScareGilly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 723 ✭✭✭ScareGilly


    Starla_o0 wrote: »
    Had my boobs grabbed on plenty of occasions. They all get a smack across the head for that. Some guy grabbed down there one night so I got him kicked out. Went home straight after. Was a horrible feeling.

    In a way, it's a compliment :rolleyes:


  • #41
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    Kiera wrote: »
    Why on earth would i grab your ass or chest?

    You haven't answered my question, if a drunk woman gropes a man and he physically assaults her in some way, which person would you see as "the bad one"?


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  • #42
    ya-ba-da-ba-doo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 884 ✭✭✭ya-ba-da-ba-doo


    Kiera wrote: »
    What kind of woman would drop the hand on a random guy in a club?

    My kind of woman


  • #43
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Reward wrote: »
    You haven't answered my question, if a drunk woman gropes a man and he physically assaults her in some way, which person would you see as "the bad one"?

    Excuse me, i didnt see your question as you had edited your post after i saw the original.

    If i drunk woman gropes a man and he grabs her back its her own fault. Simples. I dont do double standards.


  • #44
    Wolfe Tone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    Hear that lads? Woman touches ya its open season for the aul sexual assault!


  • #45
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    MUSSOLINI wrote: »
    Hear that lads? Woman touches ya its open season for the aul sexual assault!

    Why do you insist on acting the dick over and over?

    That is not what i said and well you know it.


  • #46
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Reward wrote: »
    You haven't answered my question, if a drunk woman gropes a man and he physically assaults her in some way, which person would you see as "the bad one"?

    The man will always be seen as the "bad one".

    That is way society is set up.

    I am just back from: "Love and other Drugs" and lost count of the amount of times where violence towards men was used to create laughs.

    At one point in the movie, the female lead follows a man who peeked at her breast (he pretended he was a medical intern when she was showing a doctor a rash) so she followed him to the car park and beat him across the head a few times with a briefcase.

    Look at Lorena Bobbitt who chopped of her husband's penis for cheating. She was celbrated all over the world and was even interviewed by Oprah Winfrey. Can you imagine a man chopping up a woman's vagina and then ending up on Oprah?


  • #47
    Wolfe Tone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    Kiera wrote: »
    Why do you insist on acting the dick over and over?

    That is not what i said and well you know it.
    And what is grabbing a mans balls?


  • #48
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    Kiera wrote: »
    Excuse me, i didnt see your question as you had edited your post after i saw the original.

    If i drunk woman gropes a man and he grabs her back its her own fault. Simples. I dont do double standards.


    I didn't say grab, I said a physically assault.

    If a woman gropes a man in a bar and he responds with a painful physical assault and lets leave out your scissors, that could potentially kill, cause cancer or lead to infertility, who in your mind would be the bad one?


  • #49
    _Whimsical_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,006 ✭✭✭_Whimsical_


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    The man will always be seen as the "bad one".

    That is way society is set up.

    I am just back from: "Love and other Drugs" and lost count of the amount of times where violence towards men was used to create laughs.

    At one point in the movie, the female lead follows a man who peeked at her breast (he pretended he was a medical intern when she was showing a doctor a rash) so she followed him to the car park and beat him across the head a few times with a briefcase.

    Look at Lorena Bobbitt who chopped of her husband's penis for cheating. She was celbrated all over the world and was even interviewed by Oprah Winfrey. Can you imagine a man chopping up a woman's vagina and then ending up on Oprah?

    I'm pretty sure she ended up on Oprah in the same way deranged killers occasionally make an appearance on that show. Usually to try to explain how a normal person did such a disgusting thing. That whole thing became a bit of a funny haha joke, as much among men as women, but it was vile... I don't think anyone would advocate it or genuinely thought it was great.


  • #50
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Reward wrote: »
    I didn't say grab, I said a physically assault.

    If a woman gropes a man in a bar and he responds with a painful physical assault and lets leave out your scissors, that could potentially kill, cause cancer or lead to infertility, who in your mind would be the bad one?

    And i said i grabbed. I couldnt careless if some other woman seriously hurts a guy for him putting his hands on her.

    In my mind, the bad one would be the person who first put their hands on the other.

    Would you like to ask the question for a 3rd time so i can give you the same reply again?


  • #51
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    _Whimsical_ wrote: »
    I'm pretty sure she ended up on Oprah in the same way deranged killers occasionally make an appearance on that show. [/YOUTUBE]

    I'm not saying she was on the show to congratulate her, but a man would not have been on the show for doing similar to a woman.
    _Whimsical_ wrote: »
    That whole thing became a bit of a funny haha joke, as much among men as women ..

    I know, and that's my point - it was seen as a joke and almost everytime it was mentioned, there was tittering and audiences were always laughing when it was discussed.
    _Whimsical_ wrote: »
    .. but it was vile... I don't think anyone would advocate it or genuinely thought it was great.

    Oh really, only last week there was a thread on here saying that man who did nothing illegal, deserved having his testicles cut off with a knife, but yet nobody answered my question about whether a woman should be similarly mutilated if the sexes were reversed.

    The fact is that girls pinch guys and grope guys all the time.

    Women can dish out some punishment and men cannot.

    Not that I think either sex should mind, but that is the way it is in society.

    There are double standards and to deny them is just being somewhat disingenuous or maybe naive, but I think mostly - it's more the former.


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  • #52
    Sea Sharp
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    Reward wrote: »
    Ok, if you touch my chest or ass in a bar, Ill stab you in the womb with a scissors.

    Quote of the day. :pac:


  • #53
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    I don't understand why either sex does it to be honest. :confused:


  • #54
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    Good article about Lorena Bobbit here... goes through the whole thing and has quotes of the celebrations in the female media..


    WEDNESDAY, JUNE 23, 2010
    This date in history: Lorena Bobbitt sliced off her husband's penis and exposed the politics of hate

    Introduction

    The mutilation of John Wayne Bobbitt by his wife, Lorena, on June 23, 1993, marks one of the most appalling and reprehensible chapters in modern Western gender relations. The story is well known: Lorena Bobbitt said her husband abused her over a prolonged period of time and that, on the night in question, he raped her. In a moment of what she claimed was temporary insanity, while her husband slept, she went to the kitchen of their apartment, grabbed a knife, returned to the bedroom, and proceeded to cut off most of his penis. She then hopped in her car, penis in hand, and drove away. As she sped by a field, she tossed the severed appendage out the window. The organ was later recovered and, miraculously, reattached to its owner.

    The Bobbitt affair was appalling and reprehensible, and not merely because of the gruesome act of mayhem that defined it. It was all the more despicable because of the unspeakable glee, the unbridled delight, and the inexplicable exultation expressed by feminists and large segments of the female population, who luxuriated in the vile mutilation of some lower class nobody, a man who had difficulty holding onto a job as a manual laborer. Feminists regarded the event as both a watershed moment in the battle of the sexes and a justifiable assault on maleness itself. Just as ancient warriors sometimes took the penises of their vanquished enemies as war trophies, what better way of trumpeting victory in the battle of the sexes than to take patriarchy's quintessential symbol from one of its foot soldiers?

    Rest here ... http://falserapesociety.blogspot.com/2010/06/this-date-in-history-lorena-bobbitt.html


  • #55
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    Sea Sharp wrote: »
    Quote of the day. :pac:

    hehe


  • #56
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Larianne wrote: »
    I don't understand why either sex does it to be honest. :confused:

    Same here, as I would never just grope someone, but then being a man, maybe that's because I don't want to go to prison :p

    Seriously though, even if it was the norm and not remarks would be passed of I did do it, I just don't see the point.

    Have to say though, I don't mind it happening to me.

    The last time it happened for instance, was last month and had my nipple pulled and my ass slapped, was just a joke and I took it as it was intended.


  • #57
    Reward
    Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭Reward


    Kiera wrote: »
    And i said i grabbed. I couldnt careless if some other woman seriously hurts a guy for him putting his hands on her.

    In my mind, the bad one would be the person who first put their hands on the other.

    Would you like to ask the question for a 3rd time so i can give you the same reply again?


    No thanks, Lorena.


  • #58
    Larianne
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    My school friend (a girl) used to do it when we were out in pubs and clubs. I could never understand why. She wouldn't go talk to them afterwards, just do a lap of the pub and pinch a few arses. :confused:

    I don't understand what guys think they'll get out of it either. The few times I have turned around when I've gotten my arse felt it's usually some idiot standing there with his mates. Do they think they're gonna pull?


  • #59
    ArseBurger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 647 ✭✭✭ArseBurger


    Kiera wrote: »
    It would have been more of a snip than a stab.

    Cant believe you lads think its ok to grab a girls boob but if she fights back she's the bad one? Wow!

    Not at all. Never stated it was ok to grab a boob etc... And I don't believe it is. However, that you don't see an issue with violence as a reaction is concerning.

    There's a reason most people don't know what misandry means.


  • #60
    efb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    M three wrote: »
    stay out of gay bars

    Boys pinching way better than girls!
    Gay bats FTW


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  • #61
    aligator_am
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭aligator_am


    Kiera wrote: »
    It would have been more of a snip than a stab.

    Cant believe you lads think its ok to grab a girls boob but if she fights back she's the bad one? Wow!

    Yeah but it seems to be accepted that if a woman pinches / grabs a man then it's OK.

    If a bloke did that and got a clatter from the woman then most spectators would just think yeah yer man's chancing his arm, now if it was a case where a woman grabbed / pinched a guy's ass and he whacked her a clatter, he'd either be battered by the surrounding men or dragged out of the place, not really an even playing field is it?

    Who would believe him that he was defending his honour? it's a two way system IMO.


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