First love

godscop · 15-10-2010 08:29AM #1

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Biggins · 15-10-2010 08:30AM

Your getting old. Youthful dreams are returning to remind you of that.

15-10-2010 08:30AM

No freaking way...so did i..

TheMilkyPirate · 15-10-2010 08:31AM

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

It happens alot, i think it's quite normal nobody ever really forgets there first love or loses some feelings for them.

PI?

token56 · 15-10-2010 08:33AM

I see my hands every day so I'm always reminded.

Biggins · 15-10-2010 08:35AM

First love is the greatest thing in the world - and the worst.

"Greatest" because when it happens, it can be earth-shattering.
"Worst" because when it ends, it can be the ultimate heart breaker so far.

Thats why for many, for many years to come, memories of it still tug at the heart strings.

Flashes of past memories of it now, perhaps indicate that your longing to return to an age if innocence that your missing in your more aged and complicated world.

Cherish the memories - I hope ultimately they are good ones.

Notorious97 · 15-10-2010 08:38AM

she any use?

godscop · 15-10-2010 08:42AM

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

johnny_knoxvile · 15-10-2010 08:44AM

token56 wrote: »

I see my hands every day so I'm always reminded.

your ex had hairy palms??

Biggins · 15-10-2010 08:45AM

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Sykk · 15-10-2010 08:50AM

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

*tear*

NothingMan · 15-10-2010 08:50AM

I remember the first girl I said I love you to, but the first girl I really thought I loved was just a friend. That was horrible, but onwards and upwards.

godscop · 15-10-2010 08:53AM

Cheers biggins you have made me feel better..;)

Johnny Bitte · 15-10-2010 08:53AM

Biggins, you so deep. I never knew!

OP, wrong place for this trust me. They are coming and when they get here they will make horrible horrible comments about her : (

Run away my good man!

Sanjuro · 15-10-2010 09:01AM

The_Goose135 wrote: »

Biggins, you so deep. I never knew!

That's what she said.

squod · 15-10-2010 09:06AM

I dreamt about yor ma.

orourkeda · 15-10-2010 09:16AM

squod wrote: »

I dreamt about yor ma.

I dreamt ON your ma.

orourkeda · 15-10-2010 09:18AM

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Oddly, I met mine about 2 weeks ago. I hadnt seen her in ages and then she told me she's living in Melbourne and was home on hols. Thats the end of that.

allanb49 · 15-10-2010 09:33AM

Biggins post's here made me smile, Thanks.

squod · 15-10-2010 09:41AM

orourkeda wrote: »

I dreamt ON your ma.

How desperate are you ! She's dead about about ten years.

Jamiekelly · 15-10-2010 09:47AM

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Easily the smartest and most insightful thing said on AH (which isn't a challenge but still...) Well said!

rainbowdrop · 15-10-2010 09:47AM

squod wrote: »

How desperate are you ! She's dead about about ten years.

Extreme necrophilia ftw

:pac:

Snakeblood · 15-10-2010 09:48AM

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

My first love was in uhhh. 4th class. I was also in 4th class*, in case anyone's going to call the police. If I dreamed about her now, I'd be pretty unsettled.

*Not a teacher.

Interceptor · 15-10-2010 09:51AM

And don't tell your current partner you've been dreaming about your ex - thats ALWAYS a recipe for disaster...

'cptr

squod · 15-10-2010 09:54AM

Betcha they were both dreaming of a big black cock

mikerowsopht · 15-10-2010 10:01AM

Oddly I also had a wet dream about my first lass
twas over 10 yrs ago now
But I found her on facebook and sent her a poke
she is fine ass

Lu Tze · 15-10-2010 10:03AM

Anybody else misread the title as "Fist Love"?

Anyways - biggins has pretty much nailed it in the posts above for me

godscop · 15-10-2010 10:13AM

I was thinking of facebook but dont think it would be a good idea..........

Jamiekelly · 15-10-2010 10:20AM

godscop wrote: »

I was thinking of facebook but dont think it would be a good idea..........

Well it has been quite some time since you were with her so I don't think it will be in any way awkward. If she is in a relationship then it could get tricky. But if you never try then you never know. I say go for it. You have nothing to lose

good luck

godscop · 15-10-2010 10:31AM

Thats the problem jamie i would have so much to lose.

fufureida · 09-11-2010 03:06AM

Im with my first love right now...he was the only guy I ever went out with and we been together for 4 years now!

First love

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