First love

alwaysadub

I often think about my first love and wonder what he's up to and should i try find out.
But it's all in the past, and there's a reason we're not still together, so i know i'm better off not knowing about him.

upandcumming

Biggins wrote: »

First love is the greatest thing in the world - and the worst.

"Greatest" because when it happens, it can be earth-shattering.
"Worst" because when it ends, it can be the ultimate heart breaker so far.

Thats why for many, for many years to come, memories of it still tug at the heart strings.

Flashes of past memories of it now, perhaps indicate that your longing to return to an age if innocence that your missing in your more aged and complicated world.

Cherish the memories - I hope ultimately they are good ones.

Slurry...

Dudess

Lu Tze wrote: »

Anybody else misread the title as "Fist Love"?

Yes.

Sir Gallagher

Biggins wrote: »

Well, knowing now she was amazing only comes with age and experience in which to tell.
Don't be too hard on yourself. At the time you probably knew no better and had no comparison to be able to tell a major difference.

You learned from the experience and it enabled you to move on with your life better off in knowledge of the heart.
She left you with something precious then, didn't she! A life lesson and memories of an awakening heart.

Wow, what a genuinely sweet and heartfelt post, good man.

OutlawPete

I dedicate this to my first true love (not Jon Bon Jovi, he was my second )

I STILL LOVE YOU BABY!!! \o/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRgCoPhj3ek

Lily10

What is a first love? The first person you have sex with or the first person you loved? That label has always confused me.

alwaysadub

Lily10 wrote: »

What is a first love? The first person you have sex with or the first person you loved? That label has always confused me.

Your first love is the 1st person you loved.
Your first time is the 1st person you shagged.

Least it is in my book anyway!

jonnyfingers

Is your first love the one you still stalk on Facebook????

She really should change her password..............

ZzubZzub

When I think about my first love, I realise.... He wasnt actually a love. I was young... Impressionable... Thought it was love!! But no. (was with him for 3/4 years. I swear I'm not a bitch! Cause that sounds harsh.......)

My REAL first love recently asked me to get back with him 2 days ago. EHHHHHHHHHHHH...............no. He already put my heart in shatters!

Pherekydes

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ?

Not really. I think about mine all the time. What she's doing in work? When she'll be home? What'll I make for her dinner?

Princess Peach

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

I read this and thought, you're a bit romantic. I like you.

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

And then I thought serves you right (coming from a woman scorned.)

Leelaa22

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

No I dont think thats odd, happens to me too and other people I know.
Only problem is if its a good dream I miss them and feel sad for the day, if its a nightmare Im pissed off with them and angry for the day.
don't worry them dreams don't mean anything

stovelid

godscop wrote: »

I had a dream about my first love last night. We havent met in about 10 years. This morning she is all i can think about, does anyone else think its odd ? Its such a long time..

Tip: get the sheets to a launderette quickly in case your ma is the forensic type.

AnonoBoy

The restraining order and ankle monitor are a constant reminder of my first love.

Kimono-Girl

Cleeo wrote: »

When I think about my first love, I realise.... He wasnt actually a love. I was young... Impressionable... Thought it was love!! But no.

+1

i think we've all been there...i have to add naive to the list though

op maybe you are only dreaming of her because of guilty feelings on your part?


cause personally the only time i think of my first love,is when the topic arises, such as this thread....maybe its because it ended so badly for me or maybe its just because im over it and i can discuss it and forget about it, it means nothing to me now, either way you need to move on man its been 10 years!

Jaxxy

I wasn't in love with my first love either. I told him I was, I thought I was at the time but years experience and hindsight has told me I wasn't really. Come to think of it, I don't think I've ever been in love with any of my boyfriends.

I've never been in love! :eek:

camomile

godscop wrote: »

I broke her heart and coudnt get her back . I knew i fuc**d up. We moved on. Today im thinking what if ? Karma..Yeah she was amazing:)

What was so great about her? Anything in particular? Ever look her up?

Mr Benevolent

I'm indebted to my ex for breaking up with me, I'dve never met my current girlfriend. She's approximately 32 times better then the ex.

NothingMan

Confab wrote: »

I'm indebted to my ex for breaking up with me, I'dve never met my current girlfriend. She's approximately 32 times better then the ex.

I wanna see that equation.

godscop

camomile wrote: »

What was so great about her? Anything in particular? Ever look her up?

I bumped into her a few weeks ago. She was great fun. She had beautiful tits ..Im married now to the love of my life and have 2 beautiful kids.

camomile

What was earlier posts about - everything to lose, wondering if you should contact her

godscop

camomile wrote: »

What was earlier posts about - everything to lose, wondering if you should contact her

I meant in a friendly way, to catch up etc. But would be just not worth the hassle.

-Kenny-

godscop wrote: »

I meant in a friendly way, to catch up etc. But would be just not worth the hassle.

I personally think that's asking for trouble . Be it with your current partner/wife whatever and her's .. Plus I think Ex's are Ex's for a reason ... You learn and move on .. digging up the past is like digging up a grave you aren't gonna find it pretty

fedor.2.

fufureida wrote: »

Im with my first love right now...he was the only guy I ever went out with and we been together for 4 years now!

You dont know what your missing

NothingMan

-Kenny- wrote: »

digging up the past is like digging up a grave you aren't gonna find it pretty

You don't know me at all! Who's up for some grave munching later?