Just broken up, what to do?

Well Goose, as someone who just came out of a 13 year relationship recently, I'd have to say this about the advice you are receiving...

padma wrote: »

go have some fun, drown your sorrows and hook up with all the old friends you missed when you two became an item. Then go on a holiday, relax and come home to your new life. Remember keep smiling happily.

Good solid advice and have done it all except the holiday.

Diabhal Beag wrote: »

Have a ****

Hah! You betcha.....

ollie1 wrote: »

Coke and hookers?

That is so decadent (but if you can afford it then yeah of course).
Booze, smoking and drunken young wans on a budget will do more than sufficiently.

Ix Deadmau5 wrote: »

I'm sorry to hear about that.

Get really drunk and find a woman?

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WindSock wrote: »

Sit on your couch and stare into space for a while. Download Google Sky if you have a Smartphone. It's great.

I've done a lot of staring, when I know I should be deeply thinking about the change that has occurred, but amn't, just staring...
Wouldn't bother with the phone stuff tbh

ballsymchugh wrote: »

designate a corner of your bedroom for used socks and jocks. and keep saying "i'll do them tomorrow"
you may want to stock up though, maybe get a months supply.

I sh1t you not I have done exactly this in my new doss-house. Although I have managed, so far, to keep well on top of it.

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Stop fooling yourself and admit that you lost your prefect partner. Cry for a while and you'll be grand in 6 - 12 months.

:eek: It's like you know exactly what my situation is! Haven't managed to have a good cry yet though, all in good time.

snyper wrote: »

Cry.

Cry because she is probably out there now getting spit roasted, and you're on the internet.


Fcuk sake man, get out there and give some young one the pounding of a lifetime before its too late.....and she wants you back

No. Fcuk that I'm not crying, not if this is the reason.
Good advice again though, pounding, hmmmmmmm:pac:

Bonito wrote: »

Her sister?

Woah now! Not straight away anyway :cool:

Kasabian wrote: »

Do not decide to replace that free time with the pub, I know from experience how detremental that can be.



If however you are happy with the situation you find yourself in .
Rock on .

Go and enjoy yourself just be considerate of your ex-partners feelings, she may be hurting.

Now that is actually great advice, though I do think that it should read 'all of your free time' as I reckon it's ok to spend more time than you may have used to down the boozer.
But with regard to their feelings, if you can at all, remember the good times and try not to be vindictive. That just gets messy and upsetting.

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

it's pretty obvious.

Have sex with her sister

It may be obvious, but some would say never to do the obvious especially if the obvious happens to be her sister, and besides, like I said, not yet anyway :pac: And in my experience, having relations with anyone in their social circle can adequately stoke up any smouldering anger. So if you're into it. I'm not.

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

From my experience, if your bird is in any way good looking, she'll be getting laid before you, probably right now. So you have to just accept that and keep your chin up.

Sorry about your experience dude, sounds unpleasant. You nor Goose have to accept anything. Especially that she's getting laid first



So in summation, I would advise some inebriation, fornication, staring, bit of crying(optional), consideration and forward planning, get involved in new stuff, spend more time on Boards and listening to lots of really loud industrial/techno music.

All of that has gotten me to where I am today.

Ok, actually maybe you shouldn't do it just like that......:eek:

Sh1t! I think Micky Dolenz advice is getting to me