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Intervene in a domestic.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,062 ✭✭✭akamossy


    ANXIOUS wrote: »
    I always wondered, why people choose to make their private business public knowledge. Also why do women/men stay in abusive relationships?

    They only got married recently too and just had a baby, I was only saying to my mother yesterday why in gods name did they get married because they are literally fighting all the time and over the stupidest things because you can hear every word they are screaming. They'd wanna realise that they are living in a small estate and we don't want to hear them scream and roar at each other every minute of the day.

    Seems to be more on her part though, he does tend to walk away or drive away first.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭ANXIOUS


    akamossy wrote: »
    They only got married recently too and just had a baby, I was only saying to my mother yesterday why in gods name did they get married because they are literally fighting all the time and over the stupidest things because you can hear every word they are screaming. They'd wanna realise that they are living in a small estate and we don't want to hear them scream and roar at each other every minute of the day.

    Seems to be more on her part though, he does tend to walk away or drive away first.

    The sad thing is it's only going to get worse. I feel sorry for kids they are stuck in familes like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 691 ✭✭✭ghosttown


    Brother working in Fire Brigade, called out to a disturbance in Tallaght a few years ago, lady had been stabbed by husband / partner, not badly, needed treatment, cops hadn't arrived before them. Partner goes for him when they get in house, he knocks him out (still had a knife !).
    'Lady' who had been stabbed jumps on him, says 'leave him the f--- alone !', ends up having to knock her out too and cart them both off after police arrived.

    They sued him !!

    Hard to intervene sometimes i guess, but any dude who hits a woman deserves what he gets.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,189 ✭✭✭drdeadlift


    i guess if your going to intervene you better be ready to knock the ****e out of both of them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭Lando Griffin


    Was having a few drinks in the local one Paddys night and there was a couple dancing in the middle of the pub, and this pub you just dont do dancing, she was the size of a small house and he the size of a jockey. They were slow setting and he had his head nestled between her boobs, boobs you would need a round bale lifter to fondle. They were eating each other in the pub. Afterwards outside the chipper the pair of them were having it out and she knocked him out cold with a box, he ended up in A&E ,but they have since married and have four kids so no I never get involved


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    If I thought there was a life in critical danger, yes.

    If its a personal thing and they are just letting of spend up frustration/steam/etc, its none of my business definitely till injuries start occurring anyway.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,752 ✭✭✭Odysseus


    I have intervened in a good few over the years with mixed reactions. If you where to ask me now I would say I would do my best to avoid it because of the hassle. However, generally when I see something like that if a woman is being assualted I would find in impossible not to intervene, even with the knowledge that it may turn to sh!t.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,236 ✭✭✭mcmoustache


    For me it would depend on the social class of those involved and whether there was booze involved. From the posts above I think the best thing to do would be to knock out the woman and then rationally explain your reasons to to guy. Then kick him in the nuts and run away.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,847 ✭✭✭HavingCrack


    Wouldn't intervene in a million years. I'd call the guards and leave it to them.
    Used to think I might intervene but ever since a man got stabbed and killed on Sandymount Strand a few years back in daylight when he attempted to break up a domestic I've decided to stay well clear.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 276 ✭✭Wade in the Sea


    If it was a couple it could be really tricky. You never know what's going on behind the whole thing. So I'd probably wait a few seconds to assess the situation and once I had decided who was the more likely to win I would join that side. :)









    What?


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