Is it easier for guys to pull women or women to pull guys?

OutlawPete · 23-06-2010 01:12AM

sarmer wrote: »

Guys can just go up to a girl they like and chat her up.

Can we? It's that easy is it?

We can just stroll up to girls and start chatting and this always goes down well?

You must really walk around with your eyes closed.

I never approach women, ever - but I see it constantly and trust me, guys usually get the 'rude shoulder turn' or if they're lucky, they will just get blanked without being insulted.

Of course not all women are like that but the vast majority of women know they can get away with such behavior and take full advantage.

sarmer wrote: »

A girl generally can't do the same without being judged - sad but true.

Girls may get judged by some fools but if they do, it is because so few women actually make an effort with approaching guys, that men are taken aback when it happens.

sarmer wrote: »

Guys have it easier because guys have the power in the dating/mating game.

Jev/N · 23-06-2010 04:59AM

Well, looks like there's no contest here...

dazed+confused · 23-06-2010 05:49AM

alwaysadub wrote: »

I'm a woman,i think it's easier for a fella to pull.

EDIT: I seem to be alone in my thinking.
Maybe i'm just doing it wrong :pac:

I want to invent some kind of a luminous hat for women like you, it'll save guys like me from wasting hours in pubs chatting to women who aren't interested! Maybe everyone who's out and looking for some should wear the hats, it'd be easier for everyone!

TheTosh · 23-06-2010 10:50AM

dazed+confused wrote: »

I want to invent some kind of a luminous hat for women like you, it'll save guys like me from wasting hours in pubs chatting to women who aren't interested! Maybe everyone who's out and looking for some should wear the hats, it'd be easier for everyone!

Or a tee-shirt with an arrow on it pointing down saying vacancies in big bold lettering(maybe it could light up too)

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 11:39AM

TheTosh wrote: »

Or a tee-shirt with an arrow on it pointing down saying vacancies in big bold lettering(maybe it could light up too)

Like this ?

I'M AVAILABLE

I'm the girl you've been waiting for all your life.

Kiera · 23-06-2010 11:40AM

BumbleB wrote: »

Like this ?

I'M AVAILABLE

I probably still wouldnt pick up on that

alwaysadub · 23-06-2010 11:42AM

dazed+confused wrote: »

I want to invent some kind of a luminous hat for women like you, it'll save guys like me from wasting hours in pubs chatting to women who aren't interested! Maybe everyone who's out and looking for some should wear the hats, it'd be easier for everyone!

What do you mean "women like me"?

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 11:46AM

Kiera wrote: »

I probably still wouldnt pick up on that

err .I dont know Kiera you cant really get more obvious than that.

walshb · 23-06-2010 11:55AM

General average girl and guy? It is far easier I would say for the girl to score.
Guys with a few beers would get up on a scabby leg, also, when would you
ever hear a regular average guy turning down a shag due to them not knowing
the girl and wanting to get to know her first? Girls do this from time to time, guys don not.

Kiera · 23-06-2010 12:02PM

BumbleB wrote: »

err .I dont know Kiera you cant really get more obvious than that.

I know, told you i was useless at picking up hints/flirting. There's no hope for me

arsenallegend · 23-06-2010 12:21PM

women of aLL SIZES can pull any guy cause us guys think with our dicks

Abi · 23-06-2010 12:33PM

Kiera wrote: »

I know, told you i was useless at picking up hints/flirting. There's no hope for me

I think I remember you saying further back in the thread that you like sitting with the lads and having a laugh (like myself). But if your flirt detector is fcuked you're in a bit of trouble there! I can see it a mile off, and think its kinda funny

Even though a guy might flirt with you, sometimes they run into a bit of trouble going in for the kiss or whatever, and might need some encouragement

don't be afraid to be the one that makes the first move.

I have to ask, how are your flirting skills lady? and how do you know if they're being responded to in that case? =P

TheTosh · 23-06-2010 12:35PM

Kiera wrote: »

I know, told you i was useless at picking up hints/flirting. There's no hope for me

Then lets try something really obvious,

Do you wanna sh*g;)

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 12:39PM

Kiera wrote: »

I know, told you i was useless at picking up hints/flirting. There's no hope for me

you crazy

stupidusername · 23-06-2010 12:58PM

Abigayle wrote: »

I think I remember you saying further back in the thread that you like sitting with the lads and having a laugh (like myself). But if your flirt detector is fcuked you're in a bit of trouble there! I can see it a mile off, and think its kinda funny

Even though a guy might flirt with you, sometimes they run into a bit of trouble going in for the kiss or whatever, and might need some encouragement don't be afraid to be the one that makes the first move.

I have to ask, how are your flirting skills lady? and how do you know if they're being responded to in that case? =P

This brings up another point of discussion..... how do people flirt nowadays? Surely most flirting is just directly saying 'I wanna shag' in not so many words...? No romance left any more.....!

Abi · 23-06-2010 01:03PM

stupidusername wrote: »

This brings up another point of discussion..... how do people flirt nowadays? Surely most flirting is just directly saying 'I wanna shag' in not so many words...? No romance left any more.....!

Thread is about pulling a girl or a guy. No mention of romance there

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 01:13PM

TheTosh wrote: »

The mirror

The man in the mirror?.

TheTosh · 23-06-2010 01:27PM

I hate looking in the mirror, every time I do my reflection cries

Kiera · 23-06-2010 01:29PM

Abigayle wrote: »

I think I remember you saying further back in the thread that you like sitting with the lads and having a laugh (like myself). But if your flirt detector is fcuked you're in a bit of trouble there! I can see it a mile off, and think its kinda funny

Even though a guy might flirt with you, sometimes they run into a bit of trouble going in for the kiss or whatever, and might need some encouragement don't be afraid to be the one that makes the first move.

I have to ask, how are your flirting skills lady? and how do you know if they're being responded to in that case? =P

I dont have any flirting skills. That's my problem. If i knew how to flirt then i'd know if i was being flirted with....

If i know a guy likes me i have no problem going in for a kiss but i just never pick up on the signs. I think i should have been born a bloke.

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 01:30PM

TheTosh wrote: »

I hate looking in the mirror, every time I do my reflection cries

A piece of me breaks up.:p

OutlawPete · 23-06-2010 01:34PM

Kiera wrote: »

If i know a guy likes me i have no problem going in for a kiss but i just never pick up on the signs. I think i should have been born a bloke.

If you want to flirt with a guy, lots of eye contact and move closer to him as you look at him. Some tactile touching his arm or hands as your laughing or just even as your talking, will let him know you want him inside you.

If a guy is looking you in the eye and is slowly making sure there is less and less space between you both as he glances at your lips etc - he wants to be balls deep in you.

From a distance, if you notice a guy keeps looking at you and you keep catching him, he wants to be balls deep in you.

Scanlas The 2nd · 23-06-2010 01:40PM

Raekwon wrote: »

I totally agree with OutlawPete here, saying that men have more options then women is totally ridiculous IMHO. I think the poll more then highlights this fact.

I disagree. Women do have far less options. There are only a small percentage of men women would enjoy just having sex with whereas men can enjoy/get some sort of pleasure from a very high percentage of women. So women do have far less options. You wouldn't regard rubbing your c&*k off a tree to be an option. Thats the equivalent of women having just sex with most men. Simply not an option. Men worthy of just sex are a rare commodity.

It was said earlier in the thread that ugly rich men can marry hot women so there are lots of options for women. In that case either the woman finds him attractive for non looks reasons or she is getting a better lifestyle in return for the obligation of regular sex with an unattractive man.

So in conclusion there are very few options for women.

TheTosh · 23-06-2010 01:45PM

The best chat up line I've ever heard was when I was standing in the queue to get into a club and there was a few girls behind me, one of the girls said '' me bleedin' legs are freezin','' and some fella in the queue turned around to her and goes ''do you want me to get in between them and heat them up for you,''
Needless to say he struck out, but you have to admire his ballsy attempt

Kiera · 23-06-2010 01:47PM

OutlawPete wrote: »

If you want to flirt with a guy, lots of eye contact and move closer to him as you look at him. Some tactile touching his arm or hands as your laughing or just even as your talking, will let him know you want him inside you.

If a guy is looking you in the eye and is slowly making sure there is less and less space between you both as he glances at your lips etc - he wants to be balls deep in you.

From a distance, if you notice a guy keeps looking at you and you keep catching him, he wants to be balls deep in you.

This is what i need. Pointers that a guy likes me

stupidusername · 23-06-2010 01:49PM

OutlawPete wrote: »

If you want to flirt with a guy, lots of eye contact and move closer to him as you look at him. Some tactile touching his arm or hands as your laughing or just even as your talking, will let him know you want him inside you.

If a guy is looking you in the eye and is slowly making sure there is less and less space between you both as he glances at your lips etc - he wants to be balls deep in you.

From a distance, if you notice a guy keeps looking at you and you keep catching him, he wants to be balls deep in you.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! What a mental way of putting it!

Kiera wrote: »

This is what i need. Pointers that a guy likes me

Ya me and all...

alwaysadub · 23-06-2010 01:55PM

Pete,you should hold classes on how to recognise you're been chatted up

There'd be a few of us turning up!

BumbleB · 23-06-2010 01:57PM

Kiera wrote: »

This is what i need. Pointers that a guy likes me

Assume that everyone like you ,thats what I do .:)

Abi · 23-06-2010 02:03PM

OutlawPete wrote: »

If you want to flirt with a guy, lots of eye contact and move closer to him as you look at him. Some tactile touching his arm or hands as your laughing or just even as your talking, will let him know you want him inside you.

Ping!

]If a guy is looking you in the eye and is slowly making sure there is less and less space between you both as he glances at your lips etc - he wants to be balls deep in you.

Ping!

From a distance, if you notice a guy keeps looking at you and you keep catching him, he wants to be balls deep in you.

Ping!

+1 to the above

And the above in bold happened with me recently, I couldnt stop laughing it was that obvious. So I asked him if he wanted a kiss. I didn't have to ask twice

Guys are great :pac:

Faith+1 · 23-06-2010 02:08PM

I could pull anything. The Guards want to put me under arrest for being so gorgeous :cool:

Kiera · 23-06-2010 02:25PM

Abigayle wrote: »

Ping!

Ping!

Ping!

+1 to the above

And the above in bold happened with me recently, I couldnt stop laughing it was that obvious. So I asked him if he wanted a kiss. I didn't have to ask twice

Guys are great :pac:

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Is it easier for guys to pull women or women to pull guys?

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