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Political Correctness Gone Batty in UCC (mod#23)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,676 ✭✭✭Blitzkrieger


    What sort of closed minded twits teach at UCC? I'm thinking of doing a phd atm. Don't think I'll be applying there....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭Lemegeton


    Pittens wrote: »


    In the office where I work the girls regularly talk about sex, and there was a long running ( and, admittedly, trite) blow job joke last week. Of course a normal office is not academia, and has less of the timid souls who lock themselves away from the world in tenured occupations. Also they are Australian.

    that is in an office environment involving several parties and clearly you have an open environment. that is not the same as going into a womans office uninvited and bringing up the subject of sex.
    my initial reaction was that the woman was overly PC and should grow up but it sounds like the guy is a tool IMO.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭Pittens


    that is not the same as going into a womans office uninvited and bringing up the subject of sex.

    It does depend on the person, of course. Yes, our environment is open, but I dont think the women here - all < 25 - would be shocked by any sexual talk, although I hold my tongue just in case.

    Anyway, small company. I think that he could have been flirting with her ( however weirdly), but maybe not. I also think that it isnt harrassment unless the "harrasser' is informed about it. If he continues, it is.

    Sometimes the difference between what a woman considers harassment, and not, is the attractiveness or the Alpha Male-ness of the guy flirting with her.

    In my last company a particularly strange girl broke off contact with a guy who no longer worked there, because he left her a Christmas card ( by calling to her house and dropping it off).

    Eventually she ended up with a guy she met in a pub. Presumably she saw the first "come-on" - which it wasn't - as harrasment because she didn't like the guy in question. The second guy who clearly made some advances, was not harrassing her because she did like him.

    Thats tough on the beta males. And very few academics are Alpha Males.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 598 ✭✭✭Lemegeton


    i take your point and the woman should not have filed a complaint if she never informed the guy directly he made her uncomfortable. so she is to blame in that respect. it just seems a lot of posts are assuming that she is an overly PC woman who is over-reacting , when the guy could be a prick and her only mistake was not telling him to **** off in the first place.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,297 ✭✭✭Ri_Nollaig


    Lemegeton wrote: »
    woman was overly PC and should grow up but it sounds like the guy is a tool IMO.

    I'd say it is a combination of both to be honest.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,803 ✭✭✭El Siglo


    Lemegeton wrote: »
    that is in an office environment involving several parties and clearly you have an open environment. that is not the same as going into a womans office uninvited and bringing up the subject of sex.
    my initial reaction was that the woman was overly PC and should grow up but it sounds like the guy is a tool IMO.

    I thought this too.
    But after reading the report by the investigator, after reading the emails the lecturer sent to the president and the letter from the president to the lecturer and the letter from IFUT, the complaint letter, I think this situation is messed up. Here's my summation (might be wrong but it's just an opinion).
    The first charge was that he was acting like a creep with the female lecturer, the hugs, coming into her office, being pervy in general etc... this is the bit that I had my doubts about regarding his innocence (i.e. I would have considered this to be the big issue), but he was cleared of this.
    The second charge being the bat bj article, this is absolute nonsense. It's a scientific, peer-reviewed article, he was as the letters go discussing an argument in animal evolution, it'd be like talking about how dolphins are the only other mammal that have sex for pleasure (like humans), no way could this be harassment, it wasn't even meant in a joking fashion according to himself. The bit that gets me is that there was someone else present in the room while he was showing her the article, where are they in all of this? I mean who would act like a creep in front of someone else like this? Also didn't he not show it to ten other people, how would they characterise his behaviour in all of this?
    To be fair, I don't care what happens to him but I can't see from the letters where or what he's supposed to be guilty off? It's all very circumstantial. Also, does it not strike anyone as odd that if he was a pervert, creeping on female lecturer, wouldn't he be not reprimanded on this more than the article? He was reprimanded on the one incident, surely if it's sexual harassment he should have been done for the creeping?
    The whole situation appears very odd. If he was a total pervert, why would the head of IFUT be writing to the President of UCC (who would want to be seen defending a pervert in such a minor matter that should have been kept in UCC?).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭Pittens


    Lemegeton

    I agree that going into here office with the story is a bit suspect.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    Going on about Casanova really would have been the thing to slap him over, IMO. It would seem he has a knack for spin doctoring.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    How can you say that?

    What evidence do you have?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    How can you say that?

    What evidence do you have?

    Well, if you bothered your arse reading the thread and following links supplied......


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    What sort of closed minded twits teach at UCC? I'm thinking of doing a phd atm. Don't think I'll be applying there....
    It's overall a good (and big) college - don't let one incident put you off.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    I have read the thread pal.

    How can you say he has a knack for spin doctoring or what actually what his intentions were?

    Were you the third person int he room?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 350 ✭✭rubensni


    Dudess wrote: »
    It's overall a good (and big) college - don't let one incident put you off.

    The College President was involved in the disciplinary proceedings, so it sounds like this is systematic. This decision will have a chilling effect on academic debate involving sex and sexuality in UCC.

    The Equality Acts define sexual harassment as any form of 'unwanted verbal, non-verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature' which 'has the purpose or effect of violating a person’s dignity and creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for the person'.

    Now if it's the President's view that raising an article that deals with sex or sexuality in animals as part of an academic discussion amounts to harassment what hope for someone who is having a serious discussion about human sexuality in the mere presence of another? If UCC doesn't row back on this a nasty precedent will be set as in reality the definition in law is so broad that anything to do with sex or sexuality and it will be open season for a harassment claim

    The college should have backed this man, not upheld the complaint, and let her take her chances in the Equality Tribunal if she was genuinely upset.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    I have read the thread pal.

    How can you say he has a knack for spin doctoring or what actually what his intentions were?

    Were you the third person int he room?

    I'm not your "pal".

    I suggest reading the reports linked earlier. If nothing dawns on you from that then theres nothing I can do for you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    I have read them.

    How can anyone pass judgment on those reports.

    Is it because the man seems to be from the UK the t you reach your 'conclusion' or were you the third person in the room?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    I have read them.

    How can anyone pass judgment on those reports.

    Quite easily.
    Is it because the man seems to be from the UK

    Not at all, nor was I aware that he was. Why would you think that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    Nodin wrote: »
    Quite easily.



    Not at all, nor was I aware that he was. Why would you think that?

    Most reasonable posters on this thread seem to be of the opinion that this situation is impossible to decide on, based on the evidence supplied, including myself.
    yet you seem to reach an opinion very easily.

    Call it a hunch;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,416 ✭✭✭reprazant


    Nodin wrote: »
    Going on about Casanova really would have been the thing to slap him over, IMO. It would seem he has a knack for spin doctoring.

    He was reading a book on Casanova at the time.

    It does not say how it came up in conversation. Maybe somebody asked him about the book and what his opinion of Casanova was from reading it, and he said he admired his ability to sleep with thousands of women, from all over Europe and his ability at gambling.

    It is hard to tell how it came up because the complainant bizarrely also seemed to take offence at the fact that he liked to gamble.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 685 ✭✭✭Carlos_Ray


    I was amazed by the article. I had no idea that Cork had a University.

    Ah bless


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,372 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    There's something odd about someone who is into fruitbats.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    reprazant wrote: »
    He was reading a book on Casanova at the time.

    It does not say how it came up in conversation. Maybe somebody asked him about the book and what his opinion of Casanova was from reading it, and he said he admired his ability to sleep with thousands of women, from all over Europe and his ability at gambling.

    It is hard to tell how it came up because the complainant bizarrely also seemed to take offence at the fact that he liked to gamble.

    It just struck me that he had a reasonable explanation as to why he had the bat article, but the Casanova thing seemed a bit odd. I don't think she took offence at the fact yer man was fond of gambling, just the way he seemed compelled to tell her all about it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin



    Call it a hunch;)

    I'd call it another failed attempt to get a dig in, meself.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 23,089 ✭✭✭✭rovert


    Is an "article" some kind of euphemism?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,575 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    Nodin wrote: »
    It just struck me that he had a reasonable explanation as to why he had the bat article, but the Casanova thing seemed a bit odd. I don't think she took offence at the fact yer man was fond of gambling, just the way he seemed compelled to tell her all about it.

    The fact that he was in the faculty of 'Behavioral Science' didn't give you a clue no?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    rovert wrote: »
    Is an "article" some kind of euphemism?

    Only if they whip it out for "peer review".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Teferi


    This is very strange. There is obviously more to this than meets the eye but the female lecturers complaint letter is very strange - [paraphrasing] "Dr. Evans likes gambling."?


    What does that have to do with Fruit Bat blowies or her complaint? Absolutely nothing. Her letter really tries hard to get him in trouble...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Teferi


    Nodin wrote: »
    It just struck me that he had a reasonable explanation as to why he had the bat article, but the Casanova thing seemed a bit odd. I don't think she took offence at the fact yer man was fond of gambling, just the way he seemed compelled to tell her all about it.

    Did you not read his reply letters? It doesn't seem like you did. He addresses the Casanova thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 466 ✭✭fizzynicenice


    Just sounds to me like shes need to build a bridge and get the fuck over it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,561 ✭✭✭CantGetNoSleep


    Just sounds to me like shes need to build a bridge and get the fuck over it
    Is it just me or do Universities have a much higher proportion of this type of case than other forms of employment.

    Would love to see what would happen if she walked past a building site


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭Pittens


    The Equality Acts define sexual harassment as any form of 'unwanted verbal, non-verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature' which 'has the purpose or effect of violating a person’s dignity and creating an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for the person'.

    The Equality act has, therefore, effectively banned flirtation for men who are not very good at flirtation.


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