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How do you approach the opposite sex?

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  • #92
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Ooohhh I don't have the courage, and anyone that I do like dosn't like me! Not much I can do, I only hope for the best :o

    Guys might not approach you for the same reasons as .

    Be brave 'mon amie.' ....


  • #93
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    As latchy put it, be brave and just go in for the kill!


  • #94
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    As latchy put it, be brave and just go in for the kill!

    Being brave sometimes get you no where.............


  • #95
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Being brave sometimes get you no where.............

    I wouldn't say that now...



    Don't get brave, get bold.


  • #96
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Being brave sometimes get you no where.............

    Neither does holding back waiting for someone you fancy to approach you! If I done that, I'd be on my death bed before anyone would approach me!


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  • #97
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Abitar wrote: »
    I wouldn't say that now...



    Don't get brave, get bold.

    I disagree with you all :p

    Just be yourself, if you pretend to be something your not, you'll attract guys that are into the person your pretending to be.

    If your shy, just be shy - some cute guy who just adores shy girls will soon come along and sweep you off your feet and you'll get married have loads of kids and Uncle Pete will come to the wedding and shag the bridesmaids.

    Wait .. I went to fair again.

    And I was doing so well     :o


  • #98
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Always hated approaching head-on. Usually for crab-like manoeuvring to end up beside them which looks far less subtle than you think...


  • #99
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    I disagree with you all :p

    Just be yourself, if you pretend to be something your not, you'll attract guys that are into the person your pretending to be.

    If your shy, just be shy - some cute guy who just adores shy girls will soon come along and sweep you off your feet and you'll get married have loads of kids and Uncle Pete will come to the wedding and shag the bridesmaids.

    Wait .. I went to fair again.

    And I was doing so well :o

    I'm game for going to wedding fairs if you are! Imagine all the bridesmaids and occasional loose bride gagging for a go!!!!


  • #100
    Flamed Diving
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    I don't approach strangers at all. It's just weird.


  • #101
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    I disagree with you all :p

    Just be yourself, if you pretend to be something your not, you'll attract guys that are into the person your pretending to be.

    If your shy, just be shy - some cute guy who just adores shy girls will soon come along and sweep you off your feet and you'll get married have loads of kids and Uncle Pete will come to the wedding and shag the bridesmaids.

    Wait .. I went to fair again.

    And I was doing so well :o

    Uncle Pete!!! I let ya know if the day ever comes!


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  • #102
    caseyann
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,938 ✭✭✭caseyann


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    I disagree with you all :p

    Just be yourself, if you pretend to be something your not, you'll attract guys that are into the person your pretending to be.

    If your shy, just be shy - some cute guy who just adores shy girls will soon come along and sweep you off your feet and you'll get married have loads of kids and Uncle Pete will come to the wedding and shag the bridesmaids.

    Wait .. I went to fair again.

    And I was doing so well :o

    Disagree the shy nice girl attracts the dominant bastards who wants to use her and treat her like ****.
    The shy nice guy goes for the abrupt hard ass bitch and gets treated like **** haha
    only sometimes it falls into category of even out :D


  • #103
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    caseyann wrote: »
    Disagree the shy nice girl attracts the dominant bastards who wants to use her and treat her like ****.
    The shy nice guy goes for the abrupt hard ass bitch and gets treated like **** haha
    only sometimes it falls into category of even out :D


    Ha ha!! Or in my case, the lads I like don't like me, and the lads that do like me I don't like them....viscious circle :o


  • #104
    ScumLord
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    I approach with the wind carrying the finest of organic feed, they love the organic feed so they do, once I get the leader on side the rest always fall into line.


  • #105
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Ha ha!! Or in my case, the lads I like don't like me, and the lads that do like me I don't like them....viscious circle :o

    Don't fret, you'll find someone and will both of you will have mutual feelings for each other!


  • #106
    PostHack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 120 ✭✭PostHack


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    So how do you approach or chat up the opposite sex!

    Slowly and quietly from the side, like with a pony.


  • #107
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    And how does that work!


  • #108
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Giddy up there ....


  • #109
    L.Jenkins
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 19,242 Mod ✭✭✭✭L.Jenkins


    Latchy wrote: »
    Giddy up there ....

    What strap a lease to her and gallop out of the night club on her back!


  • #110
    Latchy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    What strap a lease to her and gallop out of the night club on her back!


    Oh... The possibilities are endless


  • #111
    The_Kew_Tour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 35,304 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    Just go Coppers no need worry about what way you approach somebody in there

    EVENFLOW



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  • #112
    Gannicus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,736 ✭✭✭Gannicus


    get a good run and a tackle them to the ground.. like a dear in the headlights. lol


  • #113
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Big Steve wrote: »
    get a good run and a tackle them to the ground.. like a dear in the headlights. lol

    Good thinking!! Ha ha!! :pac:


  • #114
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    I disagree with you all :p

    Just be yourself, if you pretend to be something your not, you'll attract guys that are into the person your pretending to be.

    If your shy, just be shy - some cute guy who just adores shy girls will soon come along and sweep you off your feet and you'll get married have loads of kids and Uncle Pete will come to the wedding and shag the bridesmaids.

    Wait .. I went to fair again.

    And I was doing so well     :o



    Nope. Makes sense there Pete, being yourself ftw.


    Oh and I was being myself 0/


  • #115
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Big Steve wrote: »
    get a good run and a tackle them to the ground.. like a dear in the headlights. lol


    Maybe if I tried that, I might have more luck!! :p


  • #116
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,119 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Maybe if I tried that, I might have more luck!! :p

    Yep! if you don't try you don't succeeeddddd


  • #117
    Agent Smith
    Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    djhunter30 wrote: »
    So how do you approach or chat up the opposite sex! I prefer a somewhat direct approach, start a conversation and go from there and see what happens!


    Badly




















    I'm so alone :(


  • #118
    Pompey Magnus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus


    "Hi, my Boards username is Charco, what's yours?"

    Either that or else I hide in corners of nightclubs and throw small stones at the girls I fancy. I learned that little move in primary school.


  • #119
    Millicent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    Or, if all else fails, with one of these babies.

    ETA: Or one of these.


  • #120
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Millicent wrote: »
    Or, if all else fails, with one of these babies.


    I need to get one of those! That would solve my problems! :p


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  • #121
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 79 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I leap on her from the bushes and start fcking her like an enraged gorilla.

    Women love that. Shows dominance.


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