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  • #272
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    serenacat wrote: »
    I dont agree with porn as it destroys relationship and takes the intimacy out of sex....No good comes of it really.

    pretty big generalisation there.

    plenty of couples use porn to enhance their sex lives, and do so without losing intimacy.

    i certainly know that i have found it helpful in that regard.

    it's not accurate to say that no good ill come from it, for those reasons.


  • #273
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    serenacat wrote: »
    most women get into porn/prostitution out of desperation because of poverty and that they have been abused as kids and bad relationship with their father.

    Come on, that is a total myth.

    If you read up on the subject will you see that has been proven beyond a doubt to be untrue.

    serenacat wrote: »
    That girl Sasha grey is a rarity because she seems not to have a messed up childhood and good relationship with her dad.

    No, she is the norm.

    The vast majority of people in the porn industry are only as "messed up" as the average person.

    serenacat wrote: »
    What is the industry like if it is not what i think it is?

    It is like any other industry. I know you won't believe that, but I also know I won't be able to convince you otherwise as I know from experience people make up their mind about the sex industry and aren't willing to change.


  • #274
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    serenacat wrote: »

    I think for the 'porn stars' the whole working environment is disgusting and for anyone who saw the whole video alot of porn stars start off as prosititutes and for me there is very little difference in the two jobs. And most of the women have very bad relationships with their father and seek male approval it is very damaging for her self worth and esteem. What saddens me most about porn is that so many see if as a social norm and it is more unusual not to watch it.

    Another reason why i am against it is because if it's addictive nature you use to to get turned on or get an orgasm and then you can't orgasm without referring back to it this is damaging to relationship.
    ]

    The biggest pile of cliche-ridden, geberalistic tripe I have ever seen. Got any studies to show that ALL porn stars are messed up? I highly doubt it.

    As for addictive, it's clear you've never used porn in your life. There is nothing any filmmaker could put on that screen that would compare to even a second's touch from a real live human being. I could **** myself silly day and night and still want sex the next day - they're not the same thing at all.

    Yes, some people do develop addictions to porn; but it's not the porn that causes that. It's an innate tendency. Yes, people have intimacy issues - but again, that's not the fault of porn. If it was, the majority of people would have intimacy issues and porn addictions.


  • #275
    serenacat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 670 ✭✭✭serenacat


    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.


  • #276
    Novella
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,713 ✭✭✭✭Novella


    serenacat wrote: »
    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.

    Romance isn't dead at all, imo.
    What turns people on differs. You may only like having sex with someone you love with candles and rose petals etc. Some people, however, wanna do things differently and there's nothing wrong with that at all.

    I think sex and romance can be mingled and walk hand in hand sometimes but they're not the same thing in my book. Sex is just a physical act and in what way one enjoys it is up to one's self.


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  • #277
    dearg lady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭dearg lady


    serenacat wrote: »
    where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?
    .

    Who are you to get on your high horse and judge what others enjoy? Believe me, there are PLENTY of women out there who enjoy porn, on their own or with partners. This may shock you but many couples enjoy traditional romantic things alongside porn.


  • #278
    amacachi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,315 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    serenacat wrote: »
    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.

    a) Fair enough, that's you.
    b) Meh, I don't watch it for the artistic merit.
    c) Maybe you're watching the wrong stuff?
    d) Most you knew who "didn't" watch it almost certainly did watch it.
    e) Nice assumption. Surely around that age when trying to work out what sex is about is when you try out "weird" ideas? Males and females.
    f) I watch it most days. I've never "been" with a woman and couldn't care less. Sex is very low on my list of priorities.
    g) Opinion. Why do some people "need" their partner to wear sexy underwear? Or have un-hairy legs? Or for men to shave their chests? Why anything?

    There's plenty of time for all that other stuff. Not everyone is into the mushy stuff and I'd bet that most of those who are wouldn't be arsed doing it at every available opportunity.


  • #279
    Professey Chin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    serenacat wrote: »
    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.
    If thats true then youve never known any boy who treats girls well.
    90% of men have watched porn, the other 10% are liars.

    Romance isn't dead at all.Ive watched porn along with pretty much everyone else here and I'm still a complete romantic(not my words).
    Youre doing more generalising then anyone here and it sounds like youre basing it off a pretty hardcore porn to watch as a curious experience.(and why comment on the acting:confused:). As said its a massive industry that is like any other.Theres always gonna be sleezy elements that people like to draw attention to since we always like to ignore the good and exaggerate the bad.


  • #280
    serenacat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 670 ✭✭✭serenacat


    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.


    I have been intimate with guys i barely know and it was so uncaring, a 'means to an end' to quote a poster here. and i can tell you that sex with someone you love is 1000000X times better in soo many ways for a women especially than with a guy you have know a few dates/weeks/hours and a guy who doesnt give a cr*p about you.
    porn is even colder and less intimate than having sex with strangers. I'm shocked no one has come on agreeing with me. Maybe not alot of posters here are having sex with someone they love and can't compare.

    I can't talk on facts and figure only opinons on this on folk sorry about my generalisation i realise that is all i can offer. But Sex can be so much more pleasurable with someone you trust and love and this is even more important than the 'mushy stuff' such as candles etc its the person that makes in romantic and how the guy looks as you etc. This is the true intimacy.

    I cant comment on lesbo/homo porn as i haven't seen it and know so little on the subject.


  • #281
    Professey Chin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn when im around/that I know of and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.
    I can almost guarantee thats a much more accurate statement.I dont know your bf personally but I sure as hell know fellas (being one of course)


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  • #282
    minidazzler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.


    I have been intimate with guys i barely know and it was so uncaring, a 'means to an end' to quote a poster here. and i can tell you that sex with someone you love is 1000000X times better in soo many ways for a women especially than with a guy you have know a few dates/weeks/hours and a guy who doesnt give a cr*p about you.
    porn is even colder and less intimate than having sex with strangers. I'm shocked no one has come on agreeing with me. Maybe not alot of posters here are having sex with someone they love and can't compare.

    I can't talk on facts and figure only opinons on this on folk sorry about my generalisation i realise that is all i can offer. But Sex can be so much more pleasurable with someone you trust and love and this is even more important than the 'mushy stuff' such as candles etc its the person that makes in romantic and how the guy looks as you etc. This is the true intimacy.

    I cant comment on lesbo/homo porn as i haven't seen it and know so little on the subject.

    OK first point there is a Saying. 90% of men admit to watching porn. The Other 10% are liars.

    Secondly, while sex with someone you like is better. Sex with a stranger is not about love, it is about fcuking and an orgasm simple as. But that has NOTHING to do with porn and everything to do with you just don't have to care about the person.

    You have a very idealistic view of sex being about making love, TBH, I would enjoy that. but every now and then there is nothing better than a good hard Fcuk. Simple as that.


  • #283
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    serenacat wrote: »
    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.

    ok, so you didnt like it, fair enough.

    others do like it, however, and you have no right to judge them for that.

    as regards the acting - noone is wacthing if for that aspect!

    being called a slut, having hair pulled - you know, some women get turned on by that, some people like it. just because you dont, doesnt mean others dont.

    teenage boys are hardly the best way to judge men, are they?

    you think its addictive based on the experience of ONE person? major generalisation there.

    who said anything about couples needing to watch it? maybe they watch it because they like it and want to watch it, did that ever occur to you?

    it can be very intimate to watch it with someone and do all sorts to them while watching it... especially if you know you're fulfilling a major fantasy for someone... thats a thoughtful, loving, romantic thing to do for someone.

    why are you assuming the couples who watch it together are not in love? thats just bizarre

    long baths with candles are nice at times... at times, so is watching porn together.

    just because it doesnt float your boat, you shouldnt get judgemental about it, or generalise based on your own experiences.


  • #284
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    serenacat wrote: »
    I have been intimate with guys i barely know and it was so uncaring, a 'means to an end' to quote a poster here. and i can tell you that sex with someone you love is 1000000X times better in soo many ways for a women especially than with a guy you have know a few dates/weeks/hours and a guy who doesnt give a cr*p about you.
    porn is even colder and less intimate than having sex with strangers. I'm shocked no one has come on agreeing with me. Maybe not alot of posters here are having sex with someone they love and can't compare.

    I can't talk on facts and figure only opinons on this on folk sorry about my generalisation i realise that is all i can offer. But Sex can be so much more pleasurable with someone you trust and love and this is even more important than the 'mushy stuff' such as candles etc its the person that makes in romantic and how the guy looks as you etc. This is the true intimacy.

    I cant comment on lesbo/homo porn as i haven't seen it and know so little on the subject.

    i've had one night stands, i've had a regular f*ck buddy and i've had long term committed relationships, so i can compare sex with someone you care about and sex with someone you dont care about...

    yes, they are different scenarios, noone is disputing that

    quite why youre bringing that into this discussion, i dont really understand.

    what has it got to do with watching porn?

    the men ive watched porn with have been the longterm lovers, and it greatly enhanced our intimacy

    i did not feel degraded/used/objectified/cold/yadda yadda yadda

    i love watching porn with my lover

    if its not for you, fair enough. but no need, and no right, to take the high moral ground and pontificate about teh stste of other peoples relationships and their sexual preferences.


  • #285
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.


    I have been intimate with guys i barely know and it was so uncaring, a 'means to an end' to quote a poster here. and i can tell you that sex with someone you love is 1000000X times better in soo many ways for a women especially than with a guy you have know a few dates/weeks/hours and a guy who doesnt give a cr*p about you.
    porn is even colder and less intimate than having sex with strangers. I'm shocked no one has come on agreeing with me. Maybe not alot of posters here are having sex with someone they love and can't compare.

    I can't talk on facts and figure only opinons on this on folk sorry about my generalisation i realise that is all i can offer. But Sex can be so much more pleasurable with someone you trust and love and this is even more important than the 'mushy stuff' such as candles etc its the person that makes in romantic and how the guy looks as you etc. This is the true intimacy.

    I cant comment on lesbo/homo porn as i haven't seen it and know so little on the subject.

    So if I have sex with my husband in the bath with candles and petals and bubbly, it's great sex and we have a loving and caring relationship with true intimacy but if we have sex while watching porn, we magically suddenly have a lousy relationship and it's not nice anymore? :confused::confused::confused:

    By all means declare porn isn't for you but you can't make such sweeping generalisations and assumptions to foist on everyone else, especially as your experiences with porn and especially of porn within a relationship seem to be absolutely minimal.


  • #286
    sam34
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.

    i nearly forgot to mention this bit.

    are you implying that your boyfriend is so nice and romantic and sweet because he doesnt watch porn, and/or that he doesnt watch porn because he is so nice?

    in other words, are you saying that those who do watch porn are not nice, not romantic and not sweet??

    because if you are, thats complete bulls*it

    plenty of men watch porn and theyre not all the devil incarnate.

    watching porn and being a nice guy(or girl) are not mutually exclusive


  • #287
    oceanclub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,412 ✭✭✭oceanclub


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.

    That's an "and". Not a "because".

    P.


  • #288
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    I'm not going to reply to everything, I just wanted to comment on the bit below:
    serenacat wrote: »
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned

    That's a very specific type of porn, and easily accounts for less than 1% of porn. I don't see any reason to focus on those movies or use them an example of porn. That's like me saying all Gardai are corrupt because of the few bad apples in the force.

    You are purposefully taking an extremist viewpoint on porn. I don't know why you're choosing to do that.


  • #289
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Btw I have to say it's very refreshing to see people defending and having a realistic perception of porn. A few years ago things were very different!


  • #290
    1sittingduck
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭1sittingduck


    serenacat: like anyone else, I can't guarantee what your boyfriend does or doesn't do. But I hope that you're right and that he doesn't look at such material. I personally feel that when someone looks at porn while in a relationship, they're being unfaithful. Perhaps not as much as someone who does the deed with someone other than their spouse/partner, but they're enjoying it (and let's face it, who watches porn as punishment?) when they could be enjoying time with you (or the thought of being with you).


  • #291
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    I wouldn't be surprised if serenacat's boyfriend secretly looks at porn. No offence meant serenacat, but he is a male...


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  • #292
    Jumpy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,606 ✭✭✭Jumpy


    1sittingduck wrote: »
    serenacat: like anyone else, I can't guarantee what your boyfriend does or doesn't do. But I hope that you're right and that he doesn't look at such material. I personally feel that when someone looks at porn while in a relationship, they're being unfaithful. Perhaps not as much as someone who does the deed with someone other than their spouse/partner, but they're enjoying it (and let's face it, who watches porn as punishment?) when they could be enjoying time with you (or the thought of being with you).

    Hahahaha

    No.




    While such romanticism is sweet, its not entirely realistic.


  • #293
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    serenacat wrote: »
    my boyfriend doesnt watch porn and he is so nice and romantic and sweet i love him so much.


    I have been intimate with guys i barely know and it was so uncaring, a 'means to an end' to quote a poster here. and i can tell you that sex with someone you love is 1000000X times better in soo many ways for a women especially than with a guy you have know a few dates/weeks/hours and a guy who doesnt give a cr*p about you.
    porn is even colder and less intimate than having sex with strangers. I'm shocked no one has come on agreeing with me. Maybe not alot of posters here are having sex with someone they love and can't compare.

    I can't talk on facts and figure only opinons on this on folk sorry about my generalisation i realise that is all i can offer. But Sex can be so much more pleasurable with someone you trust and love and this is even more important than the 'mushy stuff' such as candles etc its the person that makes in romantic and how the guy looks as you etc. This is the true intimacy.

    I cant comment on lesbo/homo porn as i haven't seen it and know so little on the subject.

    Wow, would you like some sugar lumps for that high horse of yours?

    Me and my girlfriend are very much in love, we do romantic things for each other all the time, and i love nothing more than climbing into the tub with her, sharing a bottle of wine and giving her a neck rub while she leans against me,those nights are great and romantic

    Then there are times when we're both just horny and want sex, and we do watch porn together sometimes, its not a necessary thing, we do it because its fun, watching while we just lie beside each other until the point where you just have to rip each others clothes off is great, as anyone on here who does the same can testify to, as minidazzler already said, sometimes you just wanna fcuk, and its not just guys who feel this way either

    About your boyfriend "never" watching porn, i find that pretty hard to believe, I'd say a good 90-95% of guys do in some form or another, and those who do it often dont turn out to be raging, intimately retarded sex maniacs, porn is just a means to an end when you masturbate, some people can do it without watching anything, some people need a helping hand (pun fully intended:p )

    As for someone looking at porn being relative to cheating, thats just ludicrous, thats like saying you've cheated on your girlfriend because you watched a movie with some actress you fancied and had a few impure thoughts about her, and in fairness who doesnt do that? theres a whole thread of pics for the ladies on here to drool over of celebrity men, are all the girls who look through it cheating on their boyfriends? if so then I'd be guilty of cheating on my missus, with a man, cos I'd go gay for Johnny Depp:D


  • #294
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    serenacat wrote: »
    hey i actually did watch porn believe it or not as people kept talking about it and curiousity got to me i suppose. I naively thought that women might enjoy making it and isn't really harmful however this was my experience with porn
    a) didn't turn me on
    b) crap acting
    c) hated the way the guy talked to and treated the women she was spat on, called a S L U T and dragged by her hair... i wont go on as may get banned
    d) the boys i knew that watched in didn't treat women well at all
    e) any boy i was intimate with around age of 17-19 had weird ideas that i assumed he got from porn and saw a girl doing it there and decided to try it out on me
    f)i do think it can be addictive as a male friend of mine is obsessed and watches it every day and has never been with a girl and when he meets women he only wants one thing
    e) where is the romance? i can't fathom that women would watch it with their partners! why? it is sad that you need to watch others having sex when in a loving relationship you shouldnt need to watch others.

    What ever happened to nice music, sex with someone you are inlove with, baths, slow lighting etc... is romance dead?

    here is my advice delete the porn sites you have book marked on your internet and take a nice long bath with candles with your SO.

    a. Thats fair enough, doesnt do anything for a lot of people
    b. nobody watches porn for the acting, i prefer the stuff with no story at all, just get to the sex! i dont care if the fridge is broken or the pizza boy cant find the right house!
    c. Its porn, not Pride and Prejudice
    d. If thats the case you just know some assholes, as the overwhelming majority of men watch porn and treat women the way they should be, with respect
    e. Boys at the age of 17-19 would probably **** a grapefruit if they had the chance, after years of masturbating to the point of exhaustion the mere thought that a girl would touch your bits is overwhelming to most young men, as for wierd ideas, like what? wanting to put his pee-pee into your yoo-hoo?
    f.If he spends all his time watching porn then thats probably the reason he's never been with a girl, his days are probably spent juggling masturbating with World of Warcraft, or doing both at the time time
    g. romance isnt dead, i do romantic stuff for my missus all the time, and it was HER idea we watch porn together to begin with


  • #295
    naughto
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭naughto


    porn is savage i just watched some now for some call of duty


  • #296
    naughto
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,415 ✭✭✭naughto


    . romance isnt dead, i do romantic stuff for my missus all the time, and it was HER idea we watch porn together to begin with

    id hold on to here mate ya dont get many like here


  • #297
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    krudler wrote: »
    e. Boys at the age of 17-19 would probably **** a grapefruit if they had the chance

    I know a guy who microwaved a shoulder of pork, cut a hole in it, and had sex with it.

    He's actually pretty normal, successful guy!


  • #298
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    AARRRGH wrote: »
    I know a guy who microwaved a shoulder of pork, cut a hole in it, and had sex with it.

    He's actually pretty normal, successful guy!

    I blame that American Pie movie, bringing sex with inanimate objects into the mainstream :D


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    AARRRGH
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    krudler wrote: »
    I blame that American Pie movie, bringing sex with inanimate objects into the mainstream :D

    He actually did it before that movie!

    Actually come to think of it, maybe he's not that normal. I remember him telling me he told a mining company (or something) that he found a certain rock in a certain part of Galway. I don't know anything about rocks, but apparently this sort of rock should not be in Ireland and it means there is something valuable in the ground like diamonds or something. Anyway, they employed him for a week to help them find the exact location where he found the rock, but apparently on day two they realised he was crazy and went back to Dublin.

    ...


  • #300
    Chocolate Dots
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭Chocolate Dots


    I don't care at all if my boyfriend watches porn!! I watch it too with him. I'd be worried to be honest if he didn't. Porn gives us ideas :rolleyes:


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  • #301
    SerialComplaint
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,644 ✭✭✭SerialComplaint


    Two general comments;

    1) All commercial porn does indeed create an unrealistic expectation of sex. Just like Fair City creates an unrealistic expectation of life in Dublin. And Desperate Housewives creates an unrealistic expectation of live in California. And Grey's Anatomy creates an unrealistic expectation of a medical career. It's entertainment, folks.

    2) There are vast amounts of non-commercial porn out there, including mainstream sites like Flickr, where many people are very keen to share their own personal experiences on a non-commercial basis - real community spirit, as it were!


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