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Are all irish people to blame for the abuse in the Catholic Church?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,271 ✭✭✭irish_bob


    the majority of irish people back in the day revered the church above all else , the priest was by far the most important man in the parish , parents took great pride in thier sons becoming altar boys , it was an all consuming culture of both worship ( of the clergy ) and denial that allowed such horrors to be perpetrated on the defenseless , that the police also turned a blind eyes show just how much immunity the men in frocks had


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,190 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    stovelid wrote: »
    Easy to say it now.

    Ask somebody who is typically representative of my parent's generation - in their late 60s/early 70s and from a poor family that grew up in a small Irish rural community about how hard it must have been to challenge the church in your community.
    My mother grew up in an Irish rural village similar to your parents and is of the same age group .
    She said there was not a corner of family life that was not intruded on by the local church and priests .

    Even having a normal boyfriend / girlfriend relationship sometimes had to be conducted in secrecy because they (priests ) showed an unhealthy intrest into who was seeing who , were , and when .

    You might have thought something wasn't right or wrong but you said nowt

    Speaking your own mind was unheard off ,specially with a priest present .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,744 ✭✭✭funk-you


    Spacedog wrote: »
    Are all irish people to blame for the abuse in the Catholic Church?

    Yes, yes we are. Much in the same way all black people love fried chicken and all Romanians are swan eating thieves.

    -Funk


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    One of the priests was a software developer in the 80's, one of the best in Ireland apparently

    He designed a 'game' that groomed the kids, and persuaded them to take off their clothes and kiss him

    One day, the mother of one of the children he'd abused arrived to collect her daughter and while standing outside the door heard her child say 'will I put my clothes back on now?'

    Just heard that on the radio now...

    The point is that if he was 'just' a developer he would have been convicted earlier, he was a priest as well though and as such got the protection that the church and Gardai provided

    So no, everyone is not to blame. Only those that actively and knowingly hid the fact that abuse was happening are to blame, though that covers a lot of people


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    funk-you wrote: »
    Yes, yes we are. Much in the same way all black people love fried chicken and all Romanians are swan eating thieves.

    I always doubted my own complicity until you put it like that, Funk.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer


    How ridiculous trying to say the Irish public are to blame for the abuse.No excuses should be made whatsoever and everyone of them b@stards needs to be jailed. Just listening to the cases from the report on Prime time is making me sick.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,800 ✭✭✭Senna


    My uncle was a Garda in Galway during the early 60's, he was young and very approachable. A few of the local mothers approached him about abuse of their children by a local priest. He took the allegations very serious and began to follow up on them. He was told by the superintendent to forget about it, but he didn't.
    He was removed from the force and put into a physiatric hospital because he refused to say the allegations were false.

    I'm not sure how long he spent in the hospital or what they done to him, but he has never been the same since because of the treatment he got. He now lives in a specialised home and isn't in the best of mental health (although he can function independently and spends the day outside in town).

    The garda knew but brushed everything under the carpet, and i hope those ****ers are held responsible for the cover-up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,886 ✭✭✭Darlughda


    Every time this comes up I cannot stop the anger.

    I look at all these churches built at times of horrendous poverty amongst people. This particular hegemony has proved itself to be well beyond any kind of remit of what spiritual guardians should be.

    There are people I know, good people, who follow the Irish Catholic tradition, but both me and them are left with the question. How much did you really know? What could you have done?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 634 ✭✭✭Míshásta


    All the Irish people weren't unthinking followers of the Church in the past. There has always been a substantial minority who apposed the heavy influence of the church in matters concerning the right to divorce and contraception etc. They were quite vocal in their criticism - if it was known that there was this widespread abuse and cover-ups you may be sure they would have spoken up about it.

    I've been around for quite a bit, I like to think I'm reasonably well informed. People were not aware that this scandal was going on. It was very well concealed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    Not another thread....

    And no, not all Irish people are to blame as not all Irish people knew about the abuse, and not all Irish people were Roman Catholics.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,775 ✭✭✭Spacedog


    louisa200 wrote: »
    what i dont understand is how can any organisation take out insurance against claims of physical and sexual abuse.. and if they did then the insurance company who allowed this cover has as much if not more responsibility than the average joe blogg catholic on the street..

    Who do you think the "insurance company" is? FBD? Quinn Direct? The insurance company was and is the IRISH GOVERNMENT, it's YOU! it's YOUR TAXES!

    "the insurance company who allowed this cover" = "the average joe blogg catholic on the street"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,331 ✭✭✭✭bronte


    Senna wrote: »
    My uncle was a Garda in Galway during the early 60's, he was young and very approachable. A few of the local mothers approached him about abuse of their children by a local priest. He took the allegations very serious and began to follow up on them. He was told by the superintendent to forget about it, but he didn't.
    He was removed from the force and put into a physiatric hospital because he refused to say the allegations were false.

    I'm not sure how long he spent in the hospital or what they done to him, but he has never been the same since because of the treatment he got. He now lives in a specialised home and isn't in the best of mental health (although he can function independently and spends the day outside in town).

    The garda knew but brushed everything under the carpet, and i hope those ****ers are held responsible for the cover-up.
    That's disturbing. How could they get away with this ? :mad:
    Ireland has been ruled by the church for far too long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,474 ✭✭✭drkpower


    How ridiculous trying to say the Irish public are to blame for the abuse.No excuses should be made whatsoever and everyone of them b@stards needs to be jailed. Just listening to the cases from the report on Prime time is making me sick.

    Saying that the public generally are somehow at fault does not in any way alter the responsibility of the abuser or in any way provide an excuse for them. They should be punished as severely as is possible.

    But to stop this type of thing from occurring again, we cant just lock up the current abusers. We need to look at how it was allowed to happen and how it took so long to stop. The Primetime sub-heading is very apt; the 'denial and the deceit':the abusers and facilitators were engaged in a criminal deceit - but the majority of the public were engaged in a wholesale denial.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Spacedog wrote: »
    Since when the government decided to limit the liability of the Church, long before the extent of the abuse was known, and that it is now known that the church knew the true extent of the abuse (and the projected financial liability) and covered up, then accepted the settlement of liability.

    Seems to me that the Irish people were perfectly happy with this situation. We were and ARE all perfectly happy to foot the full bill of liability, through taxation, in a time of recession for crimes we did not commit, did not cover up, and had no control over what so ever.

    Those responsible are:

    1) The individuals who perpetrated the abuse (many have escaped justice)
    2) The Catholic Church upper hierarchy from Archbishops upwards to the Pope in Dublin and in Rome who limited their liability through careful management and manipulation of law, political influence, and public relations.
    3) The Public Services and past Government for turning their backs on these crimes and having faith in the Church to do the right thing at it's own expense, instead of following an ethical criminal process. (perhaps for fear of political unpopularity by a still largely faithful public.)
    4) The Government of the present for promising action to the reporters and the press, but will say or do nothing else until the next report comes out in 10 years time...
    5) The Irish People for being aware of this exact situation long before this report was published, and not having the courage, passion or the balls to demand justice from the perpetrators, or severe financial penalties from the institution that allowed it.
    Jeez, why the irrepressible need for scapegoating at times like these?
    OK Rant Over, mods feel free to lock the thread for flaming like you did with the last one I posted a few weeks ago when the issue didn't matter to anyone...
    Tad disingenuous there, seeing as you posted it in the Christianity forum. ;)

    I also disagree with people who say "anyone who knew about it and turned a blind eye was to blame". If it were only that simple...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,847 ✭✭✭bleg


    **** sake. Blaming the whole ****ing country? Seriously?

    What next? The floods?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 199 ✭✭Stones85


    One of the priests was a software developer in the 80's, one of the best in Ireland apparently

    He designed a 'game' that groomed the kids, and persuaded them to take off their clothes and kiss him

    One day, the mother of one of the children he'd abused arrived to collect her daughter and while standing outside the door heard her child say 'will I put my clothes back on now?'

    Just heard that on the radio now...

    The point is that if he was 'just' a developer he would have been convicted earlier, he was a priest as well though and as such got the protection that the church and Gardai provided

    So no, everyone is not to blame. Only those that actively and knowingly hid the fact that abuse was happening are to blame, though that covers a lot of people


    As a father I have to say this........ if I was the parent in this situation; I'd be in jail for the events that would have followed and the parish would be minus a priest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,229 ✭✭✭pathway33


    One of the priests was a software developer in the 80's, one of the best in Ireland apparently

    He designed a 'game' that groomed the kids, and persuaded them to take off their clothes and kiss him

    One day, the mother of one of the children he'd abused arrived to collect her daughter and while standing outside the door heard her child say 'will I put my clothes back on now?'

    Just heard that on the radio now...

    Yes it's on page 471 of the report. The report goes on from that to say (same page) 'The mother wrote a letter of complaint to the parish priest. The parish priest showed the letter to Fr Cicero (the software developer).
    [...] Father Cicero put the letter in his pocket and the parish priest thought that was the end of the matter.'

    (typing not in bold in the report)

    I truly feel sick. Even when people did report things, nothing happened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,474 ✭✭✭drkpower


    bleg wrote: »
    **** sake. Blaming the whole ****ing country? Seriously?

    What next? The floods?

    Yep; global warming - we are all to blame for that too....!
    And the economy.
    And Jedward.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,619 ✭✭✭Bob_Harris


    Oh of course we're all responsible.

    Just like somehow we're all responsible for the current state of the economy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 426 ✭✭ddef


    That has to be one of the most ignorant questions I have ever read on boards.
    I am Irish, and no, I am not to blame for some sick minded freak abusing the trust he was given with this countries children.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,775 ✭✭✭Spacedog


    OK, just so i understand... If the Irish people are not responsible for the abuse in the Catholic Church, then why the fu*k are we as tax payers, paying for the entire liability limitation insurance claim of the Catholic Church? :mad:

    I'm looking for an answer here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,474 ✭✭✭drkpower


    ddef wrote: »
    That has to be one of the most ignorant questions I have ever read on boards.
    I am Irish, and no, I am not to blame for some sick minded freak abusing the trust he was given with this countries children.

    Do you (or the public generally) not have any responsibility for entrusting these people with the education/housing/training of the nation's children with no particular need for any real oversight? Or for not doing more when so many people had suspicions, at least?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    drkpower wrote: »
    And Jedward.

    Jedward. Time machine. Letterfrack 1950.

    Admit it. It's tempting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 407 ✭✭CliffHuxtabel


    Im in my mid 20s. I wasnt around during the era in which the abuse took place.

    While I have total sympathy for the poor kids who were abused, I wasnt to blame.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,355 ✭✭✭dyl10


    Nope


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer


    drkpower wrote: »
    Saying that the public generally are somehow at fault does not in any way alter the responsibility of the abuser or in any way provide an excuse for them. They should be punished as severely as is possible.

    But to stop this type of thing from occurring again, we cant just lock up the current abusers. We need to look at how it was allowed to happen and how it took so long to stop. The Primetime sub-heading is very apt; the 'denial and the deceit':the abusers and facilitators were engaged in a criminal deceit - but the majority of the public were engaged in a wholesale denial.

    Your right,but to say the public were to blame when everytime a case was brought forward by a member of the public,it was either dismissed by the bishops and Gardai,or the priest was moved to another parish. People stood up against this mess again and again and again and again they were ignored. I would think it would be safe to say that every church-goer is absolutly disgusted by the recent reports over the last few years. To say they are to blame is an insult to be honest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,769 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    Gonna disagree with most and say the OP has a good point.

    Think of all the parents who put their own daughters in magdalane homes, they seem exactly the kind of people who's turn a blind eye to child abuse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,626 ✭✭✭✭My name is URL


    Gonna disagree with most and say the OP has a good point.

    Think of all the parents who put their own daughters in magdalane homes, they seem exactly the kind of people who's turn a blind eye to child abuse.

    Well considering that people decided to send their kids there simply to fall in line with what was the acceptable thing to do at the time, then you're right

    again it boils down to the church though, because they were the ones that instilled guilt in people for having children out of wedlock etc


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,474 ✭✭✭drkpower


    To say they are to blame is an insult to be honest.

    I dont know if 'blame' is the right word but we need to accept that the attitude of the man on the street (denial; deference to the church; fear to confront their 'betters') helped to sustain what both the abusers and the conspirators/facilitators were doing. It is similar in a way to the acticities of Dr Neary in Drogheda; while he was clearly to blame, the attitude of deference of other hospital staff allowed his activities to continue.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,492 ✭✭✭MementoMori


    Follow the link below to read the report
    (I'd almost say it's everyone's civic duty to read this ; I know it's not the most pleasant reading matter and it's easy to write this off as more of the same, but this seems almost part of the Catholic Church's defence at this stage.

    http://www.justice.ie/en/JELR/Pages/PB09000504

    Once again the hierarchy of the Catholic Church confirming what a disgusting reprensible organisation they are. As an example of utter evil in this country, I don't think there's been any organisation which comes close.

    Some people think this is historical fact - the report covers the period from 1975 to 2004 which is a pretty recent period of time.
    it is abundantly clear, from the Commission‟s investigation as revealed in the cases of the 46 priests in the representative sample (see Chapters 11 to 57), that child sexual abuse by clerics was widespread throughout the period under review.
    Of the 46 priests examined, 11 pleaded guilty to or were convicted in the criminal courts of sexual assaults on children.
    1.14 The volume of revelations of child sexual abuse by clergy over the past 35 years or so has been described by a Church source as a “tsunami” of sexual abuse. He went on to describe the “tsunami” as “an earthquake deep beneath the surface hidden from view”. The clear implication of that statement is that the Church, in common with the general public, was somehow taken by surprise by the volume of the revelations. Officials of the Archdiocese of Dublin and other Church authorities have repeatedly claimed to have been, prior to the late 1990s, on „a learning curve‟ in relation to the matter. Having completed its investigation, the Commission does not accept the truth of such claims and assertions.
    1.15 The Dublin Archdiocese‟s pre-occupations in dealing with cases of child sexual abuse, at least until the mid 1990s, were the maintenance of secrecy, the avoidance of scandal, the protection of the reputation of the Church, and the preservation of its assets. All other considerations, including the welfare of children and justice for victims, were subordinated to these priorities. The Archdiocese did not implement its own canon law rules and did its best to avoid any application of the law of the State.


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